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My girlfriend is seeing a male friend this weekend...

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Hi all. This is my first post. Thought I'd make it a long 'un though :D

My girlfriend and I have been seeing each other for a couple of years. There have been sexual problems as I am quite impotent due to a medical condition I suffered as a child. The little blue pills (and a cock ring) work to a certain extent, but nowhere near as much as a "normal" man. Things kind of came to a head a couple of months ago; both our libidos were low, and I had been suffering a lot of sexually related anxiety. It's quite stressful knowing your cock might not work properly.

There had been some talk near the start of our relationship about her seeing other men due to the problem. I will admit it was me who brought up the subject - I have always had a fantasy of being a cuckold. At the time, the subject was rejected immediately as being "horrible" and I left it alone. To be honest, I had kind of forgotten about the subject.

However, after we had a row about not having sex anymore, we made up and she asked me to talk about some of my fantasies. I'm into golden showers, but she is very uncomfortable with that area of sexuality, so I racked my brains and said I had fantasised about her fucking another man and then telling me about it. To my surprise, she was quite turned on by what I was saying. Over the next few days, I sent her a few sexy emails (we live separately) about my fantasies, and again, she said she was turned on by the scenarios. When we next spoke on the phone, she said "Yeah, but you wouldn't REALLY want me to do that would you?!" I said, "Actually, I think I WOULD".

Well, we discussed the matter at length in a mature and responsible way: you know, we wouldn't want it to affect our relationship, and so on. She did say, though, that she had thoughts about having a one-night stand simply because I couldn't fuck her. She had already arranged to go to a party in London (we live in another part of the country), and told me she could probably get a man to fuck her then. I was obviously enthusiastic about the idea :D.

Well, to cut to the night of the party, she phoned me at home late on the night quite ***** saying she was sitting on some guy's lap but "don't worry, I'm not doing anything." I took that to mean she wasn't going to go through with anything, and I went to bed.

I was woken up in the early hours by another call. She said, "I've just been fucked". I couldn't quite believe it. She told me she had been kissing some guy she didn't really know, they had gone upstairs and had sex there and then. I asked her what knickers she was wearing, and she told me but said that he didn't even see them because they were off so fast. She told me he loved her tits and sucked on her nipples (something I haven't done much of) and she sucked his cock to get him hard because (ironically) he was a bit floppy through drinking so much. But, although she said she didn't cum, she said it was good fun and she was playing with herself the whole time she was on the phone. She told me he had come inside her and it was still in there, going over her knickers.

This was a huge turn on for me, because she had only just started taking the pill and so even I had never done that before :eek:. I told her how I wanted to lick it out of her, and she told me she was going to be fucking other men so I would get the opportunity! She told me she was going to see a male friend the next day and fuck him as well, but sadly, when we next spoke, she told me he was out of town and so that never happened.

When she came back home a couple of days later, she paid a flying visit to my flat while I was at work. But when I got home I found on the bed...you guessed it...her soiled knickers!

The funny thing is, since all this has happened, we have been fucking each other quite a lot, and my problem seems to be a little easier. When I was fucking her the first time after she got back (and the first time ever without a condom), I said, "It's such a turn on that I wasn't the last man in here". She replied, without a hesitation, "I know, and you might not be the next". This got me cumming inside her. What surprised me was, after I came inside her, she said, "Right, lick me out! Now!" She'd never been dominant before, but I did what I was told. Not as good as licking another man's come out of her, but in my mind, that's what I was doing.

Well, you remember I told you about the guy she couldn't see because he was out of town? She's seeing him this weekend and stopping over at his place, with my blessing. She's said things to me since like, "Oh, I wonder if I should wear these knickers when I go round to see him?" when she's been wearing her sexy lace black knickers.

