Want your wife to cuckold you? Read this!
I have joined this site about a year and a half ago, and have been lurking and reading it for a lot longer, and not a week goes by without someone posting on the forums looking for advice on how to get his wife started in the cuckolding lifestyle. When I first joined this website, I was looking for this advise myself, and a year and a half later, I have finally succeeded - my wife is finally fucking another guy with my full knowledge and approval. With that being said, I decided to write this little guide, which is a mixture of general advice and own cuckold story – how it unfolded. Hopefully those of you looking for advice will find this helpful.
It’s actually not that difficult to get started. There are different scenarios of course, and different goals. There are couples where the husband is a total dickless wimp to begin with, with a really aggressive, slutty wife that loves big cock and only married the wimp for money - those relationships are almost guaranteed to become cuckold relationships with the husband getting as much abuse as he wants to.
However, most of us have normal relationships with somewhat conservative wives, and we are just looking to open up the sex life a little bit, and try out new things. Most of us are not looking for any extreme cuckolding scenarios, but more like looking to have what is called a "hotwife" with some degree of cuckolding, depending on ones desires and willingness.
Here's what’s important to realize - your wife has desires and fantasies just like you do. Just like you are horny sometimes, and so is she, and just like you not being comfortable to tell your wife about your desires, she is not comfortable telling you her desires either. Perhaps even more, because our society expects wives to be conservative and faithful. But most wives have fantasized about cheating on her husband, and most have fantasized about being with two guys.
The easiest way by far to get your woman to fuck another man is to have her hang out with a real hot guy. Whether it’s a mutual friend, a coworker, etc - if the guy is hot, she will want to fuck him. If he is also attracted to her, then there will be a lot of chemistry between them, and then it’s just up to one of them to make the first move, and they will be fucking. It is great if you have a mutual friend that suits the description, and even better if you can talk to the guy about it openly, and tell him that you want him to fuck your wife. This way he will not hesitate to make a move on her.
Keep in mind however that women are rarely interested in fucking a stranger. Even if they do sometimes have one night stands with strangers, they generally do not brag about it. It is possible that your wife has had, or will have, one night stand that you won't ever know about, and get no satisfaction out of. So, it’s going to be easier for your to convince your wife if the potential candidate is a mutual friend - it could be a coworker, gym buddy, etc. And it’s best if you discuss it with him - and I know many are not comfortable discussing that with friends, but if you're not comfortable discussing it, then you're going to be totally uncomfortable actually doing it. So if you happen to have a friend that your wife could possibly be interested in fucking, and vice versa - GO FOR IT. Discuss it with the guy, start hanging out together a lot, if they flirt be totally cool with it, and watch what happens.
However, many of us just don't have a friend that could be a potential candidate. Or just aren't comfortable about going through with this with friends. Then you need to take the hard route.
First of all you need to take small steps, and be able to discuss, or at least hint your wife into this direction. In order to do this, you need to have a healthy sex life with your wife, and have sex often. Because the best time to discuss the possibility of your wife fucking other men, is during foreplay. So the more often you have sex, the more chances you will have to discuss this. And I know that many of you are afraid to discuss or even hint the possibility to your wife about her fucking another man, but you will have to man up and discuss it. As I was saying before, if you’re afraid of just discussing it, you will only be even more afraid when it comes time to walk the walk. So man up, put your insecurities away, and talk to your wife! It is very likely that your wife will not be mad at all. Surprised, yes, and will take a while to warm up to the idea, but most likely she wont be mad, and even somewhat interested. And even if she gets mad at you – oh well, you want to be a cuck, right? Well there goes your first humiliation.
So, once again, you need to have these discussions with your wife. You can be blunt, and just tell her that you want her to fuck another man, but it’s probably better to hint her into this direction, and pretty much make her admit, or at least hint, that she would want to fuck another man, before you offer it to her. So just talk to your wife, show her some MFM porn, discuss her past lovers, etc. It’s different for everyone. You also need to generally spoil your wife and make her feel sexy. Once your wife admits that she would like to experiment with other men, and you allow her to do it, your next step is to find the right candidate, which is an even more difficult task sometimes, depending on your situation, but at least now you both have a goal to pursue and can be open about it. Don’t expect her to fuck the first man she sees. Work on finding a friend that both of you are going to be comfortable with - in and out of bed.
And this is how my personal story unfolded. It’s a bit long, but it’s worth reading.
My wife and I have been together for almost ten years. She is also 15 years older than me. When we first met, it was just purely a sexual relationship – I was banging a hot milf, and she had a young boy toy. We didn’t expect that we were going to get married or even have a serious relationship, and so she was very open with me and acted pretty slutty. She told me she had a lot of partners in the past, she said that she has cheated on her ex, and she even admitted that she fantasized about having two guys at once. I offered her to try, but we didn’t have a good candidate back then, and we were constantly having sex anyway, so we didn’t have much time to think about another guy.
