As black men. Do you ever feel like this is something you should not be doing ?

[sobers]

I'm a black guy, from the UK, and yeah I have met a few women from various sites from England who want, well, black d**k basically. I'm a deep man, I've read Malcolm X’s autobiography (Not that this alone makes me deep) and I have a good grasp on current affairs. I read extensively about our people's history but I still meet up with housewives and couples who want black sex.

I guess, in a way, it's a state of conflict because I realise I'm playing up to a stereotype of the black man being sexual beasts (even though it's white men who have been the main sexual aggressors) and having a big d**k. Do other brothers in here just put that to the back of your mind and just see it for what it is....a bit of harmless fun ? Or like me, is there part of you, that does it, but knows it's not something you would want everyone to know about like your mom, dad, bro's, sisters and also knows that we are partly playing up to a stereotype.

Or am I just looking at this too deeply ? (lol)

 

[dirtywhiteboy]

Just go with it man. 50 years ago a black man would get killed for fucking a white woman. Now ur in high demand. Enjoy it while it last. In the future everyone will be the same color and all our grandkids will look back on this point in histry and laugh about it.

BTW, just how big is your dick? My wife may be interested!....lol

 

[billy-ray]

I think you're looking at it too deep, Sobers. I mean, having met a few women as you've stated, hardly makes you a beast, my friend. Human sexual desire is one of the strongest urges we have -black or white. Live your life to the fullest bro, because the stereotype you speak of will still be around long after you're gone.

 

[BBWLUVR009]

Idont feel like that, but i du feel this way:

ur not wrong at all for thinkn and feeln tha way u du... but i agree w/u on tha stereotype bullshit... and frum whut ive seen on here in tha year ive been cumn 2 this site is a lack uv respect 4 a BLACK MAN... and tha BLACK MAN "disrescpectn" himself... if ur askn, "how"? ill giv u 2 examples:
1) bein calld, labled, or referred to as bull, stud, and breeder... is this tha new millenium? except for the breedin uv animals i thought that shit wuz over in 1865, but i c i wuz wrong.....

2)then u hav BLACK MEN who allow these white women to call them "niggas"..... i dont giv a fuck if u spell w/an "a" or an "er" i fell that when this is allowed 2 happen that we're takn back 40 yrs or so.... and for whut, sum pussy?

so no ur not lookn at it too deep and anyone who says that u r needs to take a look at his or her self.....

 

[billy-ray]

wutz yo rezon?

ur not wrong at all for thinkn and feeln tha way u du... but i agree w/u on tha stereotype bullshit... and frum whut ive seen on here in tha year ive been cumn 2 this site is a lack uv respect 4 a BLACK MAN... and tha BLACK MAN "disrescpectn" himself... if ur askn, "how"? ill giv u 2 examples:
1) bein calld, labled, or referred to as bull, stud, and breeder... is this tha new millenium? except for the breedin uv animals i thought that shit wuz over in 1865, but i c i wuz wrong.....

2)then u hav BLACK MEN who allow these white women to call them "niggas"..... i dont giv a fuck if u spell w/an "a" or an "er" i fell that when this is allowed 2 happen that we're takn back 40 yrs or so.... and for whut, sum pussy?

so no ur not lookn at it too deep and anyone who says that u r needs to take a look at his or her self.....

Although I do/would take offensive/feel uncomfortable with being referred to, addressed or called nigga or nigger regardless of how affectionate the intention, I find it hard to believe you're serious about the bull and stud titles (I haven't seen the term breeder). "Stud" has been a complement to young males Black, White, Hispanic, Asian, etc. since my days in high school (class of 87). It wasn't until I started logging-in here that I first heard the term bull. The connotation being a male with a high level of testosterone and bullish (as in dominant) attitude during sexual encounters. Again, this pertains to all males with that particular characteristic. In that respect, I find it hypocritical of you to pass judgement based on what you've stated, on the other hand, at least we now know what it looks like when someone is indeed taking all this way to deep.

After taking a long look at myself, I've come to the conclusion that anyone that feels the way you do, shouldn't be coming here at all. So I ask you, wutz yo rezon?

 

[lewis]

I'm a black guy, from the UK, and yeah I have met a few women from various sites from England who want, well, black d**k basically. I'm a deep man, I've read Malcolm X’s autobiography (Not that this alone makes me deep) and I have a good grasp on current affairs. I read extensively about our people's history but I still meet up with housewives and couples who want black sex.

I guess, in a way, it's a state of conflict because I realise I'm playing up to a stereotype of the black man being sexual beasts (even though it's white men who have been the main sexual aggressors) and having a big d**k. Do other brothers in here just put that to the back of your mind and just see it for what it is....a bit of harmless fun ? Or like me, is there part of you, that does it, but knows it's not something you would want everyone to know about like your mom, dad, bro's, sisters and also knows that we are partly playing up to a stereotype. Or am I just looking at this too deeply ? (lol)

......Sober,,,,,great question deep or not. I know all about the talk concerning black men with white women and how it looks and what it may say about my choice.
Now, here is my story, I still am attracted to black women, but whrerehere how my mind works, I am attracted to shapely booties, shapely thick legs, juice lips, layed back, but smart women...........if I am lucky enough to find all the above, my first chice is in a white woman, then a black, spanish, and Asian(they like white guys mostly, so I don't waste my time). So, its not just any white woman,,, but thats the true of what governs my attraction/turns me on to women.
While in College and over the years, I have seen light skinned brothers get off the hook for being with white women, but some dark skin brothers get talked about and not choosen, so white women just expands my market share, and finally, it would be a total waste NOT to take advantgage of the way my smooth dark skin turns on some white women.

