Hm
Why not do oral? Just seems rather lazy not to do it.
For those who are concerned with their images as Big, Bad, Black Dommes, you can easily give oral pleasure to a woman without screwing up you and your woman's D/s feelings.
A couple of tips:
1. Tie/chain her up; blindfold/gag her.
Her feelings of helplessness and being completely at your mercy ensure that you can do pretty much anything, and she will still feel submissive and that you're in control.
2. Maintain dominant position.
Whatever you're doing to her is going to feel more dominant if you do it on top. Think Justin Slayer feels submissive when he hoists some white bint upside down and starts to go to town on her pussy and ass with his tongue?
For those without that kind of physical acumen (or alternatively, a BBW partner), a less strenuous alternative can be to stand on your knees and throw her thighs upon your shoulders (if need be with the help of love pillows or whatever you've got at hand - be creative). The blood flowing to her head in this position can make for a very nice bonus (don't overdo it, tho).
3. Control her body.
Just because your mouth is full, doesn't mean your hands must be idle. Let them roam freely over her, squeeze and pinch her nipples and tits and ass and thighs. Manhandle her, manipulate her limbs. Let her know deep in her heart that you can do anything you wish with her body.
4. Be good at it.
You're giving her head because you want her body to react the way you want it to react. Lusty moans emanating from her means you're gaining control over her, that you're playing the fiddle that is her body. Every woman is different, so I'm not going to pretend that everyone will react the same - the only good advise here is to practice and learn to read body language. Of course, if she's into being ****** to verbalize/admit stuff, you can try forcing her to tell you what exact tongue tricks that pushes her buttons. (no need to reinvent gun powder unless you actually have to)
5. Let her know that you want to do this.
Perhaps most important of all.You're not doing this for her. You're doing it for you. You're not asking her if she'd like it, you're telling her you want it, and you want it now. You've already told her in detail exactly how you want her pussy prepared for you, now it's time to claim that prize in every way conceivable. And you want it because you know that there are lots of guys out there who have a dominant attitude and the cock of a horse...but guys with a dom attitude and a big cock AND the tongue of the Devil himself are few and far between. Guys with big cocks tend to get cocky and lazy, and as such make less of an impact on a woman than they reasonably could achieve.
Here's your chance to make a difference. Rather than just remaining the flavor of the month of some random tart, you can be the guy a lot of women fantasize about in order to get off, for the remainder of their lives.
(newsflash: just because some girl told you that they do so already, doesn't make it true. Guys aren't the only ones inflating the ego of a desired partner in order to get what they want)
Of course, you may be just a lazy slob who only wants to squirt your load over some tits every now and then, what the fuck do I know. And if that is all you're after, well godspeed.
RedNeckWM said:
Why not do oral? Just seems rather lazy not to do it.
For those who are concerned with their images as Big, Bad, Black Dommes, you can easily give oral pleasure to a woman without screwing up you and your woman's D/s feelings.
A couple of tips:
1. Tie/chain her up; blindfold/gag her.
Her feelings of helplessness and being completely at your mercy ensure that you can do pretty much anything, and she will still feel submissive and that you're in control.
2. Maintain dominant position.
Whatever you're doing to her is going to feel more dominant if you do it on top. Think Justin Slayer feels submissive when he hoists some white bint upside down and starts to go to town on her pussy and ass with his tongue?
For those without that kind of physical acumen (or alternatively, a BBW partner), a less strenuous alternative can be to stand on your knees and throw her thighs upon your shoulders (if need be with the help of love pillows or whatever you've got at hand - be creative). The blood flowing to her head in this position can make for a very nice bonus (don't overdo it, tho).
3. Control her body.
Just because your mouth is full, doesn't mean your hands must be idle. Let them roam freely over her, squeeze and pinch her nipples and tits and ass and thighs. Manhandle her, manipulate her limbs. Let her know deep in her heart that you can do anything you wish with her body.
4. Be good at it.
You're giving her head because you want her body to react the way you want it to react. Lusty moans emanating from her means you're gaining control over her, that you're playing the fiddle that is her body. Every woman is different, so I'm not going to pretend that everyone will react the same - the only good advise here is to practice and learn to read body language. Of course, if she's into being ****** to verbalize/admit stuff, you can try forcing her to tell you what exact tongue tricks that pushes her buttons. (no need to reinvent gun powder unless you actually have to)
5. Let her know that you want to do this.
Perhaps most important of all.You're not doing this for her. You're doing it for you. You're not asking her if she'd like it, you're telling her you want it, and you want it now. You've already told her in detail exactly how you want her pussy prepared for you, now it's time to claim that prize in every way conceivable. And you want it because you know that there are lots of guys out there who have a dominant attitude and the cock of a horse...but guys with a dom attitude and a big cock AND the tongue of the Devil himself are few and far between. Guys with big cocks tend to get cocky and lazy, and as such make less of an impact on a woman than they reasonably could achieve.
Here's your chance to make a difference. Rather than just remaining the flavor of the month of some random tart, you can be the guy a lot of women fantasize about in order to get off, for the remainder of their lives.
(newsflash: just because some girl told you that they do so already, doesn't make it true. Guys aren't the only ones inflating the ego of a desired partner in order to get what they want)
Of course, you may be just a lazy slob who only wants to squirt your load over some tits every now and then, what the fuck do I know. And if that is all you're after, well godspeed.
