Cynical said:how about you leave him some breathing room and let him arrive at his own conclusions in his own time? not everybody on this forum is sure of what he's doing or of what he wants, not everybody wants to be pressured into things just to give some anonymous internet wanker something to fantasize about.
yeah..sorry about that.. it was a combination of you being a bit abrupt and me being a bit moody/prickly that day.mikeandslutamy said:I didnt mean to be a dick. I was seriously wondering.I wasnt pressuring at all. just curious if not into what most here are what it was that brought him here. Thats all. I would never suggest anyone do anything they arent 100% ok with. My first wife and I had a wild sex life but she always said she wasnt comfortable fucking other men but because she obviously got off on it I continued to instigate it. Eventually we split because she wasnt comfortable with me being ok with her being a *****. Once again I was just surprised at the response.