Please tell us why you want your wife to cuckold you, or if already a cuckold, how it came about (whose idea was it?)
In 1992 I attended my first swingers party in London as a single guy. I found it great fun to play with other guy's wives as they watched. I was never able to get a partner to join me at a club, so whenever I was single I went back onto the scene. I found women who were playing without their husbands knowledge, Wives playing with husbands knowledge but husband not there and those paying with their husband watching/joining in. I talked with many husbands at the clubs or after a private meet and their reasons for accepting their wife with other guys was quite varied --- ranging from their wife had too great a sexual appetite for them to meet, that they liked the feeling and emotions of reclaiming them afterwards, or in some cases the guys were no longer able to get hard and the wife still wanted sex. When I met my wife to be back in 2010 I told her about my swinging times. However, in the last few years I have really had the desire to watch her being fucked by other guys. She cant get past the idea it is cheating, but the more we are talking the more she is coming round to the idea (but very slowly). However the more I think about it I prefer the cuckolding idea -- that she has complete control of when and who she fucks and maybe even exclude me from a meeting. She has even said to me she would find it more awkward if I was watching her with another guy so she might also be moving in this direction.
I am therefore looking for how others got into the lifestyle
In 1992 I attended my first swingers party in London as a single guy. I found it great fun to play with other guy's wives as they watched. I was never able to get a partner to join me at a club, so whenever I was single I went back onto the scene. I found women who were playing without their husbands knowledge, Wives playing with husbands knowledge but husband not there and those paying with their husband watching/joining in. I talked with many husbands at the clubs or after a private meet and their reasons for accepting their wife with other guys was quite varied --- ranging from their wife had too great a sexual appetite for them to meet, that they liked the feeling and emotions of reclaiming them afterwards, or in some cases the guys were no longer able to get hard and the wife still wanted sex. When I met my wife to be back in 2010 I told her about my swinging times. However, in the last few years I have really had the desire to watch her being fucked by other guys. She cant get past the idea it is cheating, but the more we are talking the more she is coming round to the idea (but very slowly). However the more I think about it I prefer the cuckolding idea -- that she has complete control of when and who she fucks and maybe even exclude me from a meeting. She has even said to me she would find it more awkward if I was watching her with another guy so she might also be moving in this direction.
I am therefore looking for how others got into the lifestyle