Glen thanks from your comments!!
Living across the pond I cannot understand how on a Cuck forum you within the States seem continually get confused between a Cuckold relationship/ Swinging/ and the looser version a Hot wife.
A cuck does not have any control over what his wife does and with who, that is the essence of the relationship.
Swingers/ Hot Wife -ing/ and dogging are all in varying degrees a life style of mutual agreement where as Cuckold relationship is not.
Safety?? from what I know you have a higher violence level than us in Europe, over here unless some one is stupid they are no more unsafe than crossing the road.
We do not have what you call "Adult Theatres and Glory Holes" so I cannot judge if they are safe.
But in our Dance clubs whether they are Black,White, Green or Yellow the guys pick up the girls and the girls go there mostly to be picked up and both actually enjoy the dance.
My Wife has over the years been slapped about a few times but that was from her regular B/F at the time, never from a casual pick up.
If you are referring to STD's, most recent surveys show that chlamydia is the one to be feared for straight men and women, and is rising all the time
The WHO recent survey on Aids has proved what most of us have known for years Drug users/ Homosexual males and of course persons from the African Continent are most at risk.
The Clubs that my Wife and her type frequent are a Mecca for Black guys looking for White Women to screw, there is no probs.
Over here a lot of Black guys party at week ends with their White Women, there are paid parties where a house is used and the drink is sold.
Where is the discretion ? Why is it needed, my Wife is now working for a large Management Company who look after some of the top music talent.
She is good at her job, gets a horrendous salary and has slept with many of the Black Stars and their entourage, I know Brilliant Lawyers who by day are defending Black guys in court and by night are sleeping with other black guys.
Like attracts like.
Over here we have never had the intense racial problems that you across the Pond have, within Europe the people are Brits/ French/Irish/Spanish etc
Unlike you we do not have different classes.
I cannot compare being brought up within the States like you, When I lived there I treated people like we do in Europe and even today am horrified when you ask someone where they are from they say " African American" very rarely NY, FA, or MA.
Very disturbing.