Intro

[servemywifehappily]

Below is an introduction I have posted on other sites. My wife and I have just moved to Columbia SC, and are considering what way to go with our lifestyle now that we are in a new area. I ahve no specific quesitons for this group yet, just wanted to say "Hi", and maybe chat sometime in the future.

I am 45 YO, not bad looking with a penis on the small side (4.0 inches when allowed to get hard). I am submissive by nature and that is clearly why I married a wife is very much a take charge kind of woman.

I am very turned on by submission and cuckoldry. AND LOVE WEBTEASES, and web mistresses!!!

Some ways I serve her are:

1) I will wake her up every morning with oral sex she calls it her "wake up call". After her orgasm, I go and make her coffee.

2) I kiss her goodnight on the small of her back , just above her sexy ass, or on her ass itself. (She likes to sleep on her stomach)

3) foot rubs while watching TV

4) She has a game called "Kiss It"…whenever she says "kiss it" (usually just casually ) I must immediately drop to my knees an kiss her hot ass! She will do this at malls, at parties, etc… Humiliating, and HOT!

5) whenever she goes shopping I carry her purse and her bags and answer all questions with "Yes my goddess"… the sales girls get quite a kick out of this.

6) always answer the phone when she calls either "Yes my love" or "Yes my Goddess" or "Yes, Love of my life".

She is always very flirty in public, and dresses HOT! She knows how it turns me on when she flirts with other guys., And she is SOOO hot every morning leaving for the gym looking HOT in her LuLu Lemons and tight workout tops

She has kept me locked in chastity 24/7 for a shile now, and has taken her fitness trainer as a lover.

She has always been honest with me that my little penis does not give her pleasure, but she sometimes wil allow me to cum every Saturday (usually masturbating in front on her(says i can cum on saturdays if i am good). AND if I want teasing or sexual attention I can get it from web porn and phone sex as she knows I cannot cum or even get a real erection without her letting me out of my Steel CB. She thinks it is hysterical that I torture myself this way.

Nude pics,so don't go here if you are not prepared.
I am servemywifehappily on this site Small penis humiliation with Miss Jericah of NiteFlirt!

I am wfs_slave at yahoo.com and like to chat with others

 

[servemywifehappily]

Chance to cum...need suggestions

My wife has really cut back on allowing me to cum in the last few months, but she has said she might allow me this weekend, IF I can find some new way to humiliate myself publically taht would entertain her.

Once in the past to accomplish this, I had a picture taken of me at a Hooters resturant with a hooters girls showing that I was wearing my lacy panties. The pic pleased my wfie, and so i was allowed to jerk off.

Need new ideas..... ANything?

Things I ahve done in the past to amuze her....

Either something I could do in front of her, or jsut with her off to the side watching.

I have , of course done the shoipping at victorias Secret trip before as well.


Have gone to a strip club together, and goten a private dance so taht I could show the stripper my chastity device and tell her why I wear it. She tells the other girls in the place , and my wife flirts with teh horny clients, and teases me in front of everyone. (that was a hot night)

 

[Villain]

Just start sucking dick already. Why put off the inevitable?

 

[servemywifehappily]

yuck,

i have no interest and my wife (thankfully neer asks me to)

 

[Custer Laststand]

Servemywifehappily,

Below is an introduction I have posted on other sites. My wife and I have just moved to Columbia SC, and are considering what way to go with our lifestyle now that we are in a new area. I have no specific quesitons for this group yet, just wanted to say "Hi" and maybe chat sometime in the future.

Welcome!

.... I am submissive by nature and that is why I married a woman who is very much a take-charge kind of wife.

Good choice (for both of you)...

Some ways I serve her are:

1) I wake her up every morning with oral sex. She calls it her "wake up call." After her orgasm, I go and make her coffee.

2) I kiss her goodnight on the small of her back , just above her sexy ass, or on her ass itself. (She likes to sleep on her stomach.)

Excellent; both practices are completely appropriate. (Would your wife view you even more favorably if, as she falls asleep each night, you were to nuzzle your face between her cheeks, kiss her asshole, and give her analingus until she's satisfied and says something like: "That's enough, asskisser darling"...?)

3) Foot rubs while watching TV.

Also excellent. Has your wife considered queening you while watching TV? See, for instance:

The Fine Art of Queening

Fetish Furniture Factory

4) She has a game called "Kiss It"…whenever she says "kiss it" (usually just casually) I must immediately drop to my knees an kiss her hot ass! She does this at malls, parties, etc... it's humiliating and HOT!

5) Whenever she goes shopping I carry her purse and her bags and answer all questions with "Yes my goddess"… the sales girls get quite a kick out of this.

These are exceptionally good practices by your wife, since — by relating to you in these ways in public, as she does — she encourages other women by example to take the lead in their relationships with their husbands, as well as with other men, even if they are "platonic."

6) I always answer the phone when she calls with "Yes, my love" or "Yes, my Goddess" or "Yes, Love of my life".

It's hard to see how your phone-answering etiquette could be better. You might consider slightly-expanding your repertoire to include (e.g.): "Yes, Boss...?" or "You wish to speak with me, Ma'am...?" etc.

