Advice needed. Briefly, wife has done MFM with me and a long distance friend, then first interracial with a guy who really rocked her world. I handled the first time badly as I was in it for MFM and my first ever bout of stage fright frustrated me. But after the fact I admitted to her I was wrong to respond in any negative fashion and begged her forgiveness. I was not critical, just confused and fearful of how it made me feel with her really getting off big time on BBC.
Convinced her to try it again...and after 4 additional times which she really enjoyed, she had a kind of "been there, done that" attitude and really has no interest in Hotwife actitivities. We have a great sex life and I am not cuck at all, nor does she find that a turn on for her (she likes me to participate to watch, but to still be strong in her eyes). I know women are wired differently, and I want to respect her wishes, but after her first IR experience she looked me in the eye and said, "I could get used to that", so my conflicted emotions got in the way of really letting the bird fly..if you will.
My question is, how to reignite and bring out that woman who was hot for it?
Anyone have experience in this area? I don't want to trick her, but would love to here ideas no matter how off the wall. At the end of the day our marriage is larger than some IR fun, but wow it really was incredible and I would love for us both to equally enjoy IR hotwife lifestyle together as part of an already great relationship.
Thanks for any help.
Convinced her to try it again...and after 4 additional times which she really enjoyed, she had a kind of "been there, done that" attitude and really has no interest in Hotwife actitivities. We have a great sex life and I am not cuck at all, nor does she find that a turn on for her (she likes me to participate to watch, but to still be strong in her eyes). I know women are wired differently, and I want to respect her wishes, but after her first IR experience she looked me in the eye and said, "I could get used to that", so my conflicted emotions got in the way of really letting the bird fly..if you will.
My question is, how to reignite and bring out that woman who was hot for it?
Anyone have experience in this area? I don't want to trick her, but would love to here ideas no matter how off the wall. At the end of the day our marriage is larger than some IR fun, but wow it really was incredible and I would love for us both to equally enjoy IR hotwife lifestyle together as part of an already great relationship.
Thanks for any help.