Tried everything

[poopopo]

Im in my mid 20's and so is she. Ive done everything I can think of to get her to try bbc or any cock for that matter. The only one she says she wants is mine. Im not saying this to sound like Im good in bed I have never made her get off not even once and we have been together for 3 years. She's had a few partner a few larger than I and has got off with them. She's never had bbc but has gave one a handjob. I THINK IT WENT A LITTLE FARTHER but she just doesnt want to tell me. When I tell her I want her to do this all she says is " Thats because you dont love me enough". Any ideas?

 

[poopopo]

no suggestion from anyone?

 

[FuckMyWife_in_AL]

Suggestiions?

Have you actually told her that you want her to take a bbc?
If you ever watch porn together, get one with an interracial scene in it. Don't throw a 100% interracial movie in, just one with a scene or two in it. These do exist. Act turned on during the scene(s). Then while having sex after watching the movie, tell her how much you would like to see her with a black man. How turned on it would make you,etc... How you would love to see her getting fucked really good, like she deserves.
If haven't already gotten a bbc vibrator or dildo, get one.

 

[blackbull1970]

Just invite a brotha over for dinner.......by nights end, that brotha will break her in!

Peace.

 

[poopopo]

Yes I have told her. Have any suggestions for movies with scene's like you described? thanks

 

[FuckMyWife_in_AL]

Sugggestions

Red Light Distict video has some good mix tapes. You could also look for some of the Screw my wife tapes, where the husband is present and watches the wife get it on. There are some with black guys. Another approach, which is sneaky is make contact with a black guy that is willing to go the extra mile and meet you and her at an dance club. While you go get driinks or run to the restroom, have him ask her to dance and make some moves on her while on the dance floor. If she is attracted to him, this should open a window. This might also be an opportunity to get some drinks in her and loosen her up. This was pretty close to what happened with us. Except that she knew the guy from work. All of my talking about it and asking her do it, the constant flirting with a few guys from her work, and the moments on the dance floor with him, finally opened her up.

 

[poopopo]

Thanks for the advice. Hopefully I'll let you know something

 

[Raunchy Randy]

...She's never had bbc but has gave one a handjob. I THINK IT WENT A LITTLE FARTHER but she just doesnt want to tell me... QUOTE]

Ahhh, the old 'I've Tried Everything to Get Her to Take BBC Thread.' Let me put it to you like this. WHAT IF she is already getting BBC discreetly 'on the side,' and you find out about it, after the (f)act? Would you be upset, and hurt because of her infidelity?

I ask that question because your concern seems to be mostly about YOU, and YOUR NEED TO WATCH.

She's stated that she only wants you. Take her at her word for that, and be happy about it. Use the porn movies for entertainment only. Otherwise, you're gonna push her right into the scenario I described, above, and you won't like it.

 

[EddieH]

Maybe she is getting some BBC behind your back.....

 

[wdnnkl]

I'm a married white male for 29 years, and have done all the things suggested, and the bitch still won't fuck a black cock. So I have given up, which is what u will probably wind up doing. My suggestion is find another woman that will, before it is too late, because until it happens u will have this huge longing that won't go away.

 

[KennyBMD]

Why not just accept your wife's remarks at face value?? If she isn't interested, she isn't interested. Part of the problem may be your fixation that she do it. Women do not think like men do - period. She already knows what you want, right? So my suggestion would be to just be cool for awhile and let nature take its course. In all liklihood nothing will ever happen - that is YOUR problem, not hers. But just wait and see

 

[Kristina]

Im in my mid 20's and so is she. Ive done everything I can think of to get her to try bbc or any cock for that matter. The only one she says she wants is mine. Im not saying this to sound like Im good in bed I have never made her get off not even once and we have been together for 3 years. She's had a few partner a few larger than I and has got off with them. She's never had bbc but has gave one a handjob. I THINK IT WENT A LITTLE FARTHER but she just doesnt want to tell me. When I tell her I want her to do this all she says is " Thats because you dont love me enough". Any ideas?

Just some advice: respect her boundaries as she respects yours and most of all, never, EVER coerce her to do anything outside her boundaries. The bedroom is all about the woman and fulfilling her desires. If BBC, 3somes, moresomes, or bi-experiences is not a desire of hers, then let it go. If you aren't happy respecting her and her boundaries, then you two need to part ways so she can invest her time and energy in another relationship.

 

[Kristina]

Just invite a brotha over for dinner.......by nights end, that brotha will break her in!

Peace.

Hmmm...why do I have a feeling that's the quickest way to end their relationship???

 

[hotblack4hotwife]

It takes time, it takes time it TAKES TIME. Do not push her or she'll forever be turned off. Pique her interest (black dildo, whisper dirty thoughts into her ear "see the way those black guys looked at you, they think you're hot because you are" Show her sites like this one and www.hotwifeblog.com explain to her the hotwife concept and anklets etc... tell her how much it turns YOU on to see her being pleased. "Me an another guy pleasing you..." etc...

Overtime she'll "get it" and start feeling empowered. Once she does WATCH OUT ;-)

good luck

 

[maria_canoli]

she thinks u dont love her and respect her. leave it alone before she gets mad at you.

 

[poopopo]

Thanks for all the replies I'll take them all into consideration (or however you spell that). But however I must say one thing If she has or is taking it discreetly that would be great I basically just want her to be happy and have a good time in the bedroom.

 

[Stretcher74]

This is the dumbest thread I have ever read.

Im in my mid 20's and so is she. Ive done everything I can think of to get her to try bbc or any cock for that matter. The only one she says she wants is mine. Im not saying this to sound like Im good in bed I have never made her get off not even once and we have been together for 3 years. She's had a few partner a few larger than I and has got off with them. She's never had bbc but has gave one a handjob. I THINK IT WENT A LITTLE FARTHER but she just doesnt want to tell me. When I tell her I want her to do this all she says is " Thats because you dont love me enough". Any ideas?

You've been with your present partner for 3 years and you can't make her cum ? You think bringing BBC Tyrone over for dinner for a little pump and go is going to solve anything ? And in the meantime you're nagging her about it ?

Here's an idea. Why not ask/find out/do what your woman enjoys in bed first. Ignorance of human anatomy on this site is amazing. 90% of women cum 90% of the time based on what happens with their CLITORIS.

You need to know how to make her cum. Oral sex, Plug in Vibrator, more teasing kissing, how you move, lasting long enough, and maybe a little biting are called for. Explore the psychology of *her* fantasy and wants and build on that. How does she like to touch herself ?

Belive me she's not failing to cum because you lack inches. She's failing to cum because you're a self centered dork focused on your own fantasy of the magic black dong cuering her frigidness. Which I suspect isn't her being frigid in the first place (see a doctor) but you being a total wuss/incompetent.

When you can knock her socks off in bed yoursef you might reintroduce your fantasy.

You can thank me for the tough love now.

 

[poopopo]

You think you know but you have no idea.