Are Cuckold marriages real?
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From the many, many hotwife husbands and cucks I've corresponded with over the years, I think bascimarriedmale has it right in many cases. Often it's a result of the guy being cheated on by a girlfriend or wife, then internally eroticizing the response as a coping mechanism. There may also be a genetic behavioral link as well. Some men get excited by it, and some grow bitter and distrusting of women in general. It's a more common male fantasy than a female one, so it has more to do with the makeup of the male psyche.
Are u guys sure its a male fantasy only?
What about the many women who love to get fucked by multiple guys?
I remember 20 years ago in college there were several girls who would literary sleep with a different guy every week!
Im sure girls like them would seek a cuckold marriage with a cuck husband, where they would want a husband who would share them around, or atleast let them fuck whoever they want
What about the many women who love to get fucked by multiple guys?
I remember 20 years ago in college there were several girls who would literary sleep with a different guy every week!
Im sure girls like them would seek a cuckold marriage with a cuck husband, where they would want a husband who would share them around, or atleast let them fuck whoever they want
I think this is a complex topic. Being kinda in the middle of this now, I'm not sure it works as a quote unquote normal marriage because of family complications (doesn't have to be but often is) and just emotions. Raw emotions get in the way of married emotions.redheads said:
Ours started because of me cheating. He found out. I wasn't sure we should even try to stick it out be he wanted to and suggested that I date other guys. And said he'd want to hear the details and/or watch. I found this very strange but since I was already not the most happy gal at home I thought would try it. That's how it started for us. So yes can be real, but I question how long it can last. Two "issues" that happened....husband wanted to watch in our bedroom. It was important to him that I have sex with the guy in our bed. I was fine with this. However, one time, at the end of a "date" as we 3 were leaving the bedroom, his teen daughter from another marriage walks by just as we are exiting the bedroom and even at 13 I think she could figure out that things didn't look right. My hair was a mess. The other guy had a piece of this clothing over his arm. It was rather obvious to the casual observer. I felt embarrassed and my husband still doesn't know how to address that. I think we just leave it alone. But it's definitely a complication....or just have to be more careful. Another complication is one of the guys that I see is beginning to tug at my heartstrings. I'm wanting to see him without my husband there. And to make matters EVEN more complex, he's married and his wife doesn't know about this "dating" arrangement. Soooo....this CAN work, but it has lots and lots of issues and lots of complexities. I doubt we will stay together thru this. He felt it would bring us closer, but it has not. Just my two cents worth.
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Thank you for your open and honest answer. I belong to a few HW/Cuck websites and you seldom here the real truth (with regard to the dangers and survivability of these type marriages). Yeah, I like the taboo nature of the stories but sometimes am very frustrated that some, more naive readers will take some of these masturbatory fap-bait tales as gospel and use them as a template in their own marriage/relationship.mistyD said:
Truth is, some fantasies should stay fantasies.
For us we started out swinging with other couples but I was not having any fun because all the guys were lousy lovers so I told my husband I wanted to stop. He said he understood completely and apologized for me not having any fun with the guys and he offered to make it up to me by finding me a handsome, well endowed black man to play with. I jumped at the offer and told him to set it up. My husband showed me pics of guys from the swing sites he was looking at and I narrowed it down to one sexy black man that really turned me on in his pics and told my husband to set up the date. We met at a restaurant and was immediately turned on my his who demeanor and sexuality. After we talked a while I smiled at my husband and put my hand on my soon to be new lover James thigh and said "do you live close by?" and he said he did and I said, "lets go check out your place". I told my husband to take care of the bill and James and I got up and walked outside. When my husband got outside James and I were inside his car making out. When My husband knocked on the window I told him to follow us to James house and that I was going to ride with James. After we left the parking lot I leaned over and unzipped James Pants and pulled out his cock and started sucking his cock as we drove to his house. Hi big black cock was so beautiful and smooth! When we got to James house he took my hand and led me in to his house with my husband following us. As soon as we got in the door Jame and I were kissing passionately and then I got on my knees and started sucking his cock again. After a few minutes James pulled me back up and kissed me looked over at my husband and said "your wife is so hot and sexy and beautiful!! Thank you so much for introducing us!" and I turned to my husband and said, "sweetie. Can you get the overnight back from out car? I have to agree with James. I am so happy you introduced us!" and I turned to James again and kissed him passionately and deeply as my husband turned to go back out to the car to get my over night back.basicmarriedmale said:
By the time my husband got back inside James and I were already in his bedroom, naked and fucking. I was on top of James, bouncing on top of his gorgeous black dick, kissing him and moaning with pleasure. James fucked me over and over and we fell asleep together and in the morning I told my husband to go get us all something to eat and thanked him again for introducing me to James. When my husband got back James and I were in the shower fucking again. I was so hot for James and I could tell he was really hot for me. James told me how much it turned him on to fuck another man's wife in front of her husband and I told James that I had to admit that I thought it was pretty hot too.
When we finally got dressed and we were ready to leave I kissed James passionately goodby and turned to my husband and said "lets make this a regular thing honey, ok?" and he just nodded his said and said ok.
And that was the beginning for us. I have been cuckolding my husband for over 20 years now and he had developed into the perfect cuckold husband.
