Hi all,
we are a happily married couple for about 30 years and we begun our change of relationship approx. 10 years ago after a discussion period of 5 years. Now we are both happy with the developments of our adventures even if it was planned a little different.
At the beginning one of my biggest wishes was to be present and watch during love sessions. To her lovers my wife Nadine is more submissive and therefore we are looking for more dominant lovers. But after finding a person fitting in our procedure, my wife informed them that husband wants to watch. Within a period of seconds the so called dominant lovers (most of them) lost their self- assurance and did not want to go the way together with both of us.
Then we had a decision to make: Do we want to start, then we have to accept the fact that lover does not want to have hubby present or we leave it. We decided to give it a try and my wife told her lovers that she would be cheating behind my back and everything went well. I learnd to enjoy it to hear of the adventures after my wife came home and told me everything crystal clear.
Now to the topic. When my wife returned from her date during the night or in the morning she always came into bed to cuddle while telling me every detail from her love session BUT before joining me in bed she always took a shower. At first that was pretty normal also for me, but once I had to pick her up after a date after celebrating her birthday she climbed into my car in a slightly drunken condition and obviously very well used. I stopped the car and kissed her, she responded. I had the feeling that her breath and also her mouth had a used condition and I liked it very much.
The next morning after breakfast I started a conversation of the adventure we had last night. I told my wife that it was a huge turn on for me having her in my arms in this used condition. But my wife excused for her "mistake"and apologized for her behaviour. She said that she feels very dirty and like a slut now, kissing in this condition immediately after her date.
For me it was/is impossible to convince my wife repeating this adventure. I tried everything, smart convincing, pushing, begging but without any success. First task after comming home after a date is a warm shower.
Your comments are welcommed!
we are a happily married couple for about 30 years and we begun our change of relationship approx. 10 years ago after a discussion period of 5 years. Now we are both happy with the developments of our adventures even if it was planned a little different.
At the beginning one of my biggest wishes was to be present and watch during love sessions. To her lovers my wife Nadine is more submissive and therefore we are looking for more dominant lovers. But after finding a person fitting in our procedure, my wife informed them that husband wants to watch. Within a period of seconds the so called dominant lovers (most of them) lost their self- assurance and did not want to go the way together with both of us.
Then we had a decision to make: Do we want to start, then we have to accept the fact that lover does not want to have hubby present or we leave it. We decided to give it a try and my wife told her lovers that she would be cheating behind my back and everything went well. I learnd to enjoy it to hear of the adventures after my wife came home and told me everything crystal clear.
Now to the topic. When my wife returned from her date during the night or in the morning she always came into bed to cuddle while telling me every detail from her love session BUT before joining me in bed she always took a shower. At first that was pretty normal also for me, but once I had to pick her up after a date after celebrating her birthday she climbed into my car in a slightly drunken condition and obviously very well used. I stopped the car and kissed her, she responded. I had the feeling that her breath and also her mouth had a used condition and I liked it very much.
The next morning after breakfast I started a conversation of the adventure we had last night. I told my wife that it was a huge turn on for me having her in my arms in this used condition. But my wife excused for her "mistake"and apologized for her behaviour. She said that she feels very dirty and like a slut now, kissing in this condition immediately after her date.
For me it was/is impossible to convince my wife repeating this adventure. I tried everything, smart convincing, pushing, begging but without any success. First task after comming home after a date is a warm shower.
Your comments are welcommed!