So here is our situation. We've been together for almost 10 years, she is 15 years older than me - I'm 30, she is 45. We met when she was 36, and for the first few years we had sex non-stop. Back then she told me she had something like 12 or 15 sexual partners before me (can't remember exactly), and she even admitted that she fantasized about having sex with two men at the same time. We contemplated a little how to make it a reality - she wanted it to be anonymous, and didn't want to do it with any of our mutual friends, but she was hesitating about doing it with strangers for the fear or diseases, and so on. So this idea never went beyond talks during intimate moments in the beginning of our relationship. Then at some point she stopped talking about this completely and didn't like me even bringing it up. I didn't persist much either, because at that point our sex life was still crazy, we humped like rabbits.
But as life would have it, our sex life slowed down, life caught on, and at this point its pretty much came to a hault.
I should say however that a couple of years ago, there was some hope on the horizon... We were hanging out a lot with a mutual friend of ours, and I noticed that she obviously had the hots for him. She would dress up in ******** clothes whenever he would come by, and talked very highly of him. Clearly she wanted to fuck him, and I advised him of that. He was very excited, and he started working on making it happen. He would flirt with her, he would give her long kisses hello and goodbye very close to her lips, and I pretended not to notice any of this. It was this close! She told me she would go to some place with him on one of the weekends for Spanish dancing or something like that. I played it off like I didn't suspect anything of it. But then of all the sudden he met this girl, and said that this whole idea would have to be put on hold. Then he developed a relationship with the girl, and it never happened. My wife is still bitter about it, her attitude towards him completely changed, and I just dont bring up this topic with him.
How for the last couple of years our sex life was almost non existent. We barely have sex anymore, maybe once every two months or so. Now, I am still horny, but it seems that her sex drive is either gone, or she just lost interest in me. This year we only had sex once, or maybe twice. Meanwhile I know she isn't fucking anybody else.
Our other problem is that we both work from home, so pretty much either one of us goes somewhere, we know where each other is going and for how long (not that we check on each other, but thats just how it is). I'm just afraid that she lost her sex drive. I mean, at least I masturbate, but I don't know if she does. Our other problem is that with both of us working from home, we meet very few new people, so theres almost no opportunity for her to fuck somebody.
Now on the rare occasions that we still have sex, I try and be lousy on purpose. I would try and masturbate a couple of times before sex, to reduce my sex drive, and try and surpress my erection to have my dick as soft and small as possible, while pretending that its fully erect. Normally I'm around 6-1/2", but this way I'm able to surpress myself down to about 5-1/2". Also, when I'm fucking her, I don't pull it all the way through. When she begs me to go deeper in, I pretend to be all the way in, while not being anywhere nearly fully in.
I'm just hoping that she will get fed up with the lousy, rare sex, and will finally find a man to fuck her on the side. But what worries me, maybe she lost her sex drive for good? I mean she's already 45, is that too late?
Any suggestions for me?
P.S. She is a hot blond, a bit on the chubby side, with big, gourgeous tits, and delicios ass. She is also a multicummer, and usually cums around 10 times during intercourse.
But as life would have it, our sex life slowed down, life caught on, and at this point its pretty much came to a hault.
I should say however that a couple of years ago, there was some hope on the horizon... We were hanging out a lot with a mutual friend of ours, and I noticed that she obviously had the hots for him. She would dress up in ******** clothes whenever he would come by, and talked very highly of him. Clearly she wanted to fuck him, and I advised him of that. He was very excited, and he started working on making it happen. He would flirt with her, he would give her long kisses hello and goodbye very close to her lips, and I pretended not to notice any of this. It was this close! She told me she would go to some place with him on one of the weekends for Spanish dancing or something like that. I played it off like I didn't suspect anything of it. But then of all the sudden he met this girl, and said that this whole idea would have to be put on hold. Then he developed a relationship with the girl, and it never happened. My wife is still bitter about it, her attitude towards him completely changed, and I just dont bring up this topic with him.
How for the last couple of years our sex life was almost non existent. We barely have sex anymore, maybe once every two months or so. Now, I am still horny, but it seems that her sex drive is either gone, or she just lost interest in me. This year we only had sex once, or maybe twice. Meanwhile I know she isn't fucking anybody else.
Our other problem is that we both work from home, so pretty much either one of us goes somewhere, we know where each other is going and for how long (not that we check on each other, but thats just how it is). I'm just afraid that she lost her sex drive. I mean, at least I masturbate, but I don't know if she does. Our other problem is that with both of us working from home, we meet very few new people, so theres almost no opportunity for her to fuck somebody.
Now on the rare occasions that we still have sex, I try and be lousy on purpose. I would try and masturbate a couple of times before sex, to reduce my sex drive, and try and surpress my erection to have my dick as soft and small as possible, while pretending that its fully erect. Normally I'm around 6-1/2", but this way I'm able to surpress myself down to about 5-1/2". Also, when I'm fucking her, I don't pull it all the way through. When she begs me to go deeper in, I pretend to be all the way in, while not being anywhere nearly fully in.
I'm just hoping that she will get fed up with the lousy, rare sex, and will finally find a man to fuck her on the side. But what worries me, maybe she lost her sex drive for good? I mean she's already 45, is that too late?
Any suggestions for me?
P.S. She is a hot blond, a bit on the chubby side, with big, gourgeous tits, and delicios ass. She is also a multicummer, and usually cums around 10 times during intercourse.
