I was looking for a reason to start a new thread while we are in a holding pattern till this Friday.
I was in a chatroom last night and during the conversation, I came across a thought that I feel is a good point to start this thread.
Here's what I'm curious about. I know people here and in other forums have expressed surprise at time at how well Sue and my arousal points have merged and meshed so well together. I'd long shared that at first I wondered if I was somehow telegraphing my own desires that she picked up on.
What I'm curious about now is whether she would have gone in this same direction in terms of denial and condoms if it wasn't something that turned me on. I'm thinking - what if it was anal-sex that really turned me on - would our relationship have evolved to be more focused on her sharing herself anally with her lover and restricting/eliminating that for me? Similarly, what if it where her sucking/swallowing cum - if that was what aroused me - would our relationship have evolved to where she may now only suck/swallow her lover excluding me?
Are we where we are because she's responded and followed my desires along the way and that these then became hers too?
I'm not sure we can ever answer this but the thought has captured me when I think about where we're going and whether it'll be a direction that I want us to go in - the answer may be "of course it will be" because she's still, consciously or subconsciously, influenced by what turns me on?
Just sharing my thoughts and taking advantage of an opportunity for a new thread.....
I was in a chatroom last night and during the conversation, I came across a thought that I feel is a good point to start this thread.
Here's what I'm curious about. I know people here and in other forums have expressed surprise at time at how well Sue and my arousal points have merged and meshed so well together. I'd long shared that at first I wondered if I was somehow telegraphing my own desires that she picked up on.
What I'm curious about now is whether she would have gone in this same direction in terms of denial and condoms if it wasn't something that turned me on. I'm thinking - what if it was anal-sex that really turned me on - would our relationship have evolved to be more focused on her sharing herself anally with her lover and restricting/eliminating that for me? Similarly, what if it where her sucking/swallowing cum - if that was what aroused me - would our relationship have evolved to where she may now only suck/swallow her lover excluding me?
Are we where we are because she's responded and followed my desires along the way and that these then became hers too?
I'm not sure we can ever answer this but the thought has captured me when I think about where we're going and whether it'll be a direction that I want us to go in - the answer may be "of course it will be" because she's still, consciously or subconsciously, influenced by what turns me on?
Just sharing my thoughts and taking advantage of an opportunity for a new thread.....