That's fine with me as long as she realizes she is married to me firsts. I told my wife if we did ever split I wouldn't get married again. I'd just date married women. Its not hard for me to find women. In fact my friends have seen me turn down some good looking women in the club for no other reason than they were single. I would ask them, "where's your boyfriend?" they would say, "I don't have one." I would then ask them, "well then where's your husband?" They would say the same thing and I'd tell them, "then I'm not interested." One time a married woman hanging out with her friend pointed at my ring and asked, "Where's your wife?" As quick as she asked I replied back with, "At home with my friend learning how to swing." She was instantly wet and It was a fun night. It was actually the friend I'm trying to get her hooked up with and all that happened is she held his held his head up while he puked in my toilet. I was disappointed. I'm good looking, tall, and a good lover in bed. If she wanted to take off with someone else I wouldn't try to stop her I'd just want her to be happy. I know I would go out and wouldn't spend my time in the house crying like a sissy in my own self pity, I would accept things for what they are and move on. If she did fall in love with my friend and they broke up I'd still be friends with him, and I would comfort her. Things would calm down and they would probably fuck again cuz that's how things work. Besides that my friend already has 2 of what he calls bitches and one he has 2 kids with.