For me, I was 19. Meet this black man an I fell in love with him. Anytime I saw him go up to him an talk to him just to be around him. Then one day he asks me to go out with him for a few drinks. That when he told that I was acting like a girl that wants him to notice her an that when an I said that I did want him to notice me. Then he told that well let go to his place to get more comfortable with each other. That night is when my life change.