cock-size

[Son of John]

In many of these threads, the husbands state that they have small cocks, so their wives must fuck with other men in order to get satisfaction.

This raises the question; do cuckold husbands, in general, have smaller cocks than the guys who fuck their wives, and is this an element in most of these situations.

My wife tells me that my cock is as big as those of most of the guys who have fucked her. There have been a few, including her first husband who did have significantly larger cocks than I do, but she has never admitted that this has been an important point with her.

 

[lifelong cuck]

Cock size and cuckoldry

In many of these threads, the husbands state that they have small cocks, so their wives must fuck with other men in order to get satisfaction.

This raises the question; do cuckold husbands, in general, have smaller cocks than the guys who fuck their wives, and is this an element in most of these situations.

My wife tells me that my cock is as big as those of most of the guys who have fucked her. There have been a few, including her first husband who did have significantly larger cocks than I do, but she has never admitted that this has been an important point with her.

I know that my cock was somewhat smaller than average but it was when I saw how much sexual pleasure my wife got from being fucked by other men I accepted that I could only ever be a cuckold to her.

Also a wife/lover will so often tell you your smaller size doesn't matter but if you are shorter than 5" believe me it does and she is just saving your feelings, a good sign!
LLC

 

[cuckoldinpanties]

I am only 4.5" so yes, aside from what she tells me, the law of averages say my wifes lovers are larger.

 

[lifelong cuck]

Been a long time

I am only 4.5" so yes, aside from what she tells me, the law of averages say my wifes lovers are larger.

I was in my early 20's the last time my cock was that big, you know it'll continue to shrink as you age? Most of my married life it was around 3" erect!

Been downhill from there even the past few years!

LLC

 

[danyg]

all of my wife's lovers have had large cocks than mine. She enjoys my cock too, but she admits larger ones are fun to play with and look better.

 

[Jayne]

less than 5" is just too small for adequte sexual pleasure for me, but would never tell a guy that to his face, unless I knew he wanted to be teased about it.

 

[JulieIsMe]

Speaking from the standpoint of my personal experience, the BIGGER the BETTER. Here's why: There are all sorts of different and highly stimulating positions to use during sex. The good old stand-by's like missionary and doggy-style are kind of tame in comparison to a lot of the others. But in order for the male to accomplish his part of the action, he's got to be long enough and thick enough to provide really great stimulation from the different angles these other kinds of positions offer. Smaller cocks just can't. They can't reach, and they can't fill up.
But then again, a guy with a really small cock who found a woman in love with him could become proficient in the use of different kinds of vibrating toys and really large, life-like, vibrating strap-on's. Not only could he compensate for his lacking size, he could provide her with much more stimulation than any guy with a naturally large cock ever could.....because NO ONE, I don't care who they are or how big their endowment is, can compete with electric toys when it comes to providing stimulation....NO ONE!

 

[cuckoldinpanties]

because NO ONE, I don't care who they are or how big their endowment is, can compete with electric toys when it comes to providing stimulation....NO ONE!

My wife has a sybian and has said that MANY times.

 

[looser]

My dick size has not helped me. My cock was 7 inch when I was younger (it's maybe 6 now if i can get an erection) but i had erection problems and sometimes i did not manage no ejaculate, it just went soft. This caused a lot of frustration for the woman i tried to fuck. In addition to that, my wife tells me that I am not a man anyway. And if I get to fuck her which maybe happens once a year she tells me it is boring and ask me to be quick so she can get some sleep. I have suggested that she should take a lover many times. I don't know if she has. I suggested taking Viagra but no she is not really interested.

Therefore it is not a tiny dick which is my way of beeing humiliated but rather softness and lack of strong personality. Anyway I like the humiliation when she tells me that she want a MAN in bed rather than me. I am just like a little brother to her.

I actually whish i had a small dick . That would really show the true me. It would fit my personality to have a small, soft, useless dick. I have fantasy of beeing castrated and become an eunuch.

 

[JulieIsMe]

My dick size has not helped me. My cock was 7 inch when I was younger (it's maybe 6 now if i can get an erection) but i had erection problems and sometimes i did not manage no ejaculate, it just went soft. This caused a lot of frustration for the woman i tried to fuck. In addition to that, my wife tells me that I am not a man anyway. And if I get to fuck her which maybe happens once a year she tells me it is boring and ask me to be quick so she can get some sleep. I have suggested that she should take a lover many times. I don't know if she has. I suggested taking Viagra but no she is not really interested.

Therefore it is not a tiny dick which is my way of beeing humiliated but rather softness and lack of strong personality. Anyway I like the humiliation when she tells me that she want a MAN in bed rather than me. I am just like a little brother to her.

I actually whish i had a small dick . That would really show the true me. It would fit my personality to have a small, soft, useless dick. I have fantasy of beeing castrated and become an eunuch.

Hi there!
Try out a really massive and huge strap-on that is lifelike and vibrates with variable speeds. She'll soon change her mind about you. She'll get ultra-intense, mind-blowing stimulation and fulfillment and she won't have to worry about STD's ( cause a lot of guys with huge cocks don't like to use condoms ).
A girl friend of mine and I roomed together and after being totally pissed off with out then boy friends, we got into toys together. Let me tell you, the difference was enough to hook both of us. I've been an enthusiastic user of all sorts of them ever since. Every new gizmo and gadget that comes out I've just GOT to try. And again, there are strap-on's available today that while do a wonderful job for you with your partner. I speak from experience!

