CorrectMike and Chris said:Often the cuckold marriage involves the woman seeking other partners and not the man sharing her. The woman is in control
That isn't the only format for a hotwife / cuckold husband marriage, but since you've claimed to be your wife's cuckold in earlier posts, that implies you must know there are, in fact, marriages of this nature.redheads said:Are they? Do women agree to marry men fully knowing they will share them with other men?
I think this is a complex topic. Being kinda in the middle of this now, I'm not sure it works as a quote unquote normal marriage because of family complications (doesn't have to be but often is) and just emotions. Raw emotions get in the way of married emotions.redheads said:Are they? Do women agree to marry men fully knowing they will share them with other men?
Thank you for your open and honest answer. I belong to a few HW/Cuck websites and you seldom here the real truth (with regard to the dangers and survivability of these type marriages). Yeah, I like the taboo nature of the stories but sometimes am very frustrated that some, more naive readers will take some of these masturbatory fap-bait tales as gospel and use them as a template in their own marriage/relationship.mistyD said:I think this is a complex topic. Being kinda in the middle of this now, I'm not sure it works as a quote unquote normal marriage because of family complications (doesn't have to be but often is) and just emotions. Raw emotions get in the way of married emotions.
Ours started because of me cheating. He found out. I wasn't sure we should even try to stick it out be he wanted to and suggested that I date other guys. And said he'd want to hear the details and/or watch. I found this very strange but since I was already not the most happy gal at home I thought would try it. That's how it started for us. So yes can be real, but I question how long it can last. Two "issues" that happened....husband wanted to watch in our bedroom. It was important to him that I have sex with the guy in our bed. I was fine with this. However, one time, at the end of a "date" as we 3 were leaving the bedroom, his teen daughter from another marriage walks by just as we are exiting the bedroom and even at 13 I think she could figure out that things didn't look right. My hair was a mess. The other guy had a piece of this clothing over his arm. It was rather obvious to the casual observer. I felt embarrassed and my husband still doesn't know how to address that. I think we just leave it alone. But it's definitely a complication....or just have to be more careful. Another complication is one of the guys that I see is beginning to tug at my heartstrings. I'm wanting to see him without my husband there. And to make matters EVEN more complex, he's married and his wife doesn't know about this "dating" arrangement. Soooo....this CAN work, but it has lots and lots of issues and lots of complexities. I doubt we will stay together thru this. He felt it would bring us closer, but it has not. Just my two cents worth.
For us we started out swinging with other couples but I was not having any fun because all the guys were lousy lovers so I told my husband I wanted to stop. He said he understood completely and apologized for me not having any fun with the guys and he offered to make it up to me by finding me a handsome, well endowed black man to play with. I jumped at the offer and told him to set it up. My husband showed me pics of guys from the swing sites he was looking at and I narrowed it down to one sexy black man that really turned me on in his pics and told my husband to set up the date. We met at a restaurant and was immediately turned on my his who demeanor and sexuality. After we talked a while I smiled at my husband and put my hand on my soon to be new lover James thigh and said "do you live close by?" and he said he did and I said, "lets go check out your place". I told my husband to take care of the bill and James and I got up and walked outside. When my husband got outside James and I were inside his car making out. When My husband knocked on the window I told him to follow us to James house and that I was going to ride with James. After we left the parking lot I leaned over and unzipped James Pants and pulled out his cock and started sucking his cock as we drove to his house. Hi big black cock was so beautiful and smooth! When we got to James house he took my hand and led me in to his house with my husband following us. As soon as we got in the door Jame and I were kissing passionately and then I got on my knees and started sucking his cock again. After a few minutes James pulled me back up and kissed me looked over at my husband and said "your wife is so hot and sexy and beautiful!! Thank you so much for introducing us!" and I turned to my husband and said, "sweetie. Can you get the overnight back from out car? I have to agree with James. I am so happy you introduced us!" and I turned to James again and kissed him passionately and deeply as my husband turned to go back out to the car to get my over night back.basicmarriedmale said:most cuck marriages are not by design, but something happens that changes the dynamic of the marriage. a common situation is the wife cheats then gets caught. as a defense mechanism the man learns to find pleasure in her infidelity, his humiliation, and sense of being out of control. much like how an abused child learns to keep putting themselves in self destructive environments, and learns to enjoy it. it for sure isn't normal or healthy.
some come over from the swinger lifestyle, and some get hooked on the thought of it from watching porn etc. number of reasons why someone can desire such a marriage, but it is usually the man's idea. the cuck marriage isn't as popular as everyone makes it out to be on the internet, and especially these forums. most of the people on here are frauds, or someone with a fantasy that will not ever happen.
take everything with a grain of salt.
I feel this is certainly the place to be open. Truth is - very few people do this cucking thing or whatever you call it. I find it quite hot at times but you read my story....I think I find it so good because I'm not really a marriage kind of gal.RHowe said:Thank you for your open and honest answer. I belong to a few HW/Cuck websites and you seldom here the real truth (with regard to the dangers and survivability of these type marriages). Yeah, I like the taboo nature of the stories but sometimes am very frustrated that some, more naive readers will take some of these masturbatory fap-bait tales as gospel and use them as a template in their own marriage/relationship.
