My wife and I have been married for over 25 years. I'm the only man she has had intercourse with. The idea of watching her with another man is a real turn-on for me. I've worked the soft swing approach with limited success. She feels that she is too old to play those games.
The one thing she does love is a good message. I approached her one night about hiring a handsome young man to give her a massage - a full nude massage. Much to my amazement, she said that she would really like that. She then told me it would make her very wet, and she asked if that was OK with me. I told her yes, then offered that she could have the massage with me present or out of the room. She stated that she would like me in the room.
She admitted that it would make her very hot, and that she would be ready for hot sex afterward.
Any advice on doing this? Should I start slow - have a man give her the massage and then have him leave? Should I talk to him before hand and have him work his fingers way up her thighs and brush up against her vulva? Should I have him brush across her nipples?
Has anyone done this before?
Thanks
The one thing she does love is a good message. I approached her one night about hiring a handsome young man to give her a massage - a full nude massage. Much to my amazement, she said that she would really like that. She then told me it would make her very wet, and she asked if that was OK with me. I told her yes, then offered that she could have the massage with me present or out of the room. She stated that she would like me in the room.
She admitted that it would make her very hot, and that she would be ready for hot sex afterward.
Any advice on doing this? Should I start slow - have a man give her the massage and then have him leave? Should I talk to him before hand and have him work his fingers way up her thighs and brush up against her vulva? Should I have him brush across her nipples?
Has anyone done this before?
Thanks