Thank you Inohhnvm for your contribution, this is such an interesting thread, and wonderful to read all comments and about your experiences.
I have to admit in honesty, my experience of cuckoldry is limited, but I know within me is a strong desire to follow this lifestyle having had desires and urges for many years.
To a few I’ve talked about it, including my now estranged separated wife, but the paths have never opened up.
For many years I practiced chastity in my last marriage that initially she loved, but her thrill in it soon wained. My urge and wish though continued and are still very strong.
Now having a new freedom want to explore this, talk about it openly, meet others, and yes, hopefully find a woman, couple, or people even that this lifestyle can be enjoyed with together!
It appears to me that yes, I can agree with the original statements from macylay, and Murphs broadens the list, that between them details the power exchange, this list we could add to at infinitum though as it really is about the individuals.
Thanks Murphs for talking about the Stag/Vixen angle, and within this thread a mention of Hot Wifes, that I would certainly say are in here, as they are practicing an empowerment of their sexuality.. I salute you!
To add I have also seen lately that for some the woman loves the man to appear as the strong partner, getting her studs/bulls. I'm sure for a number of women there will be a thrill in having her partner openly seek sexual partners for her, I find that thought really hot!
So many ways of the woman taking control and the cuck hubby/ boyfriend being denied to one degree another.
In my opinion what is most important is that there is openness, honesty and trust, even if understandings are present that have the Cuckoldress not have to report all of her activities.. I mean, I’d say most if not all couples don’t share their ever movement with heir partners, that would be exhausting, but also, it’s always good to have some level of mystery and intrigue!
For many years whilst married and still, I hanker to be the cuck, denied intimacies, but made to watch, know, having those cummy knickers tossed at me to be told to sniff, lick… A curling finger pointing me to the floor to look up to this beautiful assertive woman her wonderfully creamy pussy satiated after seeing her bulls!!
Seeing that sight, commanded to lick and feel against my lips and face, having me swim in an ocean of powerful angst and denial while admiring this woman’s fabulous empowered sexuality, utterly delicious!!
Having practiced chastity, I love the sensation tugging at me of angsty envy as I ache so badly, making the act of cunnilugus intimate to an incredible high degree.
There is an incredible thrill for me in both being denied for extended periods, but also as dbfldave has said, if my love returned her sexual drive still high, fucking her after her lovers is ohh my, that's a mind blowing thought!!
Ultimately though after reading through this thread and thinking of my experiences, I feel it is about the male in his love /affection for his partner, giving the woman the reigns so that she may fully enjoy her own sexuality on her terms.
So often men ‘direct’ intimate activities, and I confess even when I’ve tried to be non influencing I have been.
I know a few years ago I used to see posts from some men ‘sharing’ their wives, the women taking a submissive role the men finding their wives lovers. I didn’t get that, and didn’t see the men as cuckolds, merely having their women do their bidding.
I see now that this Stag/Vixen angle as described is certainly on the spectrum, sure some women do really get off on their hubbies finding their lovers!!
So see really then there is no real definitive line that I can see, it being about what works for both /all those within the power exchange in an open discussion bringing trust to experiment and explore, not really the acts themselves.
What ever level or acts enjoyed, the common factor is that for both/all there is the heady mix of feelings and emotions.
This is just my take, and am sure and hope others will continue to comment, just appreciate a place to talk openly, G