I think I am being groomed to be the cocksucker, not the recipient. That's why I asked the question. If I can is fucking my wife and she will gladly suck him, why would he want me to suck him?Laceyfemme said:Let me turn this around and ask "why wouldn't a horny male in need of a blowjob let another guy suck his cock?" I believe it's because they have too narrow a notion of what it really means to be 'straight,' and worry that they are gay and/or a loser if they resort to this option.
Many men seem less prone to these attitudes once they are out of their twenties, have gained a little experience with women and sex, and don't have so much left to prove. I also see various games heterosexual men play to feel more comfortable around gay cocksuckers:
--Stick with casual, anonymous hookups. At a gloryhole, for example. Limit social interaction to the bare minimum.
--Wait for a cocksucker to approach you. After all, he wants to suck you cock more than you need to be sucked.
--Maintain a sense of superiority. You are the one with your cock in his mouth, after all.
--Show no interest at all in reciprocating. Feel comfortable zipping up and leaving without further adieu once you're done having fun.
This isn't really insulting or humiliating--most cocksuckers are used to being treated like this, and honestly either don't mind or genuinely like it. Once you realize this, you probably won't worry so much about not being straight if you occasionally make use of a cocksucker. The distinction just won't seem so important anymore.
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