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Hah! I liked the last comment, but it is not like that!
White men in Africa are besieged by African women wanting white partners. White women who are looking for a white boyfriend (and many are), have to work hard and compete with the African women in a way they would not dream of doing in the UK. One a dance floor in Kenya female dance partners are regularly 'bumped' off at the end of a song by others who want to dance with you. You find white women regulary bumping off African girls to get their chance to dance with, only to be bumpd off in turn.
If you tell an African man such as a local travel agent that you have no idea about the local night life, he will delight in offering to take you to local night spots. Why? Because he knows sitting with a white man is guaranteed to get him a lot of attention as well.
Those who are single and go there for more than a 2 week holiday are considered '5 star' potential boyfriends and few have difficulty finding a white girlfriend and she knows that she is in serious competion with African women seeking his attention and interest.
Night life in Africa for white men and women in Africa is completely upside down in comparison to normal western concepts of social life.
The fact that an African man can marry several wives is one that white women struggle to understand and accept. How can there be adultery when a man is entitled to court and marry other women?
So a white women may be taken back to his villa and be introduced to his other wives before being taken to bed....
Divorce is rare as the African man has other wives to help him care for children from the divorcing wife and his financial obligations to his other wives and all his children over the departing wife means that her finincial gain can be minimal in comparison with the 'west'
So in Africa wives set out to please and be favourite rather than 'nag and moan'
My wife had a delightfull afternoon chatting with a wealthy African woman, who later took her to several shops mywife had not known of. At the end of the afternoon she invited my wife to come back and meet her husband. My wife was quite shocked. (This afternoon was before her own seduction).
But when you stop and rationalise the African woman who can supply her husband with a desirable white woman is going to have high status in his eyes and remain favourite.
We were both shocked and intrigued to read a story in the local paper. A riot had broken out in a local township after an African woman had refused to sleep with one of her husband's brothers. The resultant disagreement escalated into a street wide fight.
The judge concluded that her 'irrational' behaviour in not sleeping with the brother was the cause of the disturbance and sent the African wife to jail!!!
Africa is different...full stop.
Forget your western concepts they don't apply and are not understood.
Don't take teenage daughters to Africa, either on holiday, or for work!!
The Africans laws on what constitutes 'underage' in Africa caught me out and catch out most expats who think Africa is just the same as Uk except the people are black and their are poorer facilities.
It is not the culture is different.
Be warned the 'average' age of a white prostitute in South Africa has been recorded as mid-teens (I decided against giving that age, not sure of site restrictions, but that is what it is). In that country there have been reports of girls snatched from their parents car!
Countries vary wildly and research is advisable. Kenya went through a wild period a few years ago when armed bandits seized nearly half of Mombassa. It took the Kenyan army to drive them out for 3 days. Tourists were warned to stay in their room, the bandidts simply went from room to room looking for loot and sex with white women.
The teen daughter of the Danish Ambassador was hauled out of a safari van and taken off into the bush. Everyone in the van was kept at gunpoint until they had 'all' finished with her..
But Kenya has settled down now, and the government are actively disarming the population. South Africa is known as the 'rape capitol' of the world. The Nigerian Mafia pretty much control the drugs and prostitution trade.
On the other hand I would recommend Namibia, Bostwana, Uganda, Zambia and the Mozambiccan coastal holidays.
Avoid the west African states like Gambia, western tourist meccas that are awful.
and remember in some countries in North Africa slavery is still lawful!
Kenyan businessmen stock their massage parlours with white girls, rasther than african girls....they know what their customers want...
Though I have not seen that myself. (It was reported in AfricaNews).
As a 'white executive' who decided who got paid what in rather large sums of money, and in a country where bribery and corruption were considered 'normal' I was offered African women, but also white women.
One African businessman who had a 75% monoply on the transport business offered me a 17yo white girl if I would drop off my wife at his villa the next time I left the city to visit the northern construction sites. When I shown reservations about this he offered to throw in her 35yo mother as well. Both stood quietly to one side during this conversation. I have no doubt that they were just as easily offered to others.
I had only been in the country 2 months and I declined. Though later after my wife's seduction and after getting used to Africa I may have chosen differently.
My company's advice on bribes was that it could be 'dangerous' to refuse. Report all bribe offers, or attempts at blackmail. There were people they paid off at a very high level who would clamp down on anyone who was not 'in the clique' at the top.
Make no mistake Africa is a great continent, and a white man can have a lot of fun at very low cost.
On the other hand a white women in Africa can also have a lot of fun, but forget about love and marriage western style. Prepare to share and be shared. Be sensible and get in with the rich Africans and you will (probably) be shared among a small elite group of 4-5.
Do something stupid, or careless and you might be 'shared' by 15 men at a time. That was the average number of factory workers who shared a villa in Harare.
It is hard to prove that an African policamen and his friends raped you after you have spent a night in a cell with 25 African men...
Mixed cells---yes, it reduces tensions in jails they tell me...