 

[lifelong cuck]

Stray on toys

Hi there!
Try out a really massive and huge strap-on that is lifelike and vibrates with variable speeds. She'll soon change her mind about you. She'll get ultra-intense, mind-blowing stimulation and fulfillment and she won't have to worry about STD's ( cause a lot of guys with huge cocks don't like to use condoms ).
A girl friend of mine and I roomed together and after being totally pissed off with out then boy friends, we got into toys together. Let me tell you, the difference was enough to hook both of us. I've been an enthusiastic user of all sorts of them ever since. Every new gizmo and gadget that comes out I've just GOT to try. And again, there are strap-on's available today that while do a wonderful job for you with your partner. I speak from experience!

Thanks Julie, I take it this is what you eluded to for me then?

If you think women really get off on these I know I'd be more than happy to experiment?

LLC

 

[JulieIsMe]

Thanks Julie, I take it this is what you eluded to for me then?

If you think women really get off on these I know I'd be more than happy to experiment?

LLC

Women "get off on" planet-twirling stimulation and fulfillment. As I've said on this thread earlier: NO ONE can compete with electric toys when it comes to providing this sort of satisfaction.
And yes, for you personally LLC, I would think it would be a much healthier approach to your sexual limitations ( added to some cosmetic alteration ) than for you to simply just give up and accept being a cuckhold after being ****** into that sort of designation by a wife who was dishonest with you and who played Russia Roulette with your health's safty and who LEFT YOU for one of her playmates!
There are all kinds of toys out there now. I'd rather be with a guy who really loved me and who I could trust and count on even if he did have a naturally small cock. With toys, that physical limitation could easily be worked around AND there would be loyalty within the relationship, value, and no chance of anyone bringing home unwanted goodies like STD's.

 

[lifelong cuck]

Thanks Julie

Women "get off on" planet-twirling stimulation and fulfillment. As I've said on this thread earlier: NO ONE can compete with electric toys when it comes to providing this sort of satisfaction.
And yes, for you personally LLC, I would think it would be a much healthier approach to your sexual limitations ( added to some cosmetic alteration ) than for you to simply just give up and accept being a cuckhold after being ****** into that sort of designation by a wife who was dishonest with you and who played Russia Roulette with your health's safty and who LEFT YOU for one of her playmates!
There are all kinds of toys out there now. I'd rather be with a guy who really loved me and who I could trust and count on even if he did have a naturally small cock. With toys, that physical limitation could easily be worked around AND there would be loyalty within the relationship, value, and no chance of anyone bringing home unwanted goodies like STD's.

I appreciate your candour and further information of what would be important to you as a woman, that does help me think of options that may be much more to my liking. What comestics? You mean plastic surgery?

Again thanks my little minx!

 

[JulieIsMe]

There are stimulating gels to use too. The work really well with the life-like, variable-speed dongs attached to Strap-on harnesses.
Yes, plastic ( cosmetic ) surgery - an implant that increases the length and girth of your penis.

 

[lifelong cuck]

An implant?

There are stimulating gels to use too. The work really well with the life-like, variable-speed dongs attached to Strap-on harnesses.
Yes, plastic ( cosmetic ) surgery - an implant that increases the length and girth of your penis.

K, I'd be willing to try various solutions if it allowed me to have a near normal relationship with a sexy woman for whom sex was important and was happy to allow such variations.

Hadn't heard of implants, only fat injections and cutting ligaments, neither solution would be of much help to me.

Again thanks Julie.


P.S. Like you to answer my personal questions on your message board, answer in private message if you prefer?

 

[JulieIsMe]

K, I'd be willing to try various solutions if it allowed me to have a near normal relationship with a sexy woman for whom sex was important and was happy to allow such variations.

Hadn't heard of implants, only fat injections and cutting ligaments, neither solution would be of much help to me.

Again thanks Julie.


P.S. Like you to answer my personal questions on your message board, answer in private message if you prefer?

As I understand it, penis implants are routinely available for men who have had prostate opperations and have lost their ability to have erections as a result. You end up with a perpetual stiffy.

 

[Troilusand]

As I understand it, penis implants are routinely available for men who have had prostate opperations and have lost their ability to have erections as a result. You end up with a perpetual stiffy.

Perpetual stiffy?? That's like me reading the posts here.

Seriously though, (and please realize I know next to nuthin' about this) I thought there was some pump, like what you see to inflate blood pressure cuffs, you used to put the starch in the collar....and if you were always stiff, you'd have to carry a bucket and mop around for every time you pissed. But like I say, I dunno. Where's Custer, he'll tell us?

T.

 

[claire]

hi all i would like to add my point of view here, i prefere a large thick cock nothing beats the real thing claire

 

[Son of John]

The grinch makes a very good point about being too big. We have been with a guy who had a twelve inch cock, but who could never get completely hard. He had a hard timie even getting it in her cunt because of the combination of his size and lack of hardness.

A somewhat smaller guy who can get super hard is much to be preferred.

 

[JulieIsMe]

Size ( for me ) is very important - BUT - there's also the ability to use that size in a whole lot of positions beyond the standard ones. Larger White guys can complain about the a feeling of discomfort when their cocks are twisted or bent when servicing a woman who has assumed some exotic postion. Black guys just do it - and do it - and do it.....and nothing phases them.....NOTHING.
There's also the issue of confidence. Black guys who are well-hung ( generally ) seem ultra-self confident. They either hit you with a kind of forceful, domineering attitude which is very sexy. Or they're really nonchallant, but still oozing a kind of doubtlessness about who they are and what they can do with you and to you. That's also really sexy. And its sexy both ways because they CAN back their attitudes up with superior performances since they're so stamina-intense as well as huge.
There are a lot of self-assured White guys around too, but they just don't have that "something" that Black guys tend to have.
And yes, depending on the woman and her body, it is possible to be uncomfortable with a large cock.