sucsall said:When my wife wanted to move her BF in I said no so she moved out and divorced me. I still feel I made the right decision. I am in a vanilla marriage now.
your situation is much different then ours..i liked the idea of seeing my wife have sex with another guy..we met with him a few times got to know him over time and let him come stay with us while he goes to college. Him and her have their fun..i enjoy it..she enjoys it..he enjoys it.
He dates other girls and has a GF back home. This is not a longterm thing. More of a friend with benifits situation. But we call him her boyfriend since me and her are married