Last night a few months of “things” came to a head so to say. I need to start out with who Sue and I are.
Sue and I met in college. She was out going and really popular. I say was because she changed some after we got married. In college she was a size one and weight just over 110lbs. She is short so it fit her body style. Then we got married right after school and I got a good job. I got a promotion a year later and was over the sales team for a start up company. That meant I would be traveling a lot. At first it was fine then we had to move.
Sue went through a huge depression and gained 50lbs over about two years. Then last year she took a job at a local law firm. She is over their secretaries and office maintenance. She got to be good friends with two ladies Sandy and Brandy. Yes that is their names as stupid as it sounds. Although they are pretty cool when we all hang out. They are over a lot since neither are married and always wanting Sue to go do stuff with them.
Sue was really self conscious about doing anything like going to clubs. I encouraged her to go. That was just under a year ago. She was very conservative in her dress. A lot of it had to do with her weight. Both Sandy and Brandy are thin and I have to admit pretty damn hot. Sue started to go to the gym. After about a week, she came in and said she was going to change everything. She was tired of being over weight and wanted to get back to her college weight.
I put it off since this had happened before twice. But, she stuck to it. She got a trainer and lost almost half the weight in just over a month. Two months later she was in the jeans I use to love to see her in. A few months ago she wanted to have the last improvement. Some liposuction and breast implants. She was a large b cup in college. The extra weight pushed her up a size then they looked bad when she lost the weight. I was ok with it, but she constantly complained about it. We have the money so no big deal. I knew I would benefit and it would help her confidence. That would help make my life easier.
Well it boosted her confidence. More than I expected. She was well and back out in a few weeks. At first the clothes stayed modest. Then she got to the point she wanted to show off her new assets. A big influence was her friends and their pushing her. I enjoyed the new her. Then it didn't stop. About a month ago she came home at 4 in the morning and she was hammered.
I was pissed and she didn't want to talk. She was out cold right after her shower. She reeked of smoke and booze. The next day her friends were over to swim. I was on the couch when Brady came in. We talked since she knew I was pissed. It was her fault since she was all over this guy. She told me his friend liked Sue. I had never thought that about her being unfaithful to me. But, the changes did make me think. So that night we had a talk.
Sue admitted that the guy was into her and that she gave him a peck good night. I was shocked and she said she was sorry. She said she just felt good again and was liking the attention she was getting. I had no intention of going to the clubs and have to admit that her going is hot to me. That week I was traveling and finally decided to let it go. As long as she was coming home to me, what was the harm. Brandy sent me an email saying the same thing.
I should also mention that we broke up a couple of times in college. She hooked up with guys each time. It never pissed me off and as most people on here will admit it was a turn on some too. All of those emotions came back up over the last month. I got home and couldn't wait to talk to her. I told her all this and told her as long as she was open with me about everything, we could see where it went. That is why I'm posting last night she had a date. The first since we got married. There are a ton more details on how we got here, but I'm no author.
So any advice would be great. Hoping to find out more from her tonight on what went down.
Sue and I met in college. She was out going and really popular. I say was because she changed some after we got married. In college she was a size one and weight just over 110lbs. She is short so it fit her body style. Then we got married right after school and I got a good job. I got a promotion a year later and was over the sales team for a start up company. That meant I would be traveling a lot. At first it was fine then we had to move.
Sue went through a huge depression and gained 50lbs over about two years. Then last year she took a job at a local law firm. She is over their secretaries and office maintenance. She got to be good friends with two ladies Sandy and Brandy. Yes that is their names as stupid as it sounds. Although they are pretty cool when we all hang out. They are over a lot since neither are married and always wanting Sue to go do stuff with them.
Sue was really self conscious about doing anything like going to clubs. I encouraged her to go. That was just under a year ago. She was very conservative in her dress. A lot of it had to do with her weight. Both Sandy and Brandy are thin and I have to admit pretty damn hot. Sue started to go to the gym. After about a week, she came in and said she was going to change everything. She was tired of being over weight and wanted to get back to her college weight.
I put it off since this had happened before twice. But, she stuck to it. She got a trainer and lost almost half the weight in just over a month. Two months later she was in the jeans I use to love to see her in. A few months ago she wanted to have the last improvement. Some liposuction and breast implants. She was a large b cup in college. The extra weight pushed her up a size then they looked bad when she lost the weight. I was ok with it, but she constantly complained about it. We have the money so no big deal. I knew I would benefit and it would help her confidence. That would help make my life easier.
Well it boosted her confidence. More than I expected. She was well and back out in a few weeks. At first the clothes stayed modest. Then she got to the point she wanted to show off her new assets. A big influence was her friends and their pushing her. I enjoyed the new her. Then it didn't stop. About a month ago she came home at 4 in the morning and she was hammered.
I was pissed and she didn't want to talk. She was out cold right after her shower. She reeked of smoke and booze. The next day her friends were over to swim. I was on the couch when Brady came in. We talked since she knew I was pissed. It was her fault since she was all over this guy. She told me his friend liked Sue. I had never thought that about her being unfaithful to me. But, the changes did make me think. So that night we had a talk.
Sue admitted that the guy was into her and that she gave him a peck good night. I was shocked and she said she was sorry. She said she just felt good again and was liking the attention she was getting. I had no intention of going to the clubs and have to admit that her going is hot to me. That week I was traveling and finally decided to let it go. As long as she was coming home to me, what was the harm. Brandy sent me an email saying the same thing.
I should also mention that we broke up a couple of times in college. She hooked up with guys each time. It never pissed me off and as most people on here will admit it was a turn on some too. All of those emotions came back up over the last month. I got home and couldn't wait to talk to her. I told her all this and told her as long as she was open with me about everything, we could see where it went. That is why I'm posting last night she had a date. The first since we got married. There are a ton more details on how we got here, but I'm no author.
So any advice would be great. Hoping to find out more from her tonight on what went down.