But eventually we developed a serious relationship, started living together and then got married. After that she became a lot more conservative about what she says, didn’t want to hear about threesomes anymore, and became all proper and faithful… or so I thought (more on that late).
However there was one episode in one relationship, and using that episode is how I got her to admit that she wanted to fuck other men, and eventually do it. Back in 2005, a mutual friend of ours (I’ll call him “X”) got divorced, and was spending a lot of time hanging out of us. I started noticing that my wife has the hots for him – she would just dress really slutty whenever he was coming over, she would unbutton the top of her shirt so her tits could be seen if he peeked at a certain angle, she was always asking about him, wanting us to hang out together, etc. Since the guy was one of my best friends, I just told him that my wife wants to fuck him, and told him that I want him to fuck her, and he was really excited about it, and started making moves… but then all of a sudden he met another girl, whom he now married, and called the whole thing off.
Fast forward to about a month ago. We were in bed, about to have sex, and just having little sexy chats. She was asking me if I loved her, if I thought she was sexy and desirable. How I should say that for about two weeks prior to that she has been in a very upswing mood. Dressing and looking great, and just generally seeming to feel good about herself. She also has joined a gym a while ago, and has been attending it almost every day during the few weeks prior to that day. So back to this day – we’re in bed, and she’s asking me all these questions and she brags that she’s been getting a lot of compliments from men. And of course I tell her that she is very sexy and fuckable, and that men are lusting after her. And that’s when I decided to approach the issue head one. This is more of less how our conversation went;
Me – Do you remember our friend “X”. You know, back in the days he really wanted you.
Her – What makes you think so?
Me – He told me so.
Her (stumbling for a few seconds and turning red) – Really? What did you tell him?
Me – I told him to go for it.
Her (stumbling even more) – Seriously?
Me – Yeah, it was obvious to me that you wanted to fuck him, so I told him to go for it.
Her (giggling) – And you would have been ok with this?
Me – There’s nothing that could turn me on more than you fucking another man
So we chatted a bit more, her asking me several more times if I’m really seriously OK with her fucking other men, and me reassuring her even more. At that point she was so worked up and horny, and she goes like;
Her – Do you want me to tell you something?
Me – Sure
Her – Promise you will not be upset
Me – I promise
Her – Look, I don’t like hiding anything from you and wanted to tell you this for a while. Remember when I work for this company in the city back in 2004, there was this guy that was working there (lets cal him “Y”)
Me – Yeah
Her – You know, we were fucking….
I have joined this site about a year and a half ago, and have been lurking and reading it for a lot longer, and not a week goes by without someone posting on the forums looking for advice on how to get his wife started in the cuckolding lifestyle. When I first joined this website, I was looking for this advise myself, and a year and a half later, I have finally succeeded - my wife is finally fucking another guy with my full knowledge and approval. With that being said, I decided to write this little guide, which is a mixture of general advice and own cuckold story – how it unfolded. Hopefully those of you looking for advice will find this helpful.
It’s actually not that difficult to get started. There are different scenarios of course, and different goals. There are couples where the husband is a total dickless wimp to begin with, with a really aggressive, slutty wife that loves big cock and only married the wimp for money - those relationships are almost guaranteed to become cuckold relationships with the husband getting as much abuse as he wants to.
However, most of us have normal relationships with somewhat conservative wives, and we are just looking to open up the sex life a little bit, and try out new things. Most of us are not looking for any extreme cuckolding scenarios, but more like looking to have what is called a "hotwife" with some degree of cuckolding, depending on ones desires and willingness.
Here's what’s important to realize - your wife has desires and fantasies just like you do. Just like you are horny sometimes, and so is she, and just like you not being comfortable to tell your wife about your desires, she is not comfortable telling you her desires either. Perhaps even more, because our society expects wives to be conservative and faithful. But most wives have fantasized about cheating on her husband, and most have fantasized about being with two guys.
The easiest way by far to get your woman to fuck another man is to have her hang out with a real hot guy. Whether it’s a mutual friend, a coworker, etc - if the guy is hot, she will want to fuck him. If he is also attracted to her, then there will be a lot of chemistry between them, and then it’s just up to one of them to make the first move, and they will be fucking. It is great if you have a mutual friend that suits the description, and even better if you can talk to the guy about it openly, and tell him that you want him to fuck your wife. This way he will not hesitate to make a move on her.
Keep in mind however that women are rarely interested in fucking a stranger. Even if they do sometimes have one night stands with strangers, they generally do not brag about it. It is possible that your wife has had, or will have, one night stand that you won't ever know about, and get no satisfaction out of. So, it’s going to be easier for your to convince your wife if the potential candidate is a mutual friend - it could be a coworker, gym buddy, etc. And it’s best if you discuss it with him - and I know many are not comfortable discussing that with friends, but if you're not comfortable discussing it, then you're going to be totally uncomfortable actually doing it. So if you happen to have a friend that your wife could possibly be interested in fucking, and vice versa - GO FOR IT. Discuss it with the guy, start hanging out together a lot, if they flirt be totally cool with it, and watch what happens.
However, many of us just don't have a friend that could be a potential candidate. Or just aren't comfortable about going through with this with friends. Then you need to take the hard route.
First of all you need to take small steps, and be able to discuss, or at least hint your wife into this direction. In order to do this, you need to have a healthy sex life with your wife, and have sex often. Because the best time to discuss the possibility of your wife fucking other men, is during foreplay. So the more often you have sex, the more chances you will have to discuss this. And I know that many of you are afraid to discuss or even hint the possibility to your wife about her fucking another man, but you will have to man up and discuss it. As I was saying before, if you’re afraid of just discussing it, you will only be even more afraid when it comes time to walk the walk. So man up, put your insecurities away, and talk to your wife! It is very likely that your wife will not be mad at all. Surprised, yes, and will take a while to warm up to the idea, but most likely she wont be mad, and even somewhat interested. And even if she gets mad at you – oh well, you want to be a cuck, right? Well there goes your first humiliation.
So, once again, you need to have these discussions with your wife. You can be blunt, and just tell her that you want her to fuck another man, but it’s probably better to hint her into this direction, and pretty much make her admit, or at least hint, that she would want to fuck another man, before you offer it to her. So just talk to your wife, show her some MFM porn, discuss her past lovers, etc. It’s different for everyone. You also need to generally spoil your wife and make her feel sexy. Once your wife admits that she would like to experiment with other men, and you allow her to do it, your next step is to find the right candidate, which is an even more difficult task sometimes, depending on your situation, but at least now you both have a goal to pursue and can be open about it. Don’t expect her to fuck the first man she sees. Work on finding a friend that both of you are going to be comfortable with - in and out of bed.
And this is how my personal story unfolded. It’s a bit long, but it’s worth reading.
My wife and I have been together for almost ten years. She is also 15 years older than me. When we first met, it was just purely a sexual relationship – I was banging a hot milf, and she had a young boy toy. We didn’t expect that we were going to get married or even have a serious relationship, and so she was very open with me and acted pretty slutty. She told me she had a lot of partners in the past, she said that she has cheated on her ex, and she even admitted that she fantasized about having two guys at once. I offered her to try, but we didn’t have a good candidate back then, and we were constantly having sex anyway, so we didn’t have much time to think about another guy.
But eventually we developed a serious relationship, started living together and then got married. After that she became a lot more conservative about what she says, didn’t want to hear about threesomes anymore, and became all proper and faithful… or so I thought (more on that late).
However there was one episode in one relationship, and using that episode is how I got her to admit that she wanted to fuck other men, and eventually do it. Back in 2005, a mutual friend of ours (I’ll call him “X”) got divorced, and was spending a lot of time hanging out of us. I started noticing that my wife has the hots for him – she would just dress really slutty whenever he was coming over, she would unbutton the top of her shirt so her tits could be seen if he peeked at a certain angle, she was always asking about him, wanting us to hang out together, etc. Since the guy was one of my best friends, I just told him that my wife wants to fuck him, and told him that I want him to fuck her, and he was really excited about it, and started making moves… but then all of a sudden he met another girl, whom he now married, and called the whole thing off.
Fast forward to about a month ago. We were in bed, about to have sex, and just having little sexy chats. She was asking me if I loved her, if I thought she was sexy and desirable. How I should say that for about two weeks prior to that she has been in a very upswing mood. Dressing and looking great, and just generally seeming to feel good about herself. She also has joined a gym a while ago, and has been attending it almost every day during the few weeks prior to that day. So back to this day – we’re in bed, and she’s asking me all these questions and she brags that she’s been getting a lot of compliments from men. And of course I tell her that she is very sexy and fuckable, and that men are lusting after her. And that’s when I decided to approach the issue head one. This is more of less how our conversation went;
Me – Do you remember our friend “X”. You know, back in the days he really wanted you.
Her – What makes you think so?
Me – He told me so.
Her (stumbling for a few seconds and turning red) – Really? What did you tell him?
Me – I told him to go for it.
Her (stumbling even more) – Seriously?
Me – Yeah, it was obvious to me that you wanted to fuck him, so I told him to go for it.
Her (giggling) – And you would have been ok with this?
Me – There’s nothing that could turn me on more than you fucking another man
So we chatted a bit more, her asking me several more times if I’m really seriously OK with her fucking other men, and me reassuring her even more. At that point she was so worked up and horny, and she goes like;
Her – Do you want me to tell you something?
Me – Sure
Her – Promise you will not be upset
Me – I promise
Her – Look, I don’t like hiding anything from you and wanted to tell you this for a while. Remember when I work for this company in the city back in 2004, there was this guy that was working there (lets cal him “Y”)
Me – Yeah
Her – You know, we were fucking….
