Well, I thought I'd take the platform here and use the opportunity to introduce myself to the future female members of the group.
I guess I can start by saying that there is a photo on my profile and several more in the photo section here. I am a 39 year old man who has yet to marry or father any children. I just ended a five year live-in relationship about a year ago. I have had the fantasy of sharing my girlfriend(s)/wife with black men since I was about 18 and have done so with just three (and yes, the last live-in gf did it one time).
I am college educated with a degree in social science and a minor in english. I was a social worker for fourteen years but I recently quit to pursue a dream of writing for a living. To that end I have just had my first book published (November, 2004). There is also a photo of the book covers in the photo section of my profile to prove what I say is true. It is entitled Reflections of a Wayward Soul and is a book of 250 poems. I have 18 other poetry anthologies to follow. My first of six novels, The Painmaker, will be out sometime this year.
I am a very loving and caring man, conventional in many ways. I have interests and a life outside of my sexual persuasion. Some of those interests include reading, writing, skydiving, travel, cultural events, sports, politics (to a degree), current events and ordinary life interests. I'm philosophical, passionate, a truth seeker, deep,
troubled, I like to debate issues and have my mind engaged. I have long said that if a woman arouses my mind, my heart and cock will follow.
Given my starting my own interracial group, it's well-documented that I hope to find a female partner who is open to having black sex partners on a semi-regular basis (ideally even several at the same time) but even more so than that, what I am ideally looking for is someone who is more than a sex partner. Someone who can be my partner for life. The love of my life, my soul-mate. I do not seek a doormat or a woman who has esteem issues-nothing is more unattractive (to me personally). I may desire a woman who is by nature sexually submissive but I desire her to be independant, strong-willed, feisty and together otherwise. Someone to keep the walk down life's road interesting. Someone to challenge me, keep me on my toes and partner with me. Help me sail our vessel through life's storms together. In short, I want you to
walk beside me; not in front or behind.
Physically, the characteristics in a woman that will most often turn my head are dark (blk/brwn) hair or a redhead. Auburn/chestnut hair (with freckles on the chest & shoulders) will make my heart melt EVERY time. I also prefer a thicker woman in comparison to a stick thin one. I am NOT into heroin chic or Kate Moss types. I want a
woman-one who is soft and has curves. Bigger breasts are a plus (especially if they are natural) and my age range is 22 to 42 (maybe a bit older). Admittedly the ones on the younger side of the scale will have to work harder to prove their maturity and togetherness.
I also prefer any prospective woman who might return or express an interest in me to be between 4'11" to 5'7" tall.
Well, there you have it. That's about all I can tell you about myself without rambling on even further than I have already. I believe my profile is quite informative as is this post. I also have ads at other internet sites as well as a couple of other yahoo profiles. They are listed below. I hope if any female member of the group would like to become better acquainted that they take the intitiative to get in touch either through here, a profile or my
e-mail address which will be given upon request.
Sincerely,
Don-tha vanilla thrilla
http://profiles.yahoo.com/tha_write_one
http://profiles.yahoo.com/tha_real_vanilla_thrilla
http://profiles.yahoo.com/jimmyhaggard
http://vanilla_thrilla.swinglifestyle.com
