I, for one, prefer Black Men, sexually. They just turn me on more than white men do.
Because I go dry, quickly, when a man wears a rubber, I do not let any man, who has sex with me, wear one.
I know there are STDs out there, and I have never had one. And I have had sex with more men than I can count.
Black Men have always excited me, sexually. And I have never feared Black Men, or catching anything.
My personal reason for preferring Black Men is because with white men I have to use lube. I have never had to use lube when I have had sex with Black Men, other than when they have done me anally. I think it is because I have enjoyed so much sex with Black Men, and they have always been a little more aggressive, sexually, that they have excited me as they have. And that is why I prefer sex with Black Men more than sex with white men.
When we vacationed in Jamaica, I was impressed with how many Black Men preferred white women. When we visited friends in Baltimore, I hooked up with several Black Men. Not one white man approached me, wanting sex, the whole time we were there. The same thing happened when we visited friends in Detroit.
I think what makes Black Men attractive to many white women is the fact that Black Men aren't afraid to approach white women for sex, especially married white women. Few white men, at least from what I have experienced, are confident enough to approach a woman and tell her that he wants to fuck her.
I have had Black Men approach me in the grocery store and ask me if I had ever wanted to have sex with a Black Man, and they offered their services. When my husband and I have gone out together to dance, or to a bar to listen to live music, I have had Black Men sit next to me and put their hand on my thigh and strike up a conversation. I have never had a white man be that bold. When we have gone to swing clubs, it has always been the Black Men who approached me first.
I know I don't speak for all women, but, personally, I like men who are courageous, bold and confident. It takes a pretty confident man to approach a man's wife when her husband is sitting right next to her, and talk sex to her. Black Men do that. And that is why so many Black Men have had the opportunity to be with me.
As far as being afraid of catching something, since I will not let men use condoms when they fuck me, I see it as trust that goes both ways.