Good morning,
Just thought I'd share something that Sue and I discussed last night.
She thanked me over and over again for what I've encouraged her to do for herself. And she more than made it clear to me that she really REALLY appreciated my staying with her and Brad as they fucked. In short, she said that from my response to staying with them - and then our time afterwards - that she does truly believe that I am okay with her being sexually active with others. She said several times how much it meant for me to be there with her - and she made it a point to tell me that she was so relieved that I did truly enjoy being there - and she emphasized that she really was happy that I was able to stay the whole time.
While she didn't say it - I knew what she was getting at was that she was VERY happy that I was okay with being there when Brad actually came inside her. I know to her that moment is very important when she has sex as she, like me, feels it is truly the moment of fulfillment. I told her that it was a bit heartwrenching at the time but seeing him - seeing them at that moment was also very touching and arousing to me. Something about knowing he was actually cumming in her as I watched was - and still is - incredibly arousing to see and be a part of.
So - that's when she opened up a bit more. She said she was sort of disappointed that Brad was no longer her "boy toy" - someone she could look forward to having a bit of fun with on a sort of regular basis. She said she does care for him a lot but that they both talked and realized that they had to stop the regular meetings because Brad said he felt like he couldn't do it and still have his family at home. She said that since his youngest was now almost 2 years old, that he wanted to be with his wife and family more.
Sue was okay about it - as she'd told me all along, she did love him but not in that way and that she felt like he is doing the right thing. Although she did add that she would probably "always have a place in her heart for him" and she did say very plainly and clearly that she would probably always have an occasional roll-in-the-hay with him - which she knew I would be okay with after being with them that night.
And that was when she opened up more to me. She said that my being there and truly being okay with all of her sex with other guys - including my knowing just how much she truly gives to and enjoys with him - gave her the "courage" to accept her desires too.
She said to me that there is another guy who she has her eye on. I was obviously turned on by this by, I guess, how I responded to what she said. I asked her more and she said only that he's someone she knows through work but not someone she works with. She said he is younger than her/us but older than Brad. He is single - actually divorced - and that she thinks she might like to "be with him".
I asked her what she was thinking about when/where/how, etc. She said that she's sort of expressed to him that she's interested but he's very hesitant in that he know she is married. And she's not sure how to approach him or to tell him that she is available. Apparently he's a vendor that is in her office on an infrequent but somewhat regular basis and that he works supporting some sort of "office products" or whatever and that this is his territory including her work place.
I told her that I would do whatever she wanted if it's what she wants. She was happy that I said that as she wanted to hear it from me that I would want and be okay with her having another sexual relationship. I asked her if she somehow wanted me to talk to him and she said "no - not yet" that she needs to take the first steps but that she's so unsure of what to do as last time it was Brad who'd been chasing her! I told her to think back to how she used to be before we were together if she were interested in a guy. She giggled at that and said she felt like a teenager again - and I just told her that was great and she should just be herself and even tell him that.
She didn't tell me his name - but it could be this guy Don who she's mentioned in the past. I didn't push it.
So - it seems what others here have said was true. Once she began to enjoy it for herself and once she knew for sure I was okay with what she was doing - that it was only a matter of time before she looked for another guy.
I'm actually totallly okay with it. I knew something was up with how she seemed to be not all that down about the distance between her and Brad that I'd seen in the past few weeks. The way Brad just left this last time had almost made me think that they'd set that up just so Sue could have her "confidence" that I was truly okay with her doing this stuff. Now that she knows that, it's quite interesting to see her acting like this all giddy and giggly about a "new guy".
And so, we move onto a new phase. I wonder how this will work out but with him being divorced, I suspect that Sue may want a bit more out of this than just an infrequent date - I do think she very much missed the regularity she had with Brad. And, between me and those reading this, I hope it re-ignites some of her cuckoldress desires as I've sort of missed her teasing and "denial".
Gotta run.
Looks like I may be SoonToBe-again...
