will2112001 said:You do know She can only hurt You if You let Her. (I can't believe I'm trying to help a cuck).
will2112001 said:9 out of 10 people like Jill have their own demons. Things about themsleves they don't feel good about. So they lash out at others. And keep them on the defensive. That way they think it keep others from picking up on these traits in themselfs. Their weaknesses. They befriend people who they think are weaker than them. I would love to spend an few hours with Jill. Like I said i can't believe I'm doing this. You do know once she knows she can't get to You. The less time Jill will want to spend with You.
mybuttplug said:I think the Fred and Jill are going down a completely different path than you and Lisa. Fred wants to be completely feminized. I'm more like you. I don't have any interest in wearing makeup or a wig or trying to pass as a female. I like wearing panties and stockings, sometimes a bra or maybe a teddy. This is a form of submission in my mind. What Fred is interested in is different from your desires. Not that there's anything wrong with that.
It's interesting that Lisa would tell Jill that your penis was so small. Just a couple of weeks ago, you thought you were average size. She seems to enjoy making fun of your penis size. Personally, I like this. I like fucking Mandy after her pussy has been stretched out by a big cock. I also like it when she tells me she wants to deny me sex and tell me how good a big cock feels inside her.
It's empowering for her to know she can fuck my cock or another superior cock if that is what she wants.
How do you feel about her telling you and other people that you have a small cock?
If she is not going to see Tony for a couple of weeks. I might suggest buying a strapon for you to fuck her with. It's a good toy for a cuck with a small cock.
Hank jones said:Concerned,
When it comes to being a cuck, the size of the dick isn't alway the factor. I have a 8+" dick. But I last 30 secs in my wife. She needs and desires more then that. She's loves me and loves my dick. But she needs and wants it to last longer.
I know people will say 'hello little blue pill' I have a heart condition and can't even drink alcohol due to the way it effects my heart. I have come to grip with this.
Her bf is older and heavier then me not in shape but he can last 30-60 minutes. She could go more that I know and so does he, but he satifys her with that.
So I suggest you come up with a comeback for the time when the small dixk comment comes up in conversation. 'yeah well god was nice enough to give me a strong tounge.' has worked for me. (0:
Make it something that your wife will smile and agree with. But be careful she could also point out the short coming if she feels in the mood.
Hank
Concerned said:will,
It would be great if you could spend some time with Jill, but that's just not possible.
I just hope that Lisa continues to see Jill for what she is, and does not allow herself to be influenced too much by Jill.
Thanks for posting.
will2112001 said:You see right there in Your Post is one of the things that seperates a Cuckold from a Bull. You think something is not possible. I think All Things Are Possible!!!!
Jill's just another woman who fucks around on her husband. What makes Her so special?
Custer Laststand said:Concerned—
So, to review the scene vis-a-vis your wife's friend Jill, her "in-bed-challenged" husband Fred, and your bet with Jill re. her agreeing to refrain from encouraging your wife Lisa to take a lover if Fred doesn't do "X" within 1.5 years, I return to your initial post where you said:
End of review. Fast-forwarding to your most recent post:
Jill's bet with you sounds a lot like the two of you proposing to decide something by flipping a coin, then... while the coin was still in the air... she said (in effect): "Heads I win, tails you lose."
But, it isn't quite so clear-cut. There remains a possible point of uncertainty in the outcome. Suppose Jill transforms her husband who had a pre-existing condition (as a health-insurance corporation would put it, no doubt)... i.e., cross-dressing... to a "complete sissy" which, in effect, she had already accomplished before she started. That isn't quite the same as persuading him to then go to a cross-dressing-friendly bar as a "complete sissy," complete with wig, makeup and lingerie, with a male date (who isn't cross-dressed, presumably), thereby voluntarily humiliating himself in front of his wife Jill, you, and your wife while the 3 of you sit at a more-or-less distant table to watch and confirm he's doing that (for purposes of settling your bet).
Suppose, instead, Jill transforms Fred successfully to a "complete sissy" (by moving him forward incrementally, as it were, beyond where he is now), and he even goes out in public dressed as such (say, he rides around with Jill while she drives and he even goes, e.g., for walks in a park with her), but he declines to go to a cross-dressing-friendly bar with another man, who is not cross-dressed, as a "date."
If this is the outcome, will you or will Jill win your bet? (I know... details, details...)
Finally, consider that your wife has already decided to take a lover (although she appears to be having — temporarily, most likely — some second thoughts). Thus, if Jill loses her bet with you and agrees to stop encouraging your wife to take a lover, your "victory" could reasonably be called "pyrrhic" because your wife will already have taken a lover long before the 1.5-year time frame of Jill's shrewd bet with you has expired.
Ergo, you might conclude your manly decision to NOT back out of your bet with Jill — congratulations for that, BTW, since "a bet is a bet" as they say — falls somewhere short of a true act of bravery, since your loss (Jill's win, if you prefer) is already guaranteed.
Anyway... the above is more-or-less independent of your decision to encourage your wife to take a lover, and her agreement to move forward with that. The question the two of you might continue to consider is: will it be good or bad for your marriage if your wife fucks other men?
For some additional perspective on this, the two of you might read:
Dr. Cherry Lee on the cuckold husband / hotwife phenomenon:
It will take a lot less time than ordering and reading Ley's book, which I also continue to recommend.
—Custer
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Concerned said:She did it! It is official! I am a member of the club! I am a cuck! .... Lisa got home about midnight. I was an emotional mess, but she was really happy and flying high. The first words out of her mouth were, "He is WONDERFUL!"
Concerned said:I went to Lisa and asked her if I could PLEASE wear her silk panties. She was in a playful mood, and said "Yes, absolutely, your small cock will have no problem fitting into my panties, AND you may have the honor of licking my pussy. I want to be ready for Tony tonight."
Concerned said:I did ask if we could talk a bit about what is happening. She agreed. I said that I understand that she is now in charge of all aspects of our relationship ....