 

[blkoralslaveboy]

i think you need to go religion rehab. get religion out of your system and remember we're all, black, white, or in between, just a buncha nekked apes!!! damn dirty apesssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss

 

[BlackWolfX]

sobers,

good questions.

I like all girls, because there is just so much variety within the variety. I've known thick, big tittied Asians and small thin flat black girls and Indian girls with booty and everything in-between. And honestly, its so hard to find a good member of the opposite sex, I can't understand why men or women limit themselves just because of skin color.

And I don't like the fetishization of people. Whether its Asian men being UNDERsexualized or black men being OVERsexualized, its just as narrow-minded, stereotypical and harmful. So much of the language here ("bulls" "violate" "trash") is either demeaning to women, blacks, both, and/or others.

I guess I hang here and post here for the same reason I post on some conservative message boards; just to see what's going on in the heads of other people. I'm not active in the "IR swinger scene" at all, never have been, never will be. I wouldn't bother trying to reason with black men active in this scene; most who think about it and take the expected political stance aren't here, so the only ones remaining are those who really really want to get laid. No changing their minds.

Also, one reason for being here is that all of my sources for porn are running dry. Its really hard to find good porn with big dicks and big tits. I've seen enough amatuer stuff of white men to know there's some real big dick men out there that aren't getting attention cause they're white, and too many black men who aren't in shape and/or big enough getting screentime just cause they're black and that's the "in" stereotype. Sad really.

 

[equippedblk]

I'm a black guy, from the UK, and yeah I have met a few women from various sites from England who want, well, black d**k basically. I'm a deep man, I've read Malcolm X’s autobiography (Not that this alone makes me deep) and I have a good grasp on current affairs. I read extensively about our people's history but I still meet up with housewives and couples who want black sex.

I guess, in a way, it's a state of conflict because I realise I'm playing up to a stereotype of the black man being sexual beasts (even though it's white men who have been the main sexual aggressors) and having a big d**k. Do other brothers in here just put that to the back of your mind and just see it for what it is....a bit of harmless fun ? Or like me, is there part of you, that does it, but knows it's not something you would want everyone to know about like your mom, dad, bro's, sisters and also knows that we are partly playing up to a stereotype.

Or am I just looking at this too deeply ? (lol)

Very good points and I appreciate your sharing this thought process with the forum. Here's my humble opinion. This is definitely not the first time this issue has come, up. I mean Malcolm faced this exact same issue in his life so there's nothing new under the sun, so to speak.

So to answer your question, hell yes it's exploitive. It's also erotic and you can't have one without the other. When you show up you better be fucking Mandingo or know how to play the role, otherwise why bother. They got strip steak already! But here's what really going to cook your noodle, it really ain't got nothing to do with us at all. LOL, this Big Black fucking dominant horse hung man-***** is an archetype. A mythical being passed from one generation of whites to another, the boogie man! We have his traits, some more than others, but he really exists in the minds of those who were meant to be protected by their forefathers who when they saw the raw physical power of those they bought, sold, and bred to be bigger, stronger, and faster had to develop a tale to protect his psyche and gene pool. Ever read about John Henry hollowing out a mountain? Need I say more?

Consider this; if a man loves himself and his family at all, what greater compliment than granting access to his wife to some black dude he met online knowing that it could potentially risk his life? We didn't arrive here overnight!

So brotha, I understand where you are coming from but, my advice to you is, if you can get it, get it. Be safe and have inner peace, but get that white pussy while you can, because the collective images of black men are being redefined. And what you struggle with in terms of stereotype, etc, your grandsons won't have to worry about.

 

[1 wonder]

black rappers use the word nigga.....or nigger depends how you want to spell it......so dose that offend people on here as well ?..or is just when used by a white man or woman

 

[equippedblk]

black rappers use the word nigga.....or nigger depends how you want to spell it......so dose that offend people on here as well ?..or is just when used by a white man or woman

"Oh Death, where is thy sting?"

Don't forget Richard Pryor, Chris Rock, and a laundry list of actors. Remember, Denzel in Training Day, but notice the flip. He used that word to describe his white partner didn't he?

The point is, this word has been used so much that it no longer elicits the intended effect. First it was used as a term to describe a thing since slaves were viewed as possessions. Then it was used to try to put us back in that place psychologically when our ancestors strived for rights of citizens. In the 60s-70s black entertainers used it for shock value in their routines. In the 80s rappers adopted the word to demonstrate their "hardcore" images and messages. Now you have white kids in Suburbia referring to each other as Ns. It's an irrelevant term nowadays as it relates to describing black people. So personally I don't really give a shit, you never hear blacks calling each other honkey, peckerwood, or cracker do you?

 

[metalore]

ur not wrong at all for thinkn and feeln tha way u du... but i agree w/u on tha stereotype bullshit... and frum whut ive seen on here in tha year ive been cumn 2 this site is a lack uv respect 4 a BLACK MAN... and tha BLACK MAN "disrescpectn" himself... if ur askn, "how"? ill giv u 2 examples:
1) bein calld, labled, or referred to as bull, stud, and breeder... is this tha new millenium? except for the breedin uv animals i thought that shit wuz over in 1865, but i c i wuz wrong.....

2)then u hav BLACK MEN who allow these white women to call them "niggas"..... i dont giv a fuck if u spell w/an "a" or an "er" i fell that when this is allowed 2 happen that we're takn back 40 yrs or so.... and for whut, sum pussy?

so no ur not lookn at it too deep and anyone who says that u r needs to take a look at his or her self.....

You forgot the stereotype about black men being unable to properly use the English language.