checkitout said:
Hi Custer, we have not visited the club yet. My wife feels more comfortable visiting a club that is out of state, so we are going to make a weekend of it (we are only 2 hours from the border of the state we are going to).
I suppose that really means your wife doesn't want to go to a club where there's any chance she might meet someone she knows. People travel around a lot, so going two hours in one direction might not be any different, from that point of view, than going two hours in any other direction. But, whatever works...
checkitout said:
The club looks decent, nice bar area, hot tub, sauna, and public and private play areas.
Sounds like potentially a good experience...
checkitout said:
I'm just not sure if many "cuck"-type people go to swinger clubs.
Presumably not since, by definition, "cuckold husband / hotwife" means a couple in which the woman dates, seduces and fucks whomever she wishes while her husband remains faithful to her. So, you may have to play your "tourist card" and explain to anyone who asks that you and your wife have agreed she can participate (if she wishes), but you are only there to observe.
checkitout said:
I know most of the time, both the man and woman have sex with others [at these clubs].
Yes, I think you have it right. I suggested this because it will presumably give your wife a chance to see for herself other married women enjoying the pleasures of fucking men who are not their husbands, and an opportunity to do that herself if she wishes, while you do not fuck other women (by agreement, because your wife said it's important to her that you not do so).
If your experience is successful (from your point of view), it may result in re-setting your wife's reluctance to enjoy the pleasures of taking lovers.
If it should happen your wife decides that becoming a "swinger couple" appeals to her, that too would be something you could talk about afterwards. (If that idea doesn't appeal to you... and it sounds like it doesn't... you could explain to her why you feel that way.)