Ok, I'm new to this site and I hope I don't offend or irritate anyone. I am just trying to express my thoughts and get some insight.
Cuckoldry, its been around since forever, however there seems to be a vast increase in its uptake since the birth of easily accessible porn and the 'sexualizion' of modern western culture/lifestyle and consumer adverts.
My journey began by having an adventurous mind, and an extremely influential personality. I have also been subject to a lot of porn for the past 8 years. I had the confidence and the self esteem of a 'Bull' and a package consisting of average length and above average girth. I also fantasised about fucking cheating wives (before I knew what cuckolding was).
Because of this, I turned my sweet innocent girlfriend that loved me unconditionally, and had a very positive and productive outlook on her life into MY sex addicted slut. There is nothing we wouldn't explore in bed, my influence on her is vast. I have always been concious of my influence and ensured she makes the most out of her life. I never thought porn would influence me so much, and in turn how I would influence her with her sexual fantasies and desires. Many guys know how it is with porn, you watch one thing over and over, until that no longer turns you on any more, so you move onto the next filthiest thing etc etc.
My slightly sadistic side and my quest for more sexual mental stimulus, led me to finding that I was getting turned on picturing my gf as the one that cheats or gets shared out, this then transformed into our sex life, I used my influential ways to get her turned on by it (not on purpose of course). Fast forward a little, I am more introverted and she's at a crucial decision point, does she want to fulfil her urge to find additional lovers, or not for the sake of its effect on our relationship. With my dick hard and clutched I can only encourage her to take that leap of faith when she asks "is it right?".
What have we done? We have destroyed a beautiful growth relationship ready to take on the world, into one where the women is as sex hungry as is our hunger for porn. Our life will revolve around sexual urges, and our ineffective self control, that once helped us grow as people, now is overruled by our search for the next orgasm or ejaculation.
My point is that, this is mostly bullshit. Cock size has little to do with being a great lover, if your at least near average size/girth, If you have the imagination, stamina and the understanding of your lover you can 'Bull' her all you want. And with regards to this interracial cuckolding, Being black myself I know that our cock sizes are greatly exaggerated because of porn. We simply do not have as much stretch in our cock as other ethnicities, so when we are flaccid it is almost the length of our erection, whereas other ethnicities go smaller when they are flaccid, (notice in cuckold video's the "white" husband is normally in this state). This means nothing on erection size, whereas in reality, on average white and black men are similar.
I can understand cuckolding if you cant be bothered to give your lover what she wants, and that was more or less understood before the relationship began, or you have an almost non existent cock, or your relationship isn't based on love. Here I see it being used, much like in ancient times.
However, partners in current cuckolding relationships that used to be once based on love, need to ask themselves is this really love? Love is giving someone the ability to destroy you, and trusting them not to do it. Love and Lust have a positive correlation, and therefore you cant love if you don't lust to have that person sexually. Obviously the term is widely used these days, and every one "show's love". But those of you that were in love, and now resort to cuckolding to get your kicks sexually, only care about each other deeply, but no longer love. A sort of companionship. You do know she will leave you when she can find a great lover AND security. Those wife's that stay are only doing so because of the kids.
Jealousy is a natural trait in women, cuckoldry stories/porn create a need for a bigger and sometimes blacker cock, that really means very little if you know how to use it. Men create slut's.
Call me arrogant for stating that, but it is my opinion and I would like to hear any feedback.
As far as my relationship goes, she was supposed to call a guy on that night for sex, but instead she called me. she showed self control for our relationship. And I'll be damned if I don't fix my act up. I'm Too much of a Man to become a cuckold at the sake of mental stimulation. This relationship is too great to become slaves to sexual urges.
I have since kicked the porn addiction, put my testosterone into exercise and worked my influence to make her lust for my renewed confidence once again.
I have to admit the fantasy of her being taken by other men still arouses me, and from soul searching this is mostly because of me being slightly sadistic, but also this "fantasy" can be used as just that, a fantasy in the security of your own bedroom, without the effects of forcing it to become reality. Self control and fantasy are sooo erotic if played with correctly.
