Thanks all, appreciate the feedback. Very new to this lifestyle (even just the thought of it) and while the wife knows of my fetishes she is not very accepting yet, but sex is boring for her, and I gave up trying to get her to do the conventional stuff a wife should want to do, like blow jobs etc. I think she just accepted it rather than wanting to try something new. However our relationship is very top/bottom, she being the top, from all perspectives. I like that way because and prefer to not be the alpha male outside of work. I went the other way and started exploring my fetishes and realized I am what I am, a little dick sissy. I know she has a thing for black guys and I know she secretly want's a bigger cock in her pussy. After seeing this black guy and the way she looked at him and where she looked there is no doubt. Can blame her based on the size of my clitty?