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Convincing wife.

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Son of John

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This is my question: How do other guys start the process wherein they wind-up sharing their wives' pussies with other men? Do you bring the subject up with her suddenly, or do you try to sneak up on it?

Do you get a friend to seduce her, or to at least try to, to get her reaction? Have any men been successful in saying to their wives "Honey, I would really love to watch another guy fuck you!" Has anyone used that most direct approach with any success?
 
My $.02

SoJ,

One thing for sure, it is not about convincing anybody. If haven't already had fantasy discussions with your wife, you need to get started.

I'm sure there are as many different stories of how couples have gotten into this lifestyle as there are couples in it, but I'm also sure that there are some common threads depending on what kind of cuckolding relationship you are looking for....

I would guess that many of the stories you'll hear will include open discussion of fantasies both in the midst of foreplay and/or sex, and general sexual discussion.

Talking about sex, fantasies and past activities, and occasionally watching and reading porn gave us a safe place to explore the idea of sharing. We fantasized for a longtime before taking the first step (you can read about it in Victoria's thread...) and we have slowly expanded the play. I think SoonToBe's story would be similar as I have read most of his posts as he and Sue have explored.

The reality of sharing your wife is both far better and far more difficult than any fantasy you have imagined, so be prepared for some really difficult times, and some interesting challenges to your manhood, your marriage and your free time (you will obsess about it!)

Good luck,

K A
 
I'll share that even with fantasizing and role-playing that it was still difficult to say "do you want to do this for real?".

At that time I found it difficult to say to Sue "I want you to fuck someone else". Instead, I planted an note in a place that she would find it eventually. In that note (I'd dated it) I said that I thought that I'd seen a pattern in what kinds of porn we read/watched that seemed to lead to explosive sex between us. In the note I said that I was scared to ask her but that when she did finally find the note, that if it was something she felt the same about that maybe we should talk about it.

It took at least a week or more before I came home one night after being out with friends when she said "I found your note....". My immediate embarassment and concerns disappeared when she came out and said "do you really want me to be with another guy?". From there it would still take another 10 years to happen but that is how it started for us.

Mind you, I did leave some ways to extricate myself if it wasn't a go - I didn't specifically say what "kind" of porn it was - that left room for me to say it was bondage, or flashing or whatever - but Sue made it easy in that she knew what I was referring to.
 
Here is my story:

My fiancee and I have been dating for about six years. During that time, we broke up once or twice. Usually I called it quits because I was scared of commitment, but to really get back at me she slept with four different men in the month we were apart. Mostly on the first dates. She also made sure to let me know whenever she did have another guy, and really did act like a hot wife even though we weren't together. It was purely revenge at that point.

When we finally got back together, I couldn't stop thinking of her with those other men and getting turned on by it.

We already liked to fantasize about her with another girl, so one night I simply asked for her to have another man when she asked me what I wanted for the night. She was surprised, and it took her some time to come to terms with it, but now two years later we're both in agreement that we want to try the real thing after we get settled in our marriage.

Best of luck. If nothing else, be honest with your partner about your fantasies. Even if you never take them from the realm of fantasy, you are still spicing your sex life up significantly.
 
Just an FYI - SonOfJohn has long experienced having his wife/partner be with other men. I believe his initial post here is just to stimulate conversation. From what I've read in other posts, he's well experienced in these waters...
 
This thread makes me wonder??

Who really most often starts the process the man or the woman?? I bet it is the woman, but she needs assurance the husband is not going to go balistic, and do something violent or throw her out!

But the question was, "How do other guys start the process wherein they wind-up sharing their wives' pussies with other men?". I do believe Son Of John knows more about this than most of us, but I have seen this time and again, the husband starts to change their social base, by bringing in couples who he feels that the wife of the couple is hot/slut/***** etc., this is often done under the guize of business reasons, and of course finding reasons where he feels the wives are goody two shoes are excluded.

An astute husband, cuck want to be, will also pay close attention to what type of man his wife finds attractive and trys to find ways to see she is often near them. When out and about with the wife, point out attire that will make her feel sexy and alluring to other men, and be willing to buy them for her. Encourage her to go out with other women that are likely to be flirting seeing other men. Make that office gossip pay off.

Their are so many different motivations for a husband to desire for his woman to cuck him, he may have sissy, bi, even homosexual tendencies, or just be a voyuer, often he does not care for sex, but wants to keep a wife. You can not make someone do anything they really do not want to do, so be prepared for the consequencies.
 

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SoonToBe is exactly right! I did start this thread to try to help any who are considering wife-sharing to understand how it happens and what the price is to pay.

In my own case, I had nothing to say about being thrust into the role of the husband whose wife was getting fucked by other guys. I was known by this "title" a few years before I even tumbled-on to the fact that they were fucking her. I was the ultimate "sucker" in this game. It was only after I learned what was happening and took positive steps to not let it destroy me that I learned to use the fact that these other guys were fucking her to my own advantage.

I will gladly discuss this one-on-one with anyone who wishes to send me a PM.
 

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