Cuckoldry, its been around since forever, however there seems to be a vast increase in its uptake since the birth of easily accessible porn and the 'sexualizion' of modern western culture/lifestyle and consumer adverts.
My journey began by having an adventurous mind, and an extremely influential personality. I have also been subject to a lot of porn for the past 8 years. I had the confidence and the self esteem of a 'Bull' and a package consisting of average length and above average girth. I also fantasised about fucking cheating wives (before I knew what cuckolding was).
Because of this, I turned my sweet innocent girlfriend that loved me unconditionally, and had a very positive and productive outlook on her life into MY sex addicted slut. There is nothing we wouldn't explore in bed, my influence on her is vast. I have always been concious of my influence and ensured she makes the most out of her life. I never thought porn would influence me so much, and in turn how I would influence her with her sexual fantasies and desires. Many guys know how it is with porn, you watch one thing over and over, until that no longer turns you on any more, so you move onto the next filthiest thing etc etc.
My slightly sadistic side and my quest for more sexual mental stimulus, led me to finding that I was getting turned on picturing my gf as the one that cheats or gets shared out, this then transformed into our sex life, I used my influential ways to get her turned on by it (not on purpose of course). Fast forward a little, I am more introverted and she's at a crucial decision point, does she want to fulfil her urge to find additional lovers, or not for the sake of its effect on our relationship. With my dick hard and clutched I can only encourage her to take that leap of faith when she asks "is it right?".
What have we done? We have destroyed a beautiful growth relationship ready to take on the world, into one where the women is as sex hungry as is our hunger for porn. Our life will revolve around sexual urges, and our ineffective self control, that once helped us grow as people, now is overruled by our search for the next orgasm or ejaculation.
My point is that, this is mostly bullshit. Cock size has little to do with being a great lover, if your at least near average size/girth, If you have the imagination, stamina and the understanding of your lover you can 'Bull' her all you want. And with regards to this interracial cuckolding, Being black myself I know that our cock sizes are greatly exaggerated because of porn. We simply do not have as much stretch in our cock as other ethnicities, so when we are flaccid it is almost the length of our erection, whereas other ethnicities go smaller when they are flaccid, (notice in cuckold video's the "white" husband is normally in this state). This means nothing on erection size, whereas in reality, on average white and black men are similar.
I can understand cuckolding if you cant be bothered to give your lover what she wants, and that was more or less understood before the relationship began, or you have an almost non existent cock, or your relationship isn't based on love. Here I see it being used, much like in ancient times.
However, partners in current cuckolding relationships that used to be once based on love, need to ask themselves is this really love? Love is giving someone the ability to destroy you, and trusting them not to do it. Love and Lust have a positive correlation, and therefore you cant love if you don't lust to have that person sexually. Obviously the term is widely used these days, and every one "show's love". But those of you that were in love, and now resort to cuckolding to get your kicks sexually, only care about each other deeply, but no longer love. A sort of companionship. You do know she will leave you when she can find a great lover AND security. Those wife's that stay are only doing so because of the kids.
Jealousy is a natural trait in women, cuckoldry stories/porn create a need for a bigger and sometimes blacker cock, that really means very little if you know how to use it. Men create slut's.
Call me arrogant for stating that, but it is my opinion and I would like to hear any feedback.
As far as my relationship goes, she was supposed to call a guy on that night for sex, but instead she called me. she showed self control for our relationship. And I'll be damned if I don't fix my act up. I'm Too much of a Man to become a cuckold at the sake of mental stimulation. This relationship is too great to become slaves to sexual urges.
I have since kicked the porn addiction, put my testosterone into exercise and worked my influence to make her lust for my renewed confidence once again.
I have to admit the fantasy of her being taken by other men still arouses me, and from soul searching this is mostly because of me being slightly sadistic, but also this "fantasy" can be used as just that, a fantasy in the security of your own bedroom, without the effects of forcing it to become reality. Self control and fantasy are sooo erotic if played with correctly.
