Virtual castration? - how can I keep "it" soft???

[DWM_in_413]

In order to be a proper cuckold, it seems that my pathetic penis should remain completely soft all of the time. I have been able to control myself mentally to some extent and I have done research about chemical castration and actual castrations, as well.
Chemical castration using Depo-Provera has very serious side effects and actual castration leaves the male sexually useless because all sexual drive and sexual interest goes away. That is not what I'd want.

So, does anyone have other ideas or solutions that can help, or actually work, to keep the cuck's penis completely soft or at least mostly soft most or all of the time?


Thank you,
Sissy Charlene

 

[Susan's Slave]

The little buggers do tend to have a mind of their own. I do not know of any strategies for keeping them down that do not have side effects other than some chastity devices. Look for one that has points that punish an erection.

 

[tiedandteased]

doesn't castration that defeat the purpose? you should be excited/aroused but unable to cum. THAT is punishment. Not caring about an erection is no punishment so why do it?

Tied

 

[Missey's sissy]

Actually an erection is great. Because it is small it is humiliating. Many of my wifes bulls have made great fun of my small cock.

 

[tpeman]

You are putting too much time into this

 

[NYJOE]

doesn't castration that defeat the purpose? you should be excited/aroused but unable to cum. THAT is punishment. Not caring about an erection is no punishment so why do it?

Tied

Yes, having a raging erection and being sexually excited about you wife being fuck by others is something that is very enjoyable for most cucks. Why would a cuck want to deny themselves this thrill?

 

[riderfar]

Get a Master Lock #5 and put the shaclle around your balls and enjoy

 

[Custer Laststand]

DWM_in_413,

Doesn't castration defeat the purpose? You should be excited/aroused but unable to cum. THAT would be punishment. Not caring about an erection is no punishment, so why do it? —Tied

Tiedandteased's point is a good one. Thus, perhaps you should consider a penectomy. This would leave you horny (because you'd still have your balls), but without any means of attaining sexual satisfaction . See, for instance:

Penectomy News Digest (fictional)

—Custer

*Note also that qualified surgeons in the U.S. are probably unwilling to perform this surgery if it isn't medically necessary, so the problem of finding a competent, well-qualified surgeon who could perform followup treatment of complications (if any) may be nontrivial.

 

[tiedandteased]

wow, not having a dick but wanting to cum. That would be extreme.

It's the DESIRE to cum; the release from cumming that you would take away through castration. Then what? Without the desire, you really could care less if you came (not that you'd be able to anyway). So the desire is gone permanently. Why would any mistress/woman bother with you after castration? Better think this through.

 

[lifelong cuck]

Finasteride

In order to be a proper cuckold, it seems that my pathetic penis should remain completely soft all of the time. I have been able to control myself mentally to some extent and I have done research about chemical castration and actual castrations, as well.
Chemical castration using Depo-Provera has very serious side effects and actual castration leaves the male sexually useless because all sexual drive and sexual interest goes away. That is not what I'd want.

So, does anyone have other ideas or solutions that can help, or actually work, to keep the cuck's penis completely soft or at least mostly soft most or all of the time?


Thank you,
Sissy Charlene

I take 5mg of Finasteride night and morning, it has done a pretty good job of keeping me soft and making my small cock shrink even more. Main side effect is listed as impotence. Two positive side effects, more hair and smaller prostate!
Finasteride Side Effects

 

[SoonToBe]

I don't get it fully but that may be because Sue and I don't define being a cuckold as a total denial of my pleasures and desires - but more that she can choose to be with another guy instead of me and will also deny me sex with her before their meeting.

So, for me - if she really didn't want me to be getting hard and horny around her - I just masturbate A LOT. If I force myself to cum 3 times (and believe me - that 3rd time is not all that pleasurable) then I'm pretty much out of the game for 24-48 hours afterwards.

Maybe that's a solution for you. Sue hasn't ever asked me - but I could see a scenario where she would "observe" me and be sure I got the 3rd dribbling orgasm out of me in order to make me less desirous of her.

Just a suggestion that may be better than taking drugs and the like.

 

[DWM_in_413]

I want to thank all of you for your replies and information. Now I have more to think about.

Thank you,
Sissy Charlene

 

[slinky67]

not too sure if u have tried this

get your wife to prostate milk you...i did it with my ex for 6 months or so...if she did it on a sunday night, she would do it at say...7pm...then go again at say 9pm....trust me...you are as dry as a bone after that...i was unable to get an erection of any type for 3-4 days sometimes even a week...no matter how i played with it while even looking at the hardest porn.

 

[castrated_sissy]

Hi all, first time posting. As i see all these posts about castration one thing i DO notice is that no one speaks from experience. I have been surgically castrated for 6 years and I'm here to tell you those urges do not go away and erections are totally impossible but orgasm is not. When I am thinking about whatever I think about that gets me excited I still have the urge just not the ability. For me being TS, castration is a cheap alternative to SRS until I can afford it. Do not think for a moment that castration takes away all desires, some perhaps but not all. Personally, I think it looks "cute" and I certainly don't want to have an erection when servicing a Black Bull, just my feelings. For a TOTALLY committed slut/cuck couple, it might be an option and a very rewarding one but think long and hard (no pun intended) about it. P.S. viagra will work. Jamie

 

[cumbox]

Please ignore this thread and post, it started 4 years a go and should be left dead.

The question and some replies are dangerous. Do not self- dose any chemicals or try any unneeded operations done by any quack doctor.

No fantasy is worth injuring or killing yourself just for fun or sexual pleasure.

 

[wantHappywife]

In order to be a proper cuckold, it seems that my pathetic penis should remain completely soft all of the time. I have been able to control myself mentally to some extent and I have done research about chemical castration and actual castrations, as well.
Chemical castration using Depo-Provera has very serious side effects and actual castration leaves the male sexually useless because all sexual drive and sexual interest goes away. That is not what I'd want.

So, does anyone have other ideas or solutions that can help, or actually work, to keep the cuck's penis completely soft or at least mostly soft most or all of the time?


Thank you,
Sissy Charlene

Unless you have a dr. who will prescribe Depo provera or other anti androgen meds, I have tried a supplement called "Chaste Tree Berry" aka monks pepper. it can be googled , and they sell it on amazon

 

[cuckycouple]

I found being caged has made me impotant as I do still cum but just ooze.

 

[msbevw]

I always wonder why people go back and dig out old posts, this one from 8 years ago, and reply to them. The original poster is probably long gone from this site. Go up a few posts and you will see someone else trying to figure out why it was resurrected.

 

[cuckycouple]

I see what you mean

 

[shelli_k18]

..

*Note also that qualified surgeons in the U.S. are probably unwilling to perform this surgery if it isn't medically necessary, so the problem of finding a competent, well-qualified surgeon who could perform followup treatment of complications (if any) may be nontrivial.

I've been looking, and I've learned, that even a cock removed 100% can be re-attached.. but that got me wondering, could I donate my not little member to a FtM? Once more, even sterylized, testicles can still produce the testosterone the FtM needs. I hear I can do with just one..