strap on question to all

[slinky67]

Hi people, just a question and would love some feedback or even better some pics too. Have cucks here been asked to wear a strap on to service their wife.


My partner and i have a an average sex life...she is a size queen without a doubt, all her fave dildoes are as thick or thicker than her own wrist. Me on the other hand, am 7" long but extremily thin in girth...she adores anal with me...but vaginal intercourse is a let down for both of us... she can only orgasm with her larger toys. We never seem to have much luck finding, hung, dependable, trustworthy, clean bulls...so toys have to suffice at the moment.


We have a harness she uses on me with smaller toys, but we noticed her larger toys fit the harness...and i jokingly said i should do you wearing the this...she said, would i be ok with that and not feel funny about it...i said no...and she said hopefully with doggy she could pretend it wasn't a strap on...plus i can also get to be a rough/aggressive lover that can last till she cums over and over again...without fear of myself ejaculating too soon as i usually tend to do if it gets a little heated and dirty.

So just wondering if there are others who do perform in this way or ever have...would love to know how common it may be....and do you find it embarrassing or just see past that as a practical, mature solution to an ongoing problem.

Cheers

Slinky

 

[deniedmike]

were gonna do this

she can only get off from a big big toy I got her
so were gonna get a harness for it

 

[slinky67]

ok...thanks for replying

ok...so can i ask your opinion of it...and hers i suppose...do either of you find it has a humiliation angle to it....or just a practical solution for the greater good?

 

[joey7890]

No but she used to put one on to satisfy me.

 

[sissy_phae]

Hey Slinky

My wife and I tried this a while back and it was a pretty big hit. I haven't been allowed to penetrate her using my bits since then. We have a variety of toys in different sizes and shapes, some that get used on me, some that get used on her. My wife is a size queen as well, and like you I used to ejaculate too quickly.

We have found that this is a practical solution for giving her pleasure, as well as it being slightly humiliating and highly emasculating for me. There is a third aspect for us as well, that being that it goes hand in hand with feminizing me. Her reasoning behind using this method went something like "Well, girls don't stick their penis in other girls...you want to be a girl, right?"

Hope this gives you a perspective.

Phae

 

[slinky67]

cool

thanks Phae for your response...seem to be similar to ourselves. Although she has no desire to cut me off all penetration, as i said she loves anal with me...which we mainly opt for...even in the missionary position, i just pretend i am in her pussy and so then it feels normal for me...but actual vaginal intercourse is pretty much pointless for both of us...as neither of us get any real stimulation from the experience, and thus we can tend to find it even boring...i also tend to lose my erection from lack of stimulation...so we think this could be a solution until we meet someone larger...funnily enough, we have been together for 3 years...and it only came as an idea this week!

Would love to know how would women feel about their male partner opting for this as an option?

 

[Custer Laststand]

You and your wife have the right idea. Go for it.

Slinky,

Have cucks here been asked to wear a strapon to service their wife?

No.

We never seem to have much luck finding hung, dependable, trustworthy, clean bulls...

Sounds like you and your wife are searching for a guy who adheres to the Boy Scout Oath.

...I jokingly said, I should do you wearing this. She said, would I be ok with that and not feel funny about it? I said, no. She said, hopefully with doggy-style fucking she could pretend it isn't a strapon — plus, I could be a rough/aggressive lover that can last while she cums over and over again, without fear of myself ejaculating too soon as I usually tend to do.

The two of you have the right idea. Go for it.

So I was wondering if there are others who perform in this way. I would love to know how common it may be. Also, do you find it embarrassing or do you just see it as a practical, mature solution to an ongoing problem?

I haven't (yet), but I suspect it's a good way to go. Hell... why worry about "how many others"* do it? Give it a try; if your wife finds it satisfying, keep doing it.

—Custer

*A reliable rule with sexual techniques is: if it's possible, there are people doing it — probably a lot of people.

 

[slinky67]

no Custer, we don't think its anything like the Scout Boy Oath

We, don't feel that way at all...looking for a good bull is no easy exercise...and most people here would agree.

All we want without asking for too much...

