Good Day Harry, We been reading this and a few other forums for a few years and have seen that most of what is on them is bull, so never really felt is was needed to reg on any of the sites. STB journal has been one that we have read and found interesting for quite some time now. Only reason we did reg is so we could post a comment if need be.
For us we been together for 19 yrs, married 16, got first into Hot wiving / wife sharing about 14+ years ago that lead us into cuckolding.
To answer some of your questions:
["Pnisnvnh, Welcome ‘on board’ You appear to be just the ‘challenge’ Steve needs to get him to seriously think about where he is, and where Sue is taking him as they move on to what Sue describes as their, “New Norm.” [or should we call it the 'lifestyle' even though Sue has been living the 'lifestyle' with her 'lovers' for years now]
Sue has been living a role for years not a livestyle with her lovers, Robert is the one that has changed that. The others she had, to put in simple terms where sexual aids to her and STB relationship. Now its more like STB is the sexual aid to her and Roberts relationship. That to me is a big change. Its the only reason also why I posted my comments here was because I saw that change and didn't think STB did.
["Your ‘profile’ yields no data that would authenticate that you are actually living the ‘lifestyle’ you describe."]
We do not feel comfortable putting a lot of info on the internet also its our sex lives and we like to keep it as private as possible. Matter a fact I don't even refer my wives name here, just call her wife. Don't need our lifestyle to be used against us. If thats ok with you?
["You parallel your experience with Steve & sue, but don’t say how long you have really been on this path, How old you, (and your wife) are, How long you have been reading this site, and does your wife know you are posting here. If so, does she also read it?"]
Over 13 yrs, both late 40's, reading it for at least 3 yrs, yes she does and always tells me I spell like a kid, and yes she does read it also she is the one that found this site.
["I think your advise to Steve is very good, but you are advising him to “go forward,” by encouraging Sue to take him fully into the “lifestyle” and willingly become “fully denied.” because it feels right for you! But is it right for Steve & Sue to go there?"]
A lot of STB comments make it seems that he would like it to go further, I'm not telling him to go further just trying to give him a view point from somebody that has gone further so he has something to think about and know where it might go. Me telling him something like going with condoms during his bare time was meant to be if he wanted to go forward that would be a good way to show her. Is it right for them to go "full denied"? Well thats is their decision, I'm just letting him know that its not as bad as some think it is and that it can be a great moment for a couple.
["I think you need to qualify yourself, before advising Steve 1. Where he is, and 2. When and how he should ‘push himself over what you describe as, "The hump.”’"] I'm sorry but didn't know I had to produce a college degree in cuckolding to be able to post my thoughts/views on an open for all forum on the internet, my bad.
Wow I feel like I just went thru an NSA interagation just missing the bright light in my face LOL, I should have heeded to the wives advice about not posting...