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I feel this is certainly the place to be open. Truth is - very few people do this cucking thing or whatever you call it. I find it quite hot at times but you read my story....I think I find it so good because I'm not really a marriage kind of gal.RHowe said:
It's funny how people think of themselves as experts and even make up percentages in their answers. E.g.: 70% of all cuckolds became that way after marriage!
The truth is that no credible studies have ever been done and no one knows for sure. We can only speak for ourselves and the people that we personally know.
My wife and I are on our second marriage, when we dated - both newly divorced - she told me that she wanted a swing relationship but didn't know exactly what. After we married, we found that we enjoy having her fuck black men while I watched after some trial and error.
It's as simple as that.
We don't do any extreme things such as gang bangs, pregnancies, cream pies, humiliation, bi contact, etc. We just arrange to meet black guys and if she likes him, we take him home and I watch them fuck. Happens about once a month. We are for real.
I don't use these forums to meet potential partners for us because the odds are very low to find someone who is real and not playing games and who lives within a half hour drive from us. Of course, I'm always open to the idea of meeting someone but I doubt it will come from places like this.
My advice is that if you're not in a relationship but think you want to watch, try finding a woman who wants to swing as part of her relationship or is at least open to it. Discuss it with her before you get serious with her. Many single women in their 30s or 40s are open to the idea. If you're currently married and on the fence about it, try something small at first. Have your wife dress up in lingerie and give a black guy a hand job while you watch. Something small to test the waters. If you find that you don't like it, no harm done. But if you do like , do more the next time, and then more, and then more...next thing you know, she's fucking while you watch. Take things slow.
Remember that all this is supposed to be fun, not scary and nerve racking.
The truth is that no credible studies have ever been done and no one knows for sure. We can only speak for ourselves and the people that we personally know.
My wife and I are on our second marriage, when we dated - both newly divorced - she told me that she wanted a swing relationship but didn't know exactly what. After we married, we found that we enjoy having her fuck black men while I watched after some trial and error.
It's as simple as that.
We don't do any extreme things such as gang bangs, pregnancies, cream pies, humiliation, bi contact, etc. We just arrange to meet black guys and if she likes him, we take him home and I watch them fuck. Happens about once a month. We are for real.
I don't use these forums to meet potential partners for us because the odds are very low to find someone who is real and not playing games and who lives within a half hour drive from us. Of course, I'm always open to the idea of meeting someone but I doubt it will come from places like this.
My advice is that if you're not in a relationship but think you want to watch, try finding a woman who wants to swing as part of her relationship or is at least open to it. Discuss it with her before you get serious with her. Many single women in their 30s or 40s are open to the idea. If you're currently married and on the fence about it, try something small at first. Have your wife dress up in lingerie and give a black guy a hand job while you watch. Something small to test the waters. If you find that you don't like it, no harm done. But if you do like , do more the next time, and then more, and then more...next thing you know, she's fucking while you watch. Take things slow.
Remember that all this is supposed to be fun, not scary and nerve racking.
Do you often go to other people's houses for sex right after you meet them and spend the night? I find that to be highly unusual.CTWifeBlackCockSlut said:
Most swingers don't do it at the man's house or apartment for security reasons and fear of a hidden camera. Spending the night at his house the first meeting is also unusual. Also, did you show each other your STD free cards before sex?
Well, judging from your posts, it seems like you get off criticizing other people's posts and for someone in the lifestyle you don't seem to be very tolerant at all of other peoples approach to the lifestyle. I suppose you expected me to tell you everything we did to vet this guy or to verify his STD status or how we deal with safety issues?cuckytom said:
I guess you have never been to a swing part before either where many if not most of the people you meet there you are meeting for the first time and you make a decision about whether you are going to fuck them or not based on conversation and and interaction.
Anyway, thanks so much for you kind thoughts.
This does not sound good, Ms. mistyD.mistyD said:
There's nothing wrong with you fucking a married man, but if you think he's going to leave his wife for you that's probably an illusion — especially if they have children.
Even if he does leave his wife for you, and you leave your cuckold husband for him, chances are that will not work out well. One reason would be: couples in that situation tend not to trust each other. That is, he would tend not to trust you, because you have already proven to him that you will cuckold your husband (with him), and he has already proven to you that he will "cheat" on his wife (with you).
I can say I'm in a very real cuckold marriage. That wasn't my plan when I was dating her, proposed, and married her but soon into the marriage I realized it was something I wanted and after some convincing she agreed she wanted it too. It was probably easier us to move there as I married a woman who was clearly a slut in high school and the us navy where I met her. After getting married I'd ask he to tell me about all the different guys and sexual adventures she's had with them. I also learned how she lost get virginity to a much older hung black guy and how, while in the Navy, fucked over 15 different black guys, including a hung doctor (psychiatrist) who'd fuck or have her blow him every day in his office. I knew I wanted to see this side of her and after a bit of encouragement, she was not looking back and still hasn't.
The first paragraph captures my reality well. A religious leader once said that it is usual to talk about men committing adultery but the reality is women are just as likely to be unfaithful to their husbands and that the ones who admit to it are likely to be the minority. If she hadn't made the mistake of introducing one of our children to her boyfriend my wife's cheating might have gone unnoticed (my suspicions notwithstanding). When her affair was out in the open I had the choice kick her out or live with it. I chose the latter. We are still together.basicmarriedmale said:
