natasnaikul said:
I thank you for your comments.
You're welcome. (I gather you took some time to think about them — in consultation with your boss-wife, I hope.)
natasnaikul said:
I think we're way past the cage stage, achieving an erection is not one of the things I can or desire to do at this point so it's kind of pointless for us.
If your boss-wife kept you in a cock cage for something like 1 year or longer, that may — as you say — have resulted in loss of your ability to get it up. (A number of years ago, a member of the predecessor to this forum... "cuckolds dot com"... said his wife had kept him in a cock cage for the past 5 years, and he couldn't get an erection under any circumstance. He didn't elaborate beyond that.)
natasnaikul said:
The improved and faster feminization without the use of drugs and the clean and smooth look heavily outweigh the effects you describe in my order of priorities. Actually, to be honest, I don't really find them to be negatives.... some I quite desire.
Well.... whatever works for you and your sexy boss-wife.
To assist your transition, you might consider always addressing your boss-wife using terms of respect, such as: "Ms. (her first name)," or "Ma'am" (as in "Yes, Ma'am), or "Madam (her first name)", or "Princess (her first name)" (ask her how she prefers to be addressed).
You might also suggest she address you using terms traditionally used by husbands to address their wives, which are affectionate but slightly demeaning, such as: "sweetheart," "sweetie," "darling," baby," "baby-doll," "honey," "honey-bunch," etc. In private, and/or when you're in bed with your boss-wife, you might suggest she address you using more-intimate terms and phrases, such as: "teeny-weenie baby," "pencil-prick sweety," "droopy-dick darling," "penis-tongue sweetheart," "cuntsucker baby," "ass-kisser darling," "blueberry-balls baby," etc.
When one of your boss-wife's lovers is visiting, you might suggest she ask him to always address you by your first name, while you always address him as "Mr. (his last name)."
Regarding complete feminization of a husband by a dominant wife, the following forum post and followup might be of interest to you. (The forum is free; you don't have to "donate" to it.)
Complete feminization of a husband — overview (forum post by Edita of Holland):
Complete feminization of husbands -- Independent Women of the 21st Century
Complete feminization of a husband — details (followup post by Edita of Holland):
Re: Complete feminization of husbands--for Edita -- Independent Women of the 21st Century
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