I have been reading the posts here for a while and finally feel like I have something to contribute.
I've been with my wife for 8 years, but we dated on and off for 6 years before that. Ni have always wanted her to be with other guys, but was always afraid to bring it up to her. Two years ago, I brought it up to her during sex, but she just played it off as sex talk. I was always too afraid to bring it back up, until late last year. I told her and she got pretty upset at first bc of the typical reasons: she didn't want to hurt our marriage, she didn't want anyone else and then the anger over not understanding why her husband would want her to be with another guy.
Around the same time, a guy that she talked to for a few months got in touch with her online. They started texting on and off and eventually the talk turned sexual. She started to give in to my desires a little and was willing to wend this it naked pictures of herself. They traded pics back and forth for a month or so and he propositioned her for sex. She played along, just stringing him along, saying all along to me that she would never really do it and was just telling him that. Eventually, he got tired of waiting and they stopped talking.
Since then, not much happened until two months ago or so. The guy got back in touch with her and they have started up the process of texting and trading pics again. She continues to say that she isn't interested in him, yet she initiates the conversation and fliers with him.
What does everyone think? Is she getting ready to take he next step?
I've been with my wife for 8 years, but we dated on and off for 6 years before that. Ni have always wanted her to be with other guys, but was always afraid to bring it up to her. Two years ago, I brought it up to her during sex, but she just played it off as sex talk. I was always too afraid to bring it back up, until late last year. I told her and she got pretty upset at first bc of the typical reasons: she didn't want to hurt our marriage, she didn't want anyone else and then the anger over not understanding why her husband would want her to be with another guy.
Around the same time, a guy that she talked to for a few months got in touch with her online. They started texting on and off and eventually the talk turned sexual. She started to give in to my desires a little and was willing to wend this it naked pictures of herself. They traded pics back and forth for a month or so and he propositioned her for sex. She played along, just stringing him along, saying all along to me that she would never really do it and was just telling him that. Eventually, he got tired of waiting and they stopped talking.
Since then, not much happened until two months ago or so. The guy got back in touch with her and they have started up the process of texting and trading pics again. She continues to say that she isn't interested in him, yet she initiates the conversation and fliers with him.
What does everyone think? Is she getting ready to take he next step?