Truth is, some fantasies should stay fantasies.
Thanks! I know how much I love it when I get a new boy friend to play with!toolman2c said:wow, u sure are a lucky wife, and ur writing skills r as good as ur skills to attract and use studly men, i hope ur luck keeps rewarding U as U get older, BTW mature wifes r the most rewarding fucks ever, especially with a new cock up inside her married treasure.
Do you often go to other people's houses for sex right after you meet them and spend the night? I find that to be highly unusual.CTWifeBlackCockSlut said:For us we started out swinging with other couples but I was not having any fun because all the guys were lousy lovers so I told my husband I wanted to stop. He said he understood completely and apologized for me not having any fun with the guys and he offered to make it up to me by finding me a handsome, well endowed black man to play with. I jumped at the offer and told him to set it up. My husband showed me pics of guys from the swing sites he was looking at and I narrowed it down to one sexy black man that really turned me on in his pics and told my husband to set up the date. We met at a restaurant and was immediately turned on my his who demeanor and sexuality. After we talked a while I smiled at my husband and put my hand on my soon to be new lover James thigh and said "do you live close by?" and he said he did and I said, "lets go check out your place". I told my husband to take care of the bill and James and I got up and walked outside. When my husband got outside James and I were inside his car making out. When My husband knocked on the window I told him to follow us to James house and that I was going to ride with James. After we left the parking lot I leaned over and unzipped James Pants and pulled out his cock and started sucking his cock as we drove to his house. Hi big black cock was so beautiful and smooth! When we got to James house he took my hand and led me in to his house with my husband following us. As soon as we got in the door Jame and I were kissing passionately and then I got on my knees and started sucking his cock again. After a few minutes James pulled me back up and kissed me looked over at my husband and said "your wife is so hot and sexy and beautiful!! Thank you so much for introducing us!" and I turned to my husband and said, "sweetie. Can you get the overnight back from out car? I have to agree with James. I am so happy you introduced us!" and I turned to James again and kissed him passionately and deeply as my husband turned to go back out to the car to get my over night back.
By the time my husband got back inside James and I were already in his bedroom, naked and fucking. I was on top of James, bouncing on top of his gorgeous black dick, kissing him and moaning with pleasure. James fucked me over and over and we fell asleep together and in the morning I told my husband to go get us all something to eat and thanked him again for introducing me to James. When my husband got back James and I were in the shower fucking again. I was so hot for James and I could tell he was really hot for me. James told me how much it turned him on to fuck another man's wife in front of her husband and I told James that I had to admit that I thought it was pretty hot too.
When we finally got dressed and we were ready to leave I kissed James passionately goodby and turned to my husband and said "lets make this a regular thing honey, ok?" and he just nodded his said and said ok.
And that was the beginning for us. I have been cuckolding my husband for over 20 years now and he had developed into the perfect cuckold husband.
Terri
Well, judging from your posts, it seems like you get off criticizing other people's posts and for someone in the lifestyle you don't seem to be very tolerant at all of other peoples approach to the lifestyle. I suppose you expected me to tell you everything we did to vet this guy or to verify his STD status or how we deal with safety issues?cuckytom said:Do you often go to other people's houses for sex right after you meet them and spend the night? I find that to be highly unusual.
Most swingers don't do it at the man's house or apartment for security reasons and fear of a hidden camera. Spending the night at his house the first meeting is also unusual. Also, did you show each other your STD free cards before sex?
This does not sound good, Ms. mistyD.mistyD said:.......... Another complication is, one of the guys I see is beginning to tug at my heartstrings. I'm wanting to see him without my husband there. And to make matters EVEN more complex, he's married and his wife doesn't know about this "dating" arrangement.
Good for your wife. And, good for you for accepting your natural role.... in your marriage and in society.... as your wife's cuckold.dvoraknc said:I can say I'm in a very real cuckold marriage. .......... I knew I wanted to see this side of her, and after a bit of encouragement, she was not looking back and still hasn't.
The first paragraph captures my reality well. A religious leader once said that it is usual to talk about men committing adultery but the reality is women are just as likely to be unfaithful to their husbands and that the ones who admit to it are likely to be the minority. If she hadn't made the mistake of introducing one of our children to her boyfriend my wife's cheating might have gone unnoticed (my suspicions notwithstanding). When her affair was out in the open I had the choice kick her out or live with it. I chose the latter. We are still together.basicmarriedmale said:most cuck marriages are not by design, but something happens that changes the dynamic of the marriage. a common situation is the wife cheats then gets caught. as a defense mechanism the man learns to find pleasure in her infidelity, his humiliation, and sense of being out of control. much like how an abused child learns to keep putting themselves in self destructive environments, and learns to enjoy it. it for sure isn't normal or healthy.
some come over from the swinger lifestyle, and some get hooked on the thought of it from watching porn etc. number of reasons why someone can desire such a marriage, but it is usually the man's idea. the cuck marriage isn't as popular as everyone makes it out to be on the internet, and especially these forums. most of the people on here are frauds, or someone with a fantasy that will not ever happen.
take everything with a grain of salt.