Wow - it has been ages since I had time (and energy) to post an update here.
Some of what I posted seems like it was so long ago.
I guess best to back-track to the week of July 4th as on short notice I had to go out of town that week for 2 nights. I came home early from work that Tuesday and said that I'd have to travel up to NY State for a few days. A few years ago, that would have annoyed her being trapped home with the kids. But now, with our daughter in her own world and with our son both working and virtually living at his girlfriends house, I knew she wasn't going to be upset.
As I was packing up some clothes I looked at her and asked if she was going to see Frank while I was away. She smiled and said "maybe". I left to drive up to NY about 8pm that night and got in about 10:30pm up in the Fishkill area (those of you in NY state can guess where I was going for the meeting). I remember thinking that this would be the first time she might see Frank and I wouldn't be there afterwards. When I spoke to her before bed that night she asked me if I was okay if she saw Frank on Wednesday. And I remember specifically asking her "in addition to Thursday?" and she paused and then said "yes, if that's okay too?". And I remember my answer was simply "yes".
We did talk during the day on Wednesday and Thursday - either on the phone or via Email and I knew that when I didn't get a reply to my Email to her on Wednesday afternoon, that she'd gone over to see Frank.
Wednesday night when we talked on the phone all I asked he was whether she'd gone to see "him" and she said "yes". I didn't ask any more. I knew she would have told me anything I asked but at the time, being 3 hours away in a hotel room - leaving it to my imagination till I got home on Thursday. She later told me she was surprised that I hadn't asked but when I told her that I lay there in bed afterwards and masturbated for like 30 minutes, as I thought about her, until I exploded - she smiled and seemed almost embarassed that I'd enjoyed thinking of her being so lewd.
She went to see him on Thursday too. I didn't get home until about 7pm and was surprised to see that neither of our kids were home. Needless to say, she wasn't surprised when I didn't want to have dinner right away.
Thinking that she'd fucked him 2 nights in a row and had probably went to sleep on Wednesday night with his cum still in her had me so turned on that I was not to be denied. I can't be specific about much else other than kneeling between her legs and looking down at her. Seeing her reddened and swollen pussy, still visibly wet from Frank - is all I can really remember. I know that she handed me the Astroglide and pulled her knees back for me and said something like "welcome home...". I know we were both loud and very messy and that even though I'd jerked off the night before, with how she felt, it wasn't even a thought that I wasn't going to fuck her brains out.
Now, as I said, we took most of last week off and spent the beginning of it (Sunday to Thursday) down at the beach. The kids came down and spent a night with us but it was a vacation for us. Our son tended to the house, his girlfriend and his sister. But that's for another post.
We did talk when I got home and she shared a lot of what she and Frank had done. As I said, sometimes we'll talk about more details and other times, I don't really need to hear about it, I just want to feel her.
She says that Frank is no longer "up tight" about her being naked when she's with him. Even though I know this is nothing new, still hearing her say that she spends her time naked (or just wearing one of his shirts or something) still turns me on to this day. To this day she says that she likes how she feels letting her lover see all of her. She says she'll glimpse at him and see him staring at her and it turns her on and makes her feel desired.
I asked her if she is as comfortable with him as she was with Brad and Don (and me) to let him see her after they've had sex. That was a huge step when she reached that point with both of them. She answered me that she's not there all the way just yet - but that at times (she said like that Wednesday I was away) that it feels right. I asked her how Frank felt about that and she says he is still kind of reserved/inhibited by this much open sexuality and that it's more the feeling she gets from him that either makes it feel right or doesn't, or as she put it (some things you don't forget) that "sometimes he's uncomfortable looking at my pussy after we've had sex".
And yes - just typing that in above has me horned up again for later tonight!!!!
At another point she shared with me that she felt very sexy and "naughty" that Wednesday night when she went to bed and could still feel Frank's cum in her. I confessed that was what had consumed my fantasies that night when I was away and she giggled at hearing me tell her how I jerked off thinking of her. I also confessed that I'd missed her panty-teasing while I was away and she giggled at that too.
While we were alone when we were away she shared more details of their sex together during foreplay and it was incredibly arousing to hear it come from her. But that is for another post.
Fortunately, her monthly this month waited till we'd gotten home at the end of the week. I'll tell you something - I'll take this part of menopause - again a little more than 2 days later she was done and horny again!
Gotta run for now.