Has any here had trouble with thier spouse being emotionally attached to someone else. I know I've been encouraging my wife to have sex with other men but I want it to be just that, nothing but sex. I don't want her falling in love with anyone. The reason I ask is that she has someone in mind but lately, this past week realy it seems to be more emotional that sex driven.
Its not that I think there is some deception going on, Jess has always kept me in the loop. She told me things were picking up fast with this guy from work (Eugene) the flirting was getting more and more explicit and they were going out for coffee and lunch together and he was waiting for after work and riding the train with her.
Her company gave all thier employees today off, a 4 day holiday weekend and last night her and a group of people from her office went out for drinks. She told me where they were going and suggested I tag along. I told her I could'nt make due to a late meeting scheduled for yesterday afternoon. The meeting was cancelled at the last minute. I was going to call her but decided to just show up and surprise her. When I got there I found her office group and saw she was standing next to the bar having a drink with Eugene. I found myself a little corner table hidden from view and ordered a drink watching without them knowing. They seemed to be deeply involved in conversation, laughing, touching casually as they talked (shoulders, arm, knees).
I watched as he put his arm around her waist and walked her over to a booth away from everyone else. Normally 2 people at booth sit one at each side of the table. They both sat next to eachother on the same bench. They sat and continued talking ordering another round of drinks when Eugene put his arm around her and she rested her head on his shoulder. I dialed her cell phone as I watched them from the corner. She took out her phone looked at it and put it away again continuing her conversation. Eugene said something in her ear and she smiled at him. I was going to get up and walk over to them when I saw them kiss. I took a step back and went back to my little corner and watched them makeout until they suddenly they got up and walked out. I watched them through the window and was suprised to see them holding hands as they walked off talking and laughing. I am not the jealous type but I felt a little queazy at what was going on.
I dialed her cell phone again as I watched them from the window, once again she looked at it and put it away. I didn't bother leaving her a message. I was getting annoyed that she wasn't taking my calls and just as I was going to walk outside to meet her, they got into a taxi and went off.
I wanted to follow them but I had no way of knowing where they went. I hung around the bar a few more minutes to see if they would return then decided to just go home hoping she would already be home when I got there or that she would be close behind. It was another 3 hours, at 10pm when she finally called and told me she was comming home. I picked her up at the train station and played dumb asking her how the gathering went. She didn't mention anything about a kiss or going anywhere and I didn't bring it up.
Jess seem a little dazed and distant so I asked her if anything was wrong but she just said she was feeling a little dizzy from all the drinking and went to sleep. She woke up around 4am today horny as hell. I didn't fucking her, she fucked me. We talked for a while before falling asleep again and I asked if anything new had happened with Eugene. To my suprise she said no but things were moving along. I don't mind her fucking him, its her falling in love with him that I'm afraid of.
I want to tell her what I saw and ask where they went for so long but I just don't know how to bring it up without seeming like a psycho stalker or a jealous husband.
Its not that I think there is some deception going on, Jess has always kept me in the loop. She told me things were picking up fast with this guy from work (Eugene) the flirting was getting more and more explicit and they were going out for coffee and lunch together and he was waiting for after work and riding the train with her.
Her company gave all thier employees today off, a 4 day holiday weekend and last night her and a group of people from her office went out for drinks. She told me where they were going and suggested I tag along. I told her I could'nt make due to a late meeting scheduled for yesterday afternoon. The meeting was cancelled at the last minute. I was going to call her but decided to just show up and surprise her. When I got there I found her office group and saw she was standing next to the bar having a drink with Eugene. I found myself a little corner table hidden from view and ordered a drink watching without them knowing. They seemed to be deeply involved in conversation, laughing, touching casually as they talked (shoulders, arm, knees).
I watched as he put his arm around her waist and walked her over to a booth away from everyone else. Normally 2 people at booth sit one at each side of the table. They both sat next to eachother on the same bench. They sat and continued talking ordering another round of drinks when Eugene put his arm around her and she rested her head on his shoulder. I dialed her cell phone as I watched them from the corner. She took out her phone looked at it and put it away again continuing her conversation. Eugene said something in her ear and she smiled at him. I was going to get up and walk over to them when I saw them kiss. I took a step back and went back to my little corner and watched them makeout until they suddenly they got up and walked out. I watched them through the window and was suprised to see them holding hands as they walked off talking and laughing. I am not the jealous type but I felt a little queazy at what was going on.
I dialed her cell phone again as I watched them from the window, once again she looked at it and put it away. I didn't bother leaving her a message. I was getting annoyed that she wasn't taking my calls and just as I was going to walk outside to meet her, they got into a taxi and went off.
I wanted to follow them but I had no way of knowing where they went. I hung around the bar a few more minutes to see if they would return then decided to just go home hoping she would already be home when I got there or that she would be close behind. It was another 3 hours, at 10pm when she finally called and told me she was comming home. I picked her up at the train station and played dumb asking her how the gathering went. She didn't mention anything about a kiss or going anywhere and I didn't bring it up.
Jess seem a little dazed and distant so I asked her if anything was wrong but she just said she was feeling a little dizzy from all the drinking and went to sleep. She woke up around 4am today horny as hell. I didn't fucking her, she fucked me. We talked for a while before falling asleep again and I asked if anything new had happened with Eugene. To my suprise she said no but things were moving along. I don't mind her fucking him, its her falling in love with him that I'm afraid of.
I want to tell her what I saw and ask where they went for so long but I just don't know how to bring it up without seeming like a psycho stalker or a jealous husband.