To put a dampener on it a bit, she is really stressed at work at the moment and doesn't now feel like going down there to see him. AND she's said that she doesn't know what his relationship status is, whether he'll feel like it, whether she'll feel like it, etc. But here are the facts:
1. She's had sex with him before. Quite often, I gather, although she's a bit coy about giving out details. We had a row and split up temporarily last year, and she recently said she had sex with him the day after we spilt.
2. She will be dressed sexily (probably in the knickers I was talking about earlier). And
3. She knows how much this turns me on and what it's done for us sexually.

I will keep you posted.
 
I don't know if anyone's reading this :D, but I thought I'd post a quick update.

My girlfriend has come home packed for tomorrow's trip up to see her friend. She says she's not feeling very sexy and all that, so I thought that would probably be that.

But she DID say, totally matter-of-factly, that she wasn't sure what the sleeping arrangements would be tomorrow: whether she'll be in the spare room or sleeping in his bed.

Made me a bit...horny.
 
Nice story,

sure we like to read it. Please update us on your interesting developments.

Thanks!
fred
 
Thanks guys. Sensual4wife: no, I don't have it at the moment. I could always get it though!

Right, here's what's happened so far...

Last night was pretty hot. My girlfriend stopped over, had a long bath while I picked out some underwear for her to take down on her trip. She got me to check her bikini line and I painted her toe nails - all the while knowing that the next man to see all this might not be me. Nothing was said on the subject, but we exchanged a few knowing smiles. When we went to bed, I pulled her knickers down and gave her a cheeky kiss on her vulva and a tiny (very tiny) lick of her clit. She said, "careful, you know what I'm like". But I didn't want to "spoil her appetite", so I left it at that. ;)

Then this morning, everything seemed to go pear shaped. He (I'm going to call him Nathan) still hadn't actually confirmed the meeting, and my girlfriend (Suzy) was getting a bit pissed off with him. Frankly, she didn't want to go. She'd texted him saying, "Do I get this train or not?" but had not heard from him. I persuaded her to at least get ready and make as if to go in case she heard from him on the way. Suzy admitted that even if Nathan didn't show up, she could see another friend (who she's also slept with in the past, but that seems to be over now) and still have a good time. By the time of her leaving, she'd heard nothing.

While I was writing this message, Suzy, en route to London, has sent me a text saying: "Just heard from Nathan. He said 'Yes! Yes! Get the train!!'"

So she's on her way to see him now. Feel a bit light-headed...
 
Sounds like your fun is just starting...thanks for sharing.
 
Cal, I am enjoying your posts, your girlfriend is going to enjoy fucking other guys - and I am delighted that the excitement is making your erections get stronger. Sticking in your penis after she has fucked other men is termed "stirring the other guy's porridge".
 
Thanks, guys :). No word from Suzy since she arrived in London, but I'm optimistic at the moment that something will happen between them.

I'm shaking with horniness!

It's been quite a road we've come down to get this far. As I've hinted at previously, she is, by her own definition, quite "vanilla". Although she has cheated (in the true sense) on previous partners, she's quite ashamed of it. And sometimes, she has doubts about sleeping with other men. Yet, at other times, she's brought up the subject herself or dropped heavy hints at what might happen this weekend.

One thing about our increasing sexual activity (with each other) is that, when we were having sex the other day, she said, "I don't know if I'll want sex on Saturday. I've already been given a good fucking today. It seems so...indulgent". I must admit I didn't have an answer to that. But it's good that she enjoyed sex with me, as quite often she doesn't enjoy the penetration of my cock as it isn't properly hard enough - she rarely cums from me fucking her. I am, to be a little immodest for a bit, rather good with my mouth though, and I often use that instead. I hadn't reckoned on my increased "ability" scuppering my chances of her getting her end away this weekend. But we shall see...
 
Thanks for the great story and the excellent reports. Please do keep writing, and good luck to both of you! Can't wait to hear what happens this weekend.
 
Holy fuck holy fuck holy fuck.

