How did you first find out that your wife was cheating with another man?
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A possible response (seemingly) would have been to take your wife's "gift from her lover" border collie to your local animal shelter while she was away, possibly with her lover, explaining to her when she returned that you don't have time to deal with a dog — since dogs, as you know well, require a lot of attention and interaction. That could also have been a not-too-subtle message to your wife that you don't want something around your house all the time reminding you of her lover.johnmasters said:
Were they flirting at this point or had they already cuckolded you?redheads said:
My wife doesn’t have much of a cleavage. She used to wear a nurses fob watch pinned over her left breast. One time when we were out a complete stranger admired the watch by holding it in his hand with the back of his hand pressed into her breast. This happened in front of me with him looking me in the eye and smiling. It was quite a turn on.
Did it turn you on to see your wife displaying her cleavage and watching him getting intimate with her in public?
I caught her necking with a guy, in her car, at a parking lot at our local mall, I drove right up to her car with out her knowing it, and saw her being embraced in his arms, before they saw me, he jumped out of her car and left, she said he was a guy from work, and there camp job had ended for a week , and she was just saying bye to him, it went on for a month or sojohnmasters said:
My wife was cheating with another woman, but this thread is about how I found out. She forgot her cell phone in the bathroom. This was pretty strange and I decided to unlock the screen. It was not protected with a password at that time. The FB messenger was open. The chat was with one of her female co-workers. First I noticed a lot of hearts and lips (kissing emoticons). Then a scrolled back to the beginning and read all the entire chat. Pretty interesting stuff about long kisses and touching everywhere, love, etc. Of course she denied but after that her cell phone was protected by a password. For a few months the sex was better than usual.
johnmasters said:
My wife did the same. She was out at night a lot. This normally would be a big red flag but she was saying she went for studying as its hard to concentrate at home. She also worn makeups and went work out a lot more often. Was keep buying new clothes, new movie/music and taking more selfies. Never left her phone more than 3 feet away from her, password protected and wouldn't let me drive her car. If I put all the cues together, it is pretty obvious. But it's usually subtle at the beginning and only when I thought of all the changes back then, every piece just came together.
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From conversations I have with my wife, there are a lot more married women having sex outside their marriage than u may imagine. Jacqui with my knowledge mostly, has had numerous lovers over the time we have been together. She tells me about her friends and its hard to imagine they do but they are human and have needs and if there men can't supply it why shouldn't they find someone who will?
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According to surveys published on a site elsewhere (that no longer exists), the percentage of married women who have had affairs with someone outside their marriage (while married) has gradually increased, over the decades, to where it is, in the most recent such survey, about the same as the percentage of married men who have had or are having affairs — about 50%.MarkandJacqui said:
If married women are less likely to admit they've had or are having extramarital affairs than married men, which seems likely, that suggests the percentage of married women who have had at least one extramarital affair may be significantly larger than the percentage of married men who have done so (i.e., significantly larger than 50%).
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Once word got out that my wife had cheated on me I was hit on by several women and learnt of more who were known to be screwing around and that was just in the office where I worked. One of my own staff even told me she was in an open relationship and I could fuck her if I wanted. Looking back I could have had several at that time but I was only interested in one woman, my wife.
My wife has been fucking her boss almost 11 years now. At her office it was initially a big subject for gossip but over time despite the fact that it was a fact people started to dismiss it as just a "rumor".johnmasters said:
They recently "came out" at the firms Christmas party at a city centre hotel where they took a room together its now common knowledge. I can identify with what John says insofar as I have been approached by two women she works with offering "a shoulder to cry on" I don't need it! I have known almost the whole 11 years and love it. He's very well endowed and gives her pleasure I can't possibly give her. Like John I don't crave other women although I do find them very sexy of course, but for me there's only ever been jacqui and I love the fact she's not scared to explore sexually.
