Recent content by mistyD

You are once again, spot on. The married guys are the BEST lovers. They get some excitement from the taboo part and they also are trying extra hard (no pun) because they want to come back next week. The single guys are getting laid all the time and I'm just a little bit of a kinky part of it...

Yeah I think we are in total agreement then. I will say I do much more enjoy the sex when my husband is not in the room. I can act out and say things to my date that I might not say to my husband (I guess that is weird a bit). And for sure if he suggested guys from high school, I would find...

Wow, I like totally agree with everything you said here. Like everything. but then you were agreeing with me, so this is like a self-licking ice cream cone.For me, I think I was starting this because I felt badly for him that he found out about me having an affair. In my heart I really...

Rob, It is definitely real, I just didn't know about it that's all. I still don't know another couple in this lifestyle. Maybe that's what drove me to come to this site. But one thing I want to comment on ...and I think this is a common theme I see on here...."The juxtaposition of a loving...

Although I would say that I am far far from naive, and was overly wild and slutty in hs and college, I was totally surprised by this lifestyle. Had never even imagined it....yet I had had sex at 16 married at 22 and then again a few years later....so I had kinda been thru sexual situations...

Well, we weren't really swinging cause there were only 3 of us and my husband was only watching. But that doesn't matter. You are correct to say don't do this stuff at home. It was my husband's idea to watch some other guy with me in OUR bed. This turned him on a lot. His daughter was NOT...

I'm sure my strict upbringing had lots to do with me being so rebellious and promiscuous in hs. I acted out alot.

You are spot on. Maybe you should consider detective work! just kidding. Not only did I work, but I travel for my work, and I travel often with co-workers. That's exactly how this happened. He was flirty, I was flirty and somehow the fact that we were married didn't matter at all. The sex...

I like your comments. Thanks.

I have to admit that I didn't even know the term when my husband and I got started in this. In my case, I was cheating with a guy at work and my husband found out and I said, let's just separate or throw in the towel (we have no children), and after discussion and wine and more discussion he...

See -- there's that "Catholic upbringing" thing again. It's amazing, especially with my friends who grew up Catholic, what a profound effect this had on them AND me! And I'm not convinced it was in a good way because at least in my case it felt like rules that could not be questioned nor...

Who knows, maybe today I would be a bead-counting good catholic girl if my parents had not been so adamant and demanding. I'm guessing that's good material for a shrink. From my perspective I completely agree with your assessment. I do believe that the Muslim religion is even larger than...

That made me smile, cuz I used to think I was religious oppressed when I was growing up. There were so many rules and for me the dress rules were, I thought, unfair. Good catholic girls don't wear blouses cut that low. no dresses too short. No this, no that. I look back and say, hey maybe...

I completely agree. My affair had been ongoing for more than a year - with a guy from work, exactly as you described. I don't think my husband would have every found out from me...but HIS wife found out and somehow contacted my husband (hubby was vague in how she contacted him). I don't...

I tend to agree, although the cuckold part for us was completely his idea (after he caught me cheating). Hard to have complete trust when you meet while cheating!