Just had a text from Suzy. It reads:

"Food for thought - bit of kissing and cuddling going on down here ;) xx"

Fuck, I'm shaking and getting a boner. And I haven't even taken Viagra...

EDIT: A LITTLE TIME LATER:

Let's face it, guys, she's getting fully-functional cock. Probably right now. Wow. So horny and jealous. What really gets me going is, before all this started, she was a stickler for safe sex. I told her what would turn me on is if she asked me for condoms. It was a turn on if the guy was using my condoms to fuck my girl. When she had the one-night stand last month, she didn't do that and did the guy bareback. Well, this time, I KNOW she was thinking that there might be a possibility of fucking this guy, but still she didn't ask. So...I know he's doing her bareback.

A fantasy of mine, which she's now totally aware of, is me buying her cum-soaked panties off her if she ever did anything like that again. She likes to put them back on after sex - always has done. So it looks like I'm gonna have those panties!!
 
Last update of the night: I sent a good night text to Suzy about an hour ago - it's kind of our ritual. No reply. So fucking horny right now, and I know she's getting cock from somewhere else. I know that at some point during the night, she's going to contact me to tell me she's been fucked good and proper.

Wow. I'm going to fuck her when she comes back home tomorrow. Or when she's recovered from her new boyfriend...
 
No news from Suzy. This is quite unusual. What has she been up to???
 
Please forgive the triple post...

Just heard from Suzy via text. She's on her way back. I was getting quite concerned because I hadn't heard from her for so long.

I asked her if she was OK, then asked her what her ETA here was. She told me, then put "By the way, I'm shaterred. But happily so."

Guess she got hers! The question was loaded: If I'm asking what time she's due to be here, it's our code to give me time to plan taking Viagra and all that. Her reply indicates that that is off the cards today due to her fucking this other guy...

Damn! :p

EDIT: Just had another text. I'd called her a while ago because I was getting worried. The call went straight to voicemail. Her text reads: "Jst heard yr voicemail - sorry, was on underground so no coverage and prior to that had phone off because was enjoying sexy times/sleeping".

Mind. Blown. Completely!!!
 
CalCuck,

Excellent posts. Thank you and keep them cuming!

You are a cuckold. You have accepted her dominance over you as she views you differently now (quite natural, by the way). You may discover that after she's had her fill of sex from a lover (spending the night with him). she may not be interested in sex with you for a while. But, it appears she really enjoys your worship of her (pedicures, licking her pussy clean, etc).

I'm interested if your relationship strengthens as a Fem Domme relationship or creates issues as she satisfies her sex urges with other men.

marcus
 
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Ladynsniffer said:
CalCuck,

Excellent posts. Thank you and keep them cuming!

You are a cuckold. You have accepted her dominance over you as she views you differently now (quite natural, by the way). You may discover that after she's had her fill of sex from a lover (spending the night with him). she may not be interested in sex with you for a while. But, it appears she really enjoys your worship of her (pedicures, licking her pussy clean, etc).

I'm interested if your relationship strengthens as a Fem Domme relationship or creates issues as she satisfies her sex urges with other men.

marcus

Thanks, Marcus. Yes, I would like it if she became more dominant and I think she'd get a kick out of it. She'll be home soon. Tonight, I'm cooking her a meal so she can rest up after a busy 24 hours fucking and I've bought her a little romantic gift. I will pamper her a bit!
 
Hi again all. I thought I'd fill you in with the final part of the story. There's good and bad, and then good again.

Well, an hour before Suzy was due to arrive, I thought fuck it and I took a Viagra anyway (thank you online pharmacies for making it possible to not ration yourself on what you can legitimately get off the state. But that's by the by...).

She arrived back here and she was in a very naughty mood and not as shattered as I thought. She told me she'd been sleeping with Nathan and "I might sleep with you too, if you're lucky". As we got passionate, she asked me what I wanted to know, so I said "Everything". More on this later...

