Yes, for me I was able to get another guy to fuck my wife, but it didn't start out with them chatting with her to start. In the case of the OP he told her via text that he was "a married friend". I would assume she would think from that, that it was someone she knew (a friend). I would be surprised that she didn't ask how he got her number, but maybe she did. The problem I have encountered when communicating with someone I know (e.g. a neighbor), but wanting to keep my identity unknown, is you can only take the charade so far, until you have to out yourself. In other words, if at some point the woman agrees to meet, then she will find out who you really are. If I were to do something like this (anonymous chat) with my wife, I would play it like a complete stranger, but then it comes back to "how did you get my phone number?" If she does agree to meet, then you can send in the stranger. Of course this also poses the problem of if you sent any pics during the chat, the stranger has to be someone who could pass for the guy in the pic(s). It's a hot idea, just can be tricky to successfully execute.