We were at a swinger meet and greet in a nearby city where we saw a co worker of mine with her husband.....we sat with them awhile but thought it unwise to party...as mentioned by SrBilong we were there for the same reason. Ours is a small town and she and I agreed the following Monday that we would not party together or attend at a house party if either of us were there...luckily we socialize with different people so there was never a conflict. I am Bi and would of loved to be with her, but think we made the correct choice......They dont know weve since gotten into IR.