I'm not sure about this. My wife has wanted black cock for years. I took some pics of her and she found a guy on a bbc site. They've been meeting for drinks for a couple weeks and I think it's gonna happen tonight.
He is huge and she thinks about him constantly I know it. I heard her upstairs in bed last night masturbating, I heard her cumming. She has never done that. I'm excited and have beat off more than once myself over this but....
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I hope you and wife have a very good relationship, filled with respect and love for each other. I also hope like is said many times on this site by a number of us, set the rules before you start to play. Once you jump out of a plane with out a parchute its too late to go back and get one. Yet if two people are very much in love, and you find you can't deal with this kind of experince, with out blame or a gult trip you can talk to her about not doing it again. Here is a very cold hard fact, a husband or wife can not make the other do anything they choose to do, that is why its so important to have that love and respect before beginning the game. Also understand that some fear of the unknown is very natural and once the deed is done you might just find you and she both grow closer together and love it. Contray to what you might think, the race thing, rather its Japniese, black, french what ever is more of a mental thing then physical, it the ideal for socety as whole crossing the line is taboo and that gives the thril. So if you work on it in your head, you will find its just a cock, might be bigger or might be same size, its still just a cock. Try to relaxe and enjoy the experince with her, it will help with the stress of it all.