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The long road home...or the sad story of a frustrated cuckold

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I have enjoyed the idea of my woman doing it with other man since my late teens.During my second marriage, I made some fantasies real. But that relationship was doomed from the beginning, it was not a good match.We had two children, but I had to do a treatment 'cause my sperm count was low.Later I had doubts about my paternity, which were dismisses by an DNA test which was positive in both cases. Therefore, I was married very young with my first wife, for 5 years, then 8 years in my second marriage, and then I met my actual wife, and we have been together for 20 years.We have a very good marriage, we love each other, we care for each other, and we still long for the other when some of us is in a short trip away from home. We were unable to have children, she came from another very short marriage (1 year and half) which was terminated because his husband got in love with other woman. She did not have children.I tried several treatments to no avail.In Vitro finally was the ultimate solution but somehow we freaked out, it seemed to us too artificial. I told her about my tendencies since day 1, therefore she knew I was "different".She did not complain at all.Mind you, she has PHD (so doI) she is a very intelligent, rational, nice blue eyes blonde hair petite with legendary buttocks (it was joke in her family to talk about it) I told her from the beginning of our quest for a child that I was open to another man to impregnated her.She did not accept, until chances were nil For years the only means for me to get arousal has been to imagine her with other man, and she knows it well. I do believe she is a true Dominatrix,she loves to be served,and massaged, but is not so good herself doing the same! Sometimes, when I tried harder to convince her, she got very angry at me.Therefore, use my advice, if your wife is a self-respected, intelligent woman, do no try to push her! The answer will has hers: I am not your toy, you cannot act as my puppeteer. Lately, after so many years, for the first time she said to me: "Honey, this was your fantasy all the way.I was sexually satisfied with you, but now you have made me open to the idea. To tell the truth,she may be "satisfied" with me, but our sex life is so strict Vainilla I am dying of boredom! It is always me who is always looking for her sexually. And yes, we do have good orgasms, but for the first time in my life I am no longer getting good erections, and for several months now most of our sexual engagements are ended with clitoris hand stimulus.I keep asking her, during intercourse,why don't you get something harder and bigger! She now enjoys the idea, at least while we are making love (years before, she shout me up when I talked, saying: Shhh,keep you fantasy fro yourself, you distract me! I have been his mentor in almost every other way of life, she is proud to admit that. Inside her secure look, she is very insecure and always need my reassurement. I keep telling her, sweetheart, you have to be your own woman (she does not dislike to hear that) and the last step is that you take full control of your active sex life,to be your own boss in that area, will finally break the old taboo and make you completely free of male domination!Lately she is telling me some things when e make love. At first she hesitated (for almost 20 years she hesitated!) Now she is telling what I want to hear (before the idea was just too freakish for her) "Yeah , pathetic cuckhold, give your cumming now,the other one has such a huge cock and balls, not that little shit you have between your legs.He really fills me up, I can barely feel your puny peanut!". But, we are growing older (she is 50 and I 54) although still good looking but a little overweight. I keep telling her, look if we were on the road, hunting for a mate as when we were younger, we will have the energy to get thinnier and better looking! And she agrees, but, somehow, she is not able to make a move.She says, I cannot push it, it has to come naturally...But we have a very limited social life! How is it going to happen. I am not afraid of having her madly engaged with another man, at least, she will not be sad at all, and I will be the happiest of man. As most cuckolds, I suppose, I will love to know that her body does not belong to me anymore., and that part of her mind and body is for her lover now.The idea of imagine the new man making her all his own, just make crazy from pleasure and desire. At least she confessed to me that the sole idea of seeing herself unzipping for the first time others man's pants just makes her crazy! The idea of looking and smelling for the first time other man's genitals, she confesses, nowadays arouses her. I believe she is open inside to the idea, but coming from a very tight religious home, the idea of been a slut while at the same time a married woman is still rather repulsive for her....Although she also tells me that she secretely,whem we make love, enjoys imagining herself a slut with several men...Women!!!!!! What a huge Enigma!
I have come to the point which I would even prefer a friendly divorce than this unbearable torture, at least I know she will eventually be with other man! And that image is much more pleasurable to me than to remain stalked here. (I beg your pardon for my lousy English, in my country they still consider cuckolds sort of degenerates, I cannot share this over there) This, sad for me, is my real and true story.I will love to hear your comments...and advice!
 
i need to point out that this seems up until now all about you. what you what. you sates that you wife is a natural dominant. do you show your submission to her in every part of your life? she will need to accept that it is all about her and you must show her that it is all about her.

she is correct in her statement it needs to happen naturally and not be rushed. she seems to be moving in that direction. if you push her to hard then she will resist.

you say your social life is very limited have you suggest trying a dating site or a swinging site to her. my wife was not sure about it at first but once she saw that men were interested in her everything changed in a hurry. we found the best site for us was SwingLifeStyle. its basically free to couples and ladies. with IM.

why would you wiosh to divorce her and make both of you unhappy. put her first iin all parts of your life.
 
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carina_halerose said:
i need to point out that this seems up until now all about you. what you what. you sates that you wife is a natural dominant. do you show your submission to her in every part of your life? she will need to accept that it is all about her and you must show her that it is all about her.

she is correct in her statement it needs to happen naturally and not be rushed. she seems to be moving in that direction. if you push her to hard then she will resist.

you say your social life is very limited have you suggest trying a dating site or a swinging site to her. my wife was not sure about it at first but once she saw that men were interested in her everything changed in a hurry. we found the best site for us was SwingLifeStyle. its basically free to couples and ladies. with IM.

why would you wiosh to divorce her and make both of you unhappy. put her first iin all parts of your life.

Thank you for your adequate answer, you are completely right. Stimulated by writing here for for first time in my life about these issues, I had this morning a beautiful talk with my wife. When she felt that my self-respect was really not in the line, she admitted immediately that since several months my genitals were "per se" completely unsatisfying for her, that my cock left much empty space left in her pussy. When I encouraged not be afraid to talk frankly, as if she were talking to a female friend about a sexual encounter with a casual date, what would say about the genitals of that hypothetical date? "Pathetic cock, ridiculous balls...and she continue, now that I know that ot even pleases you and does not affect you, because I love you so much, I can tell you, your genitals are way off what I would really like to have inside me" WOW! I was ecstatic..We talk about our new life coming ahead, with her with complete sexual freedom...She was very excited, not only sexually, but also on a more personal, emotional and psychological level..Particularly, about the possibility of been more desirable and hot again. I did not get an erection,vut we practice cunnilingus...She had the most extraordinary coming since several years, it was such a joy! After finishing, she looked with an evil eye at my genitals and told "Take that little nothing out my sight" And we laughed, and laughed.
 
I would like you to pay for a gigolo to take your wife out and have sex with her several times, so she can realise she is attractive to other men.

If she agrees, she will have a great time, and it will help her to "ease into the habit" and gain confidence to reach out and flirt with strangers she is attracted to.

She needs nice clothes for her dates, so she can "feel her best" and "act her best" and "look her best" as she discovers a life outside her marriage.

A gigolo is very experienced and is probably the best "way to go" for a wife who has a very restricted social life. There will also be little chance of falling in love with the gigolo, even though she is likely to have some amazing orgasms.

I think your wife has the potential to be an excellent cuckoldress, and would benefit from reading some of the books that Custer has listed on other threads.

It can be most difficult for some wives to set aside their wedding vows, and have the first fuck outside the marriage, but a gigolo could make it a special fuck to get your wife started.
 
Saraha said:
I would like you to pay for a gigolo to take your wife out and have sex with her several times, so she can realise she is attractive to other men.

If she agrees, she will have a great time, and it will help her to "ease into the habit" and gain confidence to reach out and flirt with strangers she is attracted to.

She needs nice clothes for her dates, so she can "feel her best" and "act her best" and "look her best" as she discovers a life outside her marriage.

A gigolo is very experienced and is probably the best "way to go" for a wife who has a very restricted social life. There will also be little chance of falling in love with the gigolo, even though she is likely to have some amazing orgasms.

I think your wife has the potential to be an excellent cuckoldress, and would benefit from reading some of the books that Custer has listed on other threads.

It can be most difficult for some wives to set aside their wedding vows, and have the first fuck outside the marriage, but a gigolo could make it a special fuck to get your wife started.

In the long run, I think I would like to suggest this gigolo thing to Ann.

After all, they are professionals.
 
Beware of what you set into motion

123--- I have thought about situations like yours quite a bit over the years. This is what I believe:

1.There are many men that enjoy watching, hearing and listening to the details of their wives having outside sex MORE than having sex with their wives themselves. Some of these men will de facto “pimp” their spouses for their own sexual fulfillment.

2. If the wife in this situation is aware of her husband’s fixation and she wants to be a hot wife, she can gain complete control over her husband and the relationship. Her control is based on the husband’s strong need for and dependence on his wife’s sexual liaisons. (She has him by the balls).

3. If the wife is not willing or just not very interested in “performing” for her husband to satisfy his personal voyeuristic/ candaulistic needs, the husband will (by himself) make sex with her “vanilla” and may even (deliberately) put on inadequate sexual performances with her--- secretly hoping that she will cuckolded him. He may even remind his wife about what a poor fuck he is, etc.

4. If the wife never comes around, that is decides not to be her husband's personal “fuck show”, then the husband will incur a significant level of sexual frustration and anxiety. His only outlet will be Internet porno.

I suggest to women in this situation, that if they have a significant other with strong voyeuristic/ candaulistic tendencies they have an opportunity to take charge of their relationship in general and especially their sexual relationship.

And--- the husband will be a willing submissive in such cases. The wife, in fact, can likely get her husband to do most anything she wants just by implying that she “may” include him in her play in some manner.

So, 123, beware of what you are trying to set into motion unless you want to chance opening up your wife to new found power--- and power that may be used to control you in many ways:

“Would you like to listen to me fuck Bob next week, sweetheart?”. “Yes dear”. “Okay, we need new furniture in the family room first”.

“If you would like to watch me fuck my BF you’ll have to wear this cock cage for 4 weeks”. “Yes, dear”. “Good, now drop your pants and let’s get this device on your cock and balls”. “Yes dear”.

And the rest is history.

CuckoldMick :D
 
Or worse:

"What Bob and I do when we are together is private--- he would never understand your weird cuckold twist and desire to watch us 'make love'--- and no, you can not have any details about my date with him tonight--- this would betray the trust Bob and I have between us--- now stop whining and get between my legs and lick Bob's sweet cum out of me--- isn't that just the most romantic thing--- all of Bob’s happy little sperm swimming around inside my tummy--- mmmmmm, that's a good little cum slut"........(laughing)
 

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