For various reasons we have been off the scene for a couple of years but she is about to hook up again with a previous fb because they both hit it off so well previously. I always was present and watched and took the creampie and sloppy seconds and it went very well. This time I am getting an urge for her to go it alone as we trust this guy. She is cautiously willing to go it alone. Am I making a mistake in suggesting this change?