Anyway, putting that aside (for now), our kissing became more passionate and she remarked that she had done lots of kissing today already. I asked her when it happened and she said "a few times last night and a couple of times this morning". Well, that was horny for sure. She told me she had been brought to orgasm "many times" through him performing oral sex on her and through fucking (mainly missionary style). I had by now pulled her panties off and was licking her. I was initially a bit disappointed that she had obviously showered, but as I was licking her deeply, I caught a "pocket" of semen right at the back and teased it out with my tongue before tasting and swallowing it. She then said (completely without knowing I'm sure), "There might be some of him left in there". I told her yes, there was and I've just tasted it!

One tick in the new experience box!

Well, I had managed to get semi-stiff at this point, but she helped me by talking dirty (she was fully into it now) and teasing my cock. After a couple of false starts (damn this condition of mine!) I managed to penetrate her with her on top of me. We both got sweaty with vigour and I got her off again (how many orgasms she'd had in the 24 hours is anyone's guess) by fucking her (as stated previously, this is definitely not a sure thing for me). I ended by coming up her still in that position. She later teased me by saying I should perhaps lick it out of her, but she was joking (I had offered to do it) and said she was just so sore now...


So anyway, the bad...

Asking her to tell me "everything" was perhaps a mistake. It seemed they had a great time OUTSIDE the bedroom as well as in, and this posed a bit of a problem for me, especially as she was telling me all this while I was sexually charged. Why she decided to tell me about her day in restaurants and whatever was a bit of a turn off (for me, anyway). She also said that some things can never be told because what she had with Nathan wasn't just fucking, it was making love. Well, looking at that paragraph could be construed in a dominant/humiliating way, but it wasn't meant to be like that (ie she wasn't telling me she was in control of the situation and I was her sub). Things also got a bit cold when we had a discussion about her not wearing a condom. I'd already told her it was cool, but she went on about the risks of STDs and so on. Never a turn on, although somewhat necessary I guess.

The whole evening was mainly about her great time out and about with Nathan, and I couldn't help but feel that they were more compatible than us. It's strange, but I also had a problem with them holding hands. In and of itself, that's crazy (perhaps), but mixed in with all the other stuff, well, I had a sleepless night. I guess I still want to be the most important thing in her life, and it was tough hearing about the repeated sex as it is something I'm not phyisically possible of doing. Hmm. I am well aware that people are real and you can't "switch them off and they go away" after you've cum from hearing how they fucked your girlfriend, but the associated stuff gave me problems.

I must stress though that we have talked extensively about it today and, though she threatened to call it off with Nathan at one point, we have dealt with the issues and she will continue seeing him (occasionally?) and making love to him.

Thoughts?
 
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They need to keep getting together as often as possible, so she can become hopelessly addicted to the lifestyle of sharing her pussy with a variety of men (of her own choice) other than just you (her "main squeeze").
 
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If you feel he is competition for her heart step up your game in the non-sexual areas. Most women find sex without some sort of emotional connection to be unsatisfactory so consider it good that she enjoys being with him before slipping between the sheets. Just make sure you are better!
 
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Thanks guys, good advice. I'm sure if I had normal penis function, I wouldn't feel as insecure as I do. I had totally misunderstood Suzy and Nathan's relationship dynamic. She wants to see more of him and fuck him and go on dates, etc.

I had a telling conversation with Suzy last night:

Me: If I said, at some point in the future, that I wanted us to be exclusive with each other again, would you be OK with that?

Suzy: (slight hesitation) Yes.

Me: Would you be disappointed?

Suzy: (long pause) A little bit, yeah.

Seeing at how hard it was to get her going in this venture (see earlier posts in this thread), I have definitely awoken something in Suzy. She's more confident now and more sexually adventurous, but I just wish she'd stick to one-night stands. I feel terribly threatened by Nathan and his fully functioning cock.

But at the same time, also a little turned on.
 
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