Just thought I'd share something that Sue and I discussed last night.
She thanked me over and over again for what I've encouraged her to do for herself. And she more than made it clear to me that she really REALLY appreciated my staying with her and Brad as they fucked. In short, she said that from my response to staying with them - and then our time afterwards - that she does truly believe that I am okay with her being sexually active with others. She said several times how much it meant for me to be there with her - and she made it a point to tell me that she was so relieved that I did truly enjoy being there - and she emphasized that she really was happy that I was able to stay the whole time.
While she didn't say it - I knew what she was getting at was that she was VERY happy that I was okay with being there when Brad actually came inside her. I know to her that moment is very important when she has sex as she, like me, feels it is truly the moment of fulfillment. I told her that it was a bit heartwrenching at the time but seeing him - seeing them at that moment was also very touching and arousing to me. Something about knowing he was actually cumming in her as I watched was - and still is - incredibly arousing to see and be a part of.
So - that's when she opened up a bit more. She said she was sort of disappointed that Brad was no longer her "boy toy" - someone she could look forward to having a bit of fun with on a sort of regular basis. She said she does care for him a lot but that they both talked and realized that they had to stop the regular meetings because Brad said he felt like he couldn't do it and still have his family at home. She said that since his youngest was now almost 2 years old, that he wanted to be with his wife and family more.
Sue was okay about it - as she'd told me all along, she did love him but not in that way and that she felt like he is doing the right thing. Although she did add that she would probably "always have a place in her heart for him" and she did say very plainly and clearly that she would probably always have an occasional roll-in-the-hay with him - which she knew I would be okay with after being with them that night.
And that was when she opened up more to me. She said that my being there and truly being okay with all of her sex with other guys - including my knowing just how much she truly gives to and enjoys with him - gave her the "courage" to accept her desires too.
She said to me that there is another guy who she has her eye on. I was obviously turned on by this by, I guess, how I responded to what she said. I asked her more and she said only that he's someone she knows through work but not someone she works with. She said he is younger than her/us but older than Brad. He is single - actually divorced - and that she thinks she might like to "be with him".
I asked her what she was thinking about when/where/how, etc. She said that she's sort of expressed to him that she's interested but he's very hesitant in that he know she is married. And she's not sure how to approach him or to tell him that she is available. Apparently he's a vendor that is in her office on an infrequent but somewhat regular basis and that he works supporting some sort of "office products" or whatever and that this is his territory including her work place.
I told her that I would do whatever she wanted if it's what she wants. She was happy that I said that as she wanted to hear it from me that I would want and be okay with her having another sexual relationship. I asked her if she somehow wanted me to talk to him and she said "no - not yet" that she needs to take the first steps but that she's so unsure of what to do as last time it was Brad who'd been chasing her! I told her to think back to how she used to be before we were together if she were interested in a guy. She giggled at that and said she felt like a teenager again - and I just told her that was great and she should just be herself and even tell him that.
She didn't tell me his name - but it could be this guy Don who she's mentioned in the past. I didn't push it.
So - it seems what others here have said was true. Once she began to enjoy it for herself and once she knew for sure I was okay with what she was doing - that it was only a matter of time before she looked for another guy.
I'm actually totallly okay with it. I knew something was up with how she seemed to be not all that down about the distance between her and Brad that I'd seen in the past few weeks. The way Brad just left this last time had almost made me think that they'd set that up just so Sue could have her "confidence" that I was truly okay with her doing this stuff. Now that she knows that, it's quite interesting to see her acting like this all giddy and giggly about a "new guy".
And so, we move onto a new phase. I wonder how this will work out but with him being divorced, I suspect that Sue may want a bit more out of this than just an infrequent date - I do think she very much missed the regularity she had with Brad. And, between me and those reading this, I hope it re-ignites some of her cuckoldress desires as I've sort of missed her teasing and "denial".
Gotta run.
Looks like I may be SoonToBe-again...