Hung, well, pretty obvious why...but none have even come close... 7" 'ish with at least around 5.5"+ in girth and can get it rock hard...not asking for the world, but none have come close.

Dependable, just turn up to even the initial meeting for drinks would be a start, but most don't end up showing...we figure they can't sneak away from wifey or mom late at night.

Trustworthy, well no one is going to enter our house, our bed and my partner on a regular basis if we don't/can't trust them fully...that includes trusting them with discretion.

And clean, well again pretty obvious...no HIV/AIDS, Hep C etc. even with condoms, we both enjoy cum play, so would like someone who can provide in a healthy way.

So, thats why we are where we are at the moment.

And no...we will try it...and if she does enjoy it, it will probably become a regular thing, but was just curious if it is common amongst cucks who already own a strap on thats usually used on them.

But thanks again for your feedback!

 

[carina_halerose]

i was humiliated in this way. my wife told me to put her her strapon with a big cock on because she needed to get fucked. my cock is much to small to satisfy her or anyone else for that matter. so when she needs cock and her lover is not able to be here i get to fuck her with the strapon. the whole she tells me how good it feels and how much better it feels then my lil cock. of course i get hard when she tells me such things. but she never allows me to cum during such times she says i would start to think i was a man if i came while fucking her and we both know that i am not a real man

 

[greymaster]

If neither of you have a desire or interest in humiliation then I just see that as a practical answer to a compatibility 'difference' (not 'problem'). Like a step in the kitchen that allows my short wife to reach the top shelf.

...she loves anal with me...which we mainly opt for...even in the missionary position,

With what you've said, this position has GOT to be a situation for double-penetration - your dick and strap-on. Add some role-play and you can be an alien from Duo-Dicktopia satisfying the human females with your unique genitalia.

 

[slinky67]

i agree

your correct, we do have a major anatomical difference, when it comes to our genitals...and thats cool, not much we can do about it. It was more just a general question on what peoples opinion was.

I personally am not embarrassed about doing it, even though i do enjoy humiliation...i find its more just doing whats needed to satisfy her. I have also ordered a dr. loves latex girth enhancer sleeve...not too sure how that will go, hopefully it will work for her.

Once again, not embarrassed at all about using it on her...whether i would if anyone found out, that would very much be a different story...but i guess we can all say that. For us, its just a solution to a problem....for 35 years she thought she could only have clitoral orgasm...i knew when i met and first had sex with her she had a very capacious vagina...she was embarrased/upset/humiliated at the thought and possible realisation.

But we did try some very large dildoes on her, and progressed to using them in an aggressive manner...and low and behold, she finally had multiple vaginal orgasms, without any clitoral stimulation at all...and has ever since....but only with her large toys. Funnily enough, she was pissed, cause she could have discovered this 15 years ago...but was always to embarrassed to use large toys to find all this out.

So we are both happy that we have discovered the code to the lock regardless on how we achieve it.

 

[Impregnatemywife]

If it were possible ( wife is a prude ) I would use a slip on type enhancer of my own to cover my small penis, then I might be able to bring her to an orgasm without clitoral stimulation to.

 

[toplessgypsy]

I have had my husband wear a strap on because he is too small to please me. Its one way to humiliate him, which we enjoy.

 

[slinky67]

ok

thats a shame impregnatemywife.... my partner was a little conservative at first too, but enjoying earth shattering orgasms have now changed her mind and overridden her previous hang ups.

Don't get me wrong, she is very prim and proper, and would be mortified if anyone discovered this information or found her stash of toys which are thicker than your wrist. But it is what it is, she is proud of how large her toys are and how easily accommodates them.

You watch enough porn...all the guys want to see, and all the girls want to show...is how big a dildo or cock the girl can take...so she knows it turns guys on...was just a big hurdle for her at the start.

She has grown more to the idea of me wearing a sleeve than the strap on. We see it in the same way that women use latex inserts to enhance their boob size. The reality is, large companies don't tool up to make and sell products there is no market for...so there must be a lot of couples out there in the same boat.

Plus for her, she sees it as she is doing me the favour, as i am the one with the skinny penis, but with this...i get to make her cum quite hard and can walk away feeling satisfied knowing i did that to/for her.