You've raised an important question, Bareboi...
Bareboi,
Thank you for your post enquiring about this important question:
bareboi said:
I'm curious as to how popular it is [for a cuckold to be] required to address [his wife's] bull as Sir. My Mistress requires this of me at all times, even in public, and not only her bull but a number of her friends and relatives. I must address males [who are her friends or relatives] as Sir and females [who are her friends or relatives] as Ma'am, except for submissive females, whom I must address as "Ms." Are others in this lifestyle required to do the same? I'm curious to hear from both [cuckolds and hotwives] on this subject. Thank you.
Ms. Cucktail, in her reply, has made a good point. In my opinion, however, if a cuckold's wife is his boss-wife such that he considers her his Mistress, and if she also views herself in that way and her cuckold is her submissive cuckold, then it's entirely proper and appropriate for her to require him to address her lovers (/"bulls") as Sir in the privacy of her household, or anywhere and anytime the three of them are "alone" together.
Whether a Mistress (such as your boss-wife) also requires her submissive cuckold (you, in this case) to address her lovers as "Sir" in public as well as in the privacy of her household should, of course, be up to her. Whether, in addition, a Mistress such as your wife requires her submissive cuckold to address her male friends and relatives as "Sir," and her female friends and relatives as "Ma'am" (except for her submissive female friends and relatives, whom he must address as "Ms.") should also be up to her.
This matter, in other words, should be entirely up to your boss-wife and, indeed, boss-wives everywhere, and your obligation and duty as her submissive cuckold should be to obey and comply with her expectations in this matter, in addition to, of course, fulfilling her expectations of you in essentially all other respects.
—Custer