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I am a married white male in my late 20's. My wife and I have been married for almost 9 years. I often view interracial porn that is mostly homemade involving real white wives with black men. Over the years this has evolved for me, it initially was just me being turned on by the reality of homemade porn but then it moved on to wives and them cheating with black men and so on. I enjoy watching this because I think it’s dirty and kinky but I never fantasize about it being my wife with other men. I like the thought of the wives being dirty and their husbands being humiliated. I know that my wife knows that I have watched this (most likely from my browser history) because she has made reference in an argument about it in an attempt to piss me off by saying that because I enjoy interracial porn and such that there may be a possibility of me being gay or bi..lol. Anyway, I recently discovered by snooping on her phone that she has been watching interracial porn now almost exclusively. I have not mentioned that I found this at all but I did bring up porn and masturbation the other day during a normal conversation and she told me how she had made herself orgasm twice while watching a man perform oral on a woman. She however, did not mention how it was a black man in the video…I only know this because I watched part of the video while on her phone and it was the same as she described. In the past ( as far as I know) she was never attracted to black men but I think I may have triggered her to watch the porn I was watching therefore implanting the fantasy. To get to the point, I do not want my wife sleeping with other men at all and I think she may have got that impression from what I have been watching. I feel that her new found fantasy may become an obsession and she will lose interest in me and I am reluctant to talk to her about it because If she knows I don’t approve it may become more appealing to her like putting gas on the fire for lack of other words… What should I do??
Recently I've tried to show my strength to my wife and reestablish myself as the man she needs and wants and I think that over the past week or so I have been successful. However this subject came up the other night once we came home from having drinks and it didn't go to well. Earlier that night in casual conversation I brought up cuckold porn and she told me about one of the scenes she had watched. Later that night, (while buzzed) I brought up that I was not comfortable with her watching that type of fantasy and she became angry and blamed me for her ever watching it in the first place and that she would now watch it out of spite. Eventually I explained and promised that I just wouldn't watch it if she wouldn't and she agreed...but I don't believe her. When I came home from being out yesterday the search history had been deleted. I mean I did start it, I just hope it stays a fantasy for her. I realize it's my fault and want us to be open, now it's like a large elephant in the room and I want to know if that's what she wants or if its just fantasy. I think that because the way things went last time if I try to talk with her she may clam up and keep it to herself....which could be bad.... I've thought of just telling her why I watch it and also maybe telling her some things I would be open to such as same room sex with another cpl or having a m or f watch us have sex. What do you think?---
This is a serious question. Thank you.
I am a married white male in my late 20's. My wife and I have been married for almost 9 years. I often view interracial porn that is mostly homemade involving real white wives with black men. Over the years this has evolved for me, it initially was just me being turned on by the reality of homemade porn but then it moved on to wives and them cheating with black men and so on. I enjoy watching this because I think it’s dirty and kinky but I never fantasize about it being my wife with other men. I like the thought of the wives being dirty and their husbands being humiliated. I know that my wife knows that I have watched this (most likely from my browser history) because she has made reference in an argument about it in an attempt to piss me off by saying that because I enjoy interracial porn and such that there may be a possibility of me being gay or bi..lol. Anyway, I recently discovered by snooping on her phone that she has been watching interracial porn now almost exclusively. I have not mentioned that I found this at all but I did bring up porn and masturbation the other day during a normal conversation and she told me how she had made herself orgasm twice while watching a man perform oral on a woman. She however, did not mention how it was a black man in the video…I only know this because I watched part of the video while on her phone and it was the same as she described. In the past ( as far as I know) she was never attracted to black men but I think I may have triggered her to watch the porn I was watching therefore implanting the fantasy. To get to the point, I do not want my wife sleeping with other men at all and I think she may have got that impression from what I have been watching. I feel that her new found fantasy may become an obsession and she will lose interest in me and I am reluctant to talk to her about it because If she knows I don’t approve it may become more appealing to her like putting gas on the fire for lack of other words… What should I do??
Recently I've tried to show my strength to my wife and reestablish myself as the man she needs and wants and I think that over the past week or so I have been successful. However this subject came up the other night once we came home from having drinks and it didn't go to well. Earlier that night in casual conversation I brought up cuckold porn and she told me about one of the scenes she had watched. Later that night, (while buzzed) I brought up that I was not comfortable with her watching that type of fantasy and she became angry and blamed me for her ever watching it in the first place and that she would now watch it out of spite. Eventually I explained and promised that I just wouldn't watch it if she wouldn't and she agreed...but I don't believe her. When I came home from being out yesterday the search history had been deleted. I mean I did start it, I just hope it stays a fantasy for her. I realize it's my fault and want us to be open, now it's like a large elephant in the room and I want to know if that's what she wants or if its just fantasy. I think that because the way things went last time if I try to talk with her she may clam up and keep it to herself....which could be bad.... I've thought of just telling her why I watch it and also maybe telling her some things I would be open to such as same room sex with another cpl or having a m or f watch us have sex. What do you think?---