Maod,
maod979 said:
My wife has been with MANY guys while we were married.
Good for her. (You still are married, I hope...?)
maod979 said:
She's still young and atttractive...
Your wife is a very attractive woman... she has gorgeous long hair.
maod979 said:
...but since having a baby its been difficult to find the time.
Having a baby definitely changes the lives of both mother and father. For most women, sex is no longer near the top of their priority list. It's displaced by the need to care for their baby and meet her (/his) needs.
maod979 said:
I still talk about "it," she doesn't get into [fucking other men] like she used to. But, at the beginning of the year I managed to get her to meet a guy in a hotel connecting to the resturant we were eating at. She excused herself to the bathroom and came back fifteen mins later. I said, "did it happen?" She said, "yes." I said, "did he cum in you?" She said, "don't they all?"
Cool... your wife has not lost her touch.
maod979 said:
Well, she has things to do... her baby. She's probably become more discriminating, not wanting to spend time with men who don't appeal to her very much.
maod979 said:
Now all the sudden last night she said, "look who added me on facebook." She showed me this extremely buff guy with a pretty-boy face. Then she said, "he saw my pics (all clothed) and said if I weren't married would he try for me."
Sounds like your wife has come across a man who appeals to her...
maod979 said:
She was like a little kid. Then she sent me pics of him to my cell titled "MY HUBBY."
This seems confusing. I gather your wife sent pics of her new buff lover-in-waiting to your cell phone (so you would know what he looks like), but why would she label them "MY HUBBY" since YOU are her hubby...? Seems like it would have made a lot more sense for her to label them, "my new lover-to-be" (or words to that effect).
maod979 said:
I'll take your word for it.
maod979 said:
What does all this mean? Is my wife just playing, or do you thnk she's serious?
Depends on where your wife's potential new lover lives. If he's so far away he won't be able to come and meet with your wife without great expense and/or time away from his work, my guess would be, nothing will happen. If he's close enough for him and your wife to be able to get together without great difficulty, my guess would be she will take him as a new lover.
You might consider suggesting to your wife she respond to his "if you weren't married I would pursue you" comment with something like, "well... given that I am married, maybe we should meet anyway, talk, and see where it goes." (Assuming, of course, he lives close enough to meet with your wife conveniently.)
maod979 said:
My wife also commented that her new potential lover is a twin. I said, then maybe we [your wife?] can have twins if you meet him. (My biggest fantasy is for her to become pregnant by another man, whose kids would then pass as mine.)
Looks like there's a possibility of that happening... although I have no idea whether any children your wife might have with her new potential lover would resemble you. More likely, they would resemble some combination of him and her.
You might start getting in shape, so to speak, for your wife spending much of her time dating and fucking her (at present) lover-in-waiting by doing progressively more and more of the housework for her, and spending progressively more-and-more of your time taking care of your baby. (Your baby, of course, should not be fed artificial milk, but rather should be fed your wife's breast milk... so she and you should begin thinking of how you will do that, for at least the first year of your baby's life. But, no doubt the two of you understand that...)
—Custer