She is always very flirty in public, and dresses HOT! She knows it turns me on when she flirts with other guys, and she looks SOOO hot every morning leaving for the gym in her LuLu Lemons and tight workout tops. She has kept me locked in chastity 24/7 for a while now, and has taken her fitness trainer as a lover.

All good. It is, of course, important for your wife to have at least one lover. Keeping you in a chastity device... with her, no doubt, your sole key holder... is almost certainly wise as well, to forestall you masturbating behind her back, pursuing other women, and to generally maintain her ownership of your penis, especially while she's out on dates fucking her lovers.

She has always been honest with me that my little penis does not give her pleasure...

As she should...

.... but she sometimes will allow me to cum on Saturdays (usually masturbating in front on her — she says i can cum on saturdays if i'm good). AND if I want teasing or sexual attention I can get it from web porn and phone sex, as she knows I cannot cum or even get a real erection without her letting me out of my Steel CB. She thinks it is hysterical that I torture myself this way.

Allowing you to masturbate once weekly but only in front of her under her supervision, is a very reasonable management practice by your wife. It's very generous of her to allow you to look at web porn and get some phone sex.

For occasions when it's necessary for you to fly or come-and-go from buildings that have magnetometer-based metal-detection alarms (courthouses, for example), she might consider getting you a chastity device that does not set off such alarms. See, for example:

ExoBelt - The best male chastity device in the world.

Welcome to CB-6000.com - World Leader in Male Chastity

Thank you for enlightening us regarding your wife's style of managing you. It sounds like she has a proper view of your relationship, and that you properly accept your role... in her marriage and in the broader society... as your wife's submissive cuckold.

Incidentally, how does your wife handle finances? Are your household funds entirely in accounts under her name (only), is any income you might earn deposited directly into one of her accounts (not yours), are your house and vehicle(s) in her name (only), and does she give you a small allowance each weak for necessary expenditures? Must you ask her permission for any purchase in excess of your allowance? I.e., if your wife wishes to purchase a new car that's her decision alone, but if you wish to purchase a new shirt you must ask her permission?

—Custer

 

[servemywifehappily]

i handle all the finances. SHe , of course , does not work, and simply spends as she sees fit on her credit cards which I of course pay. She does keep an eye on my purchases, and will get angry if I am spending too much as it could impact HER needs. But she prefers to not think of money, ony that she has it whenever she wants it

 

[Custer Laststand]

I handle all the finances. My wife, of course, does not work and simply spends as she sees fit on her credit cards which I, of course, pay. She does keep an eye on my purchases, and gets angry if I spend too much as that could impact HER needs. But, she prefers to not think of money, only that she has it whenever she wants it.

Ah... I see. From your initial post, it sounded like your wife might be bringing home the bacon (as it's called) and you might be her stay-at-home submissive-cuckold househusband. Thanks for the clarification.

 

[servemywifehappily]

1) My wife’s birthday is coming up, so as usual I will through her a party. This year I thought I might include in the invitation to all our friends that I have planned something extra for my wife as you all know that I do not satisfy her sexually as I am old and tiny. (they will think this is just a joke – but not be sure) Then I will interview (with her) and hire a male stripper making sure that that we discuss that he must be large, because I am not. I am certain that she will have fun with the stripper in front of our friends - to my additional humiliation.

2) My concern with the above is that it really is something that may not be complete this week, and so she MAY tell me that My “reward” will have to wait until after the party….so while I will likely do the above, I also thought perhaps i would put on a red bra and sexy panties, and a white t-shirt and short running shorts, and the go to get my much needed haircut. SO it will be apparent, and I will have to sit there for close to an hour. Not sure if I should go to the salon with the gay guy, or the one with the sexy young girl. Thoughts?

 

[Villain]

1) Hiring a huge-dicked stripper may not actually make you look that bad. Nine or ten inches is going to put most men to shame, not just small men like yourself.

2) Definitely the salon with the sexy young girl.

 

[Custer Laststand]

6) I always answer the phone when my wife calls either "Yes my love" or "Yes my Goddess" or "Yes, Love of my life."

Do you find you have to put up with some ribbing from your male coworkers about this? Combined, that is, with "Good boy" encouragement from your female coworkers...?

Or — after your male coworkers told their wives (obviously) about your hilarious (they thought) phone-answering habit — do you notice they now answer phone calls from their wives in the same way...?

 

[Custer Laststand]

5) Whenever my wife goes shopping, I carry her purse and her bags and answer all questions with, "Yes my goddess." The sales girls get quite a kick out of this.

I had a somewhat similar experience a while back. A woman acquaintance (not my wife; she and I have been separated for some time) said she needed some clothes of a particular kind and asked me if I would pay for them. I replied, "About how much are we talking about here...?" She gave me a number. I said, "OK."

Next day we went to my friend's preferred store, and I walked behind her as she strode around selecting the clothes she wanted. Each time she picked something out, she hung it over my arm then strode on to the next rack as I continued to follow behind. She was quite decisive and spent almost no time trying to decide whether to get "this" as opposed to "that." Finally, she walked to the cashier — a physically small but attractive young Asian woman — who immediately perceived the nature of our relationship, complimented my friend on having me so well-trained, and rang up the purchase... which, not surprisingly, was double the estimate I had agreed to. My friend asked me if that was OK. I said, "Yes, Ma'am." The cashier then made further comments about how well-trained I was (seemingly hoping to embarrass me) as she completed the check-out... but I treated it all as totally normal, and did not turn red. My friend also treated the checkout as totally normal, and did not respond to any of the "well-trained" compliments.

 

[servemywifehappily]

Do you find you have to put up with some ribbing from your male coworkers about this? Combined, that is, with "Good boy" encouragement from your female coworkers...?

Or — after your male coworkers told their wives (obviously) about your hilarious (they thought) phone-answering habit — do you notice they now answer phone calls from their wives in the same way...?

Everyone in my office works for me, so that impacts their response
THe ones I am friendly with outside the office (as all my male friends do) tell me how whipped I am. The females at work tell me how sweet that is and poke the other men and their own husbands to tell them to be more devoted, as MIke is! They say ALL men should be like that...if they only knew the true exent of my devotion ;-)
Makes me proud honestly.

 

[servemywifehappily]

ANother idea was to perform on a gay webcam site , and let her watch from off cam. as she knows how this would humiliate me as I am not at ALL interested in other men.


Running out fo time to decide on the idea I am going to propose...anyone else?

 

[Custer Laststand]

Servemywifehappily,

Everyone in my office works for me, so that impacts their responses.

Yes, I suppose it must. Somewhat analogous to the physics principle, according to which the act of measuring a phenomenon affects the nature of the phenomenon... only much more so.

The ones I am friendly with outside the office tell me how [pussy-]whipped I am, as do all my [other] male friends.

It is, of course, hard to change ingrained cultural practices and attitudes... but on the plus side, I suppose the obvious disapproval by other men of your subservience to your wife, thinly disguised as "concern," must contribute deliciously to your secret feelings of satisfaction caused by your wife (in essence) humiliating you not only in public, but in front of your own employees.

The females at work tell me how sweet that is, and poke the other men and their own husbands telling them to be more devoted, as Mike is! They say ALL men should be like that...

Ah-ha... here, you have gotten down to the essence of what it's all about: what men must do to gain the approval and admiration of women, thereby being sexually attractive to them. As the boss, you have... more or less by definition, since you're the local alpha male... an advantage over your male employees in seeming sexually attractive to your female employees. (Unless, that is, you're an asshole, which evidently you aren't, and treat your female employees badly, which evidently you don't. Also your photo shows you aren't bad-looking, which helps.) If you have obviously increased your sexual attractiveness to the women around you by ceding all leadership and authority to your wife in your relationship with her, and the women in your company are pushing the men — as well as their own husbands — to do likewise, that's powerful motivation for the men to gradually but surely move in that direction (in spite of themselves, as it were).

If they only knew the true exent of my devotion. ;-) It makes me proud, honestly.

You should be proud. As a relatively-influential man viewed (I'll guess) as something of a business leader, you're making an unusually positive contribution to society — not just within your own company, but in a broader sense.

—Custer

 

[servemywifehappily]

OK Custer, not to make this a mutual admiration society, but i like you too. What a great, thoughtful, and more than that - thought provoking post.

and was that Heidegger you were referencing?.. so much more interesting that the normal "Hey dude you got a tiny cock" comment.

Thanks, I think I may have found a good forum ;-)

 

[servemywifehappily]

OK all wish me luck I am very nervous...i will preent my ideas to my wife tonight as she gets ready to go out. I hope she finds at least one fo them acceptale.

OH and I was just doing what I do every friday, and was wondering if anyone else does this with their wife. that is she has me take a Cialis each friday evening. It ensure that i continually strain at my cage when whe is having her fun, expecially if I am watching, but man this stuff is amazing, even at MY age, i have constant attempts at erection all weekend. I mean just for no reason... Really makes sure I remember my place.

 

[Villain]

OH and I was just doing what I do every friday, and was wondering if anyone else does this with their wife. that is she has me take a Cialis each friday evening. It ensure that i continually strain at my cage when whe is having her fun, expecially if I am watching, but man this stuff is amazing, even at MY age, i have constant attempts at erection all weekend. I mean just for no reason... Really makes sure I remember my place.

I took one of those once, and it just gave me a headache for like three straight days.

 

[servemywifehappily]

<sigh> as I net you all thought this weekend did not work out as I had dreamed. I presented all the idea, and my wife liked them, but they were not good enough. ALso, she was a bit mad that I had ruined her birthday aprty surprise, so now she expects those plans, plus something NEW as a surprise. NO other critique of ideas, just "not good enough", so here I sit still frustrated.

She also knew that the week of trying to think these thru was exciting for me, so as instructed, I thanked her for the opportunity to focus on her deisres and amuzement even more than usual. She expects me to keep that level fo focus even though - there will be orgasm as reward in the future. Her happiness is more than enough reward.

<sigh>