zippless said:I didn't know you were banging other women. As the story evolves it changes everything. Sounds like she feels inadequate. Sleeping in another room might possibly mean she is avoiding the problem because it stresses her out emotionally. I suspect she is depressed. Is she ony antidepressent meds. If so they can kill sex drive. If you have aby feelings for this lady, talk to her about the issue and try to get her some help.
Yes its been a last resort for me after many years of no sex., I've openly told her so nothing has been hidden....she's never been on antidepressants.. but low iron problem. Something has totally killed her sex drive and affection as well.... she had contracted meningitis 8 years ago, though it didn't get to her brain fortunately I'm thinking that might have a link.... also her 2 best friends are lawyers with loads of advice and I think